Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

There are many posts that often ask "What should I do"? after it is explained what the situation is. I mean so many are about cheating, abusive, and other very clear and present misery situations.

I wonder how many that have asked such questions feel they have a sense of what Moral paths they should take and already have "strong gut" feelings already.

I mean is common sense and logic not a trait of most humans anymore? Especially in the Marriage and Divorce Department.

I think it's good for all of us to get input, feedback, and ideas on some or many of our issues where we are perplexed. I do myself, but, I can't believe that some of the Questions asked here really are that hard for one to answer what the right answer and choice should be.

My Q:? What Percentage do you think you or those of you that answer feel that too many people ask Questions where the answer is obvious.

My own answer would be at least 70% of the people that ask what to do should know already.

2007-03-15 18:01:38 · 8 answers · asked by The Sylvan Wizard 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ppl keep telling me I should never let him back...but I really do love him so I'm sorry, but I will if he wants to, but yes...I will do some tests to see if he does want me back...so my question is, what kind of tests are there to see if he really does want you and wat results do you want?

2007-03-15 18:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Singles & Dating

I make a lot more money than my husband does and he feels that we shouldn't split expenses in the middle but rather break it up based on our income. I've worked really hard to get where I am today and I don't feel is fair. Thoughts?

2007-03-15 18:00:23 · 24 answers · asked by 2Tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating now for about a month and a half. It seems like i am not really that important to him. He is really serious about school and is studying a lot and when he's not doing that, he is hanging out with his friends. I only get to see him like once a week maybe and we don't really talk that much. I know he doesn't have anyone else and I would really like to stay with him because I really like him. However, it is really hard because it doesn't really seem like he is interested even though he says he is. I'm afraid to talk to him about it because I don't want him to think I want to break up.

2007-03-15 18:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by rae r 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant ,but he doesn't want to get any responsiblity.i knew him for 3 months,i try to keep the baby,i told him everything nice,so that can keep the baby,but he doesn't care.i think i am wrong and situpid to say that?being a woman and mother,am so sad that i can't keep my baby,because it iwill be very diffecult for me if i am alone.am hopeless for life.

2007-03-15 18:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by fire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 17:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Young Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the state of Montana, if a father is listed as such on his child's birth certificate, but he is not married to the mother, does he have to file an acknowledgment of paternity in court or does the birth certificate serve the same purpose? The child has the father's last name and spends part of every week with him...

2007-03-15 17:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by redmercury82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I had a small ceremony and not all of our friends and family could be there. Now, on our two year anniversary, we are having a renewal of vows and reception so we can get everyone together to celebrate. We would also like to include both of our sets of parents on the invitation, but my parents are the ones hosting the event. Just to make things a little more complicated, our last name is not the same as either of our parents'. What should I write?

2007-03-15 17:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Weddings

So me, a friend and this girl who's friends with my friend went to see a movie yesterday and we kinda started holding hands which ended up at the end of the night as kissing, not like little grandma kisses, more like long kisses kisses. When I dropped her off at home with my friend its waqs just kind of like "cya later". So today I think I cought her off guard but I asked if yesterday ment anything. She said she didnt know and that it caught her really off guard. Then I asked her if she wanted to see a movie with another of my friends. She said sure but not to expect anything to happen again. So I asked her if she liked me as a friend and she said of cource then I asked if there could be more and she said she didnt know. She said not right now and theres no for sure and she didnt want to lead me on too much since its totally contradictory to last night... at first its like shes not sure then it goes to theres nothing there right now. She did say she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow.

2007-03-15 17:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

This woman another friend set me up with is 24 I'm 37. Is there any problem with age differences? So far we click and seem attracted to each other. What would be the best way to make this work? Has any one else been a similar situation?

2007-03-15 17:58:04 · 22 answers · asked by parkster1969 1 in Singles & Dating

We kissed after a work function a few months ago. That is when our relationship started. We are not physical. But we send each other long personal emails. His fiancee does not know about me and we have hung out outside of work a number of times. Is it okay that we have this kind of relationship? Is it considered cheating? I have feelings for him but I would like to remain friends with him. What do I do?

2007-03-15 17:57:11 · 18 answers · asked by torn 1 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl from camp and she very close to me..problems is i'm a girl...and she has boyfriend..now the camp is over and i miss her so much..i hope i heard her voice everyday... i think i love her more than friend,,since she the one who company me when i'm in trouble/...her smile can make me smila too..am i a bisexual?I also have feelin for men...

2007-03-15 17:56:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sorry....I dont have any idea coz Iam still virgin right now at my age of 22. BTW I'm a female.

2007-03-15 17:56:24 · 13 answers · asked by ashLey 2 in Singles & Dating

1. Yes, definitely!

2. No f---in way!

3. Only if there's no cheating at all

2007-03-15 17:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive always trusted my gal when she says she loves me and doesnt have her eye on any other guy. I just am kinda questioning her relationship with one of her friends. The guys a nice guy, ive even been over to his house a few times. He stays with his sister who also is friends with my gal. I get angry when she goes over there because she stays there til 3-4am drinkin. I do know that they have done coke over there and if they have it, she will probably do it. Her and her friends say they dont always do coke, they mostly sit around and talk an drink. Now my girlfriend is very friendly and has many friends and guy friends. I've known this since we met. Its just i dont like the fact that shes hangin out of there at that time. Who knows whats happenin. I mean what is there to talk about so late? Now if she has cheated with him, why does she keep me around? All we've been doin is arguing. And why r we trying to work things out? Or could it be what i really fear, her developing feelings for him

2007-03-15 17:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if shes the one you want?

2007-03-15 17:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we'vee been going out for about two months now, but he still says on his voicemail "im not here, leave me a message. April, i love you." that's his ex! ive asked him about it but he says he just hasnt had time to change it. what does that mean? he's had two months two change it!

2007-03-15 17:55:15 · 13 answers · asked by littlemoments 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:54:23 · 3 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Singles & Dating

im 25 and i have 2 sons but my parents raised 4 daughters and my dad was always harder on my nephews and my mom was always harder on us girls ..she always said boys parents dont have to worry about there daughters getting pregnant..Well i see it like this ..girls can only get pregnant one pregnancy at a time but boys can go out and get 3-4 or more girls pregnant at once ..would u rather have ur daughter pregnant or your son out there spreading his seed and possibily getting more then one girl pregnant at one time?...am i the only one who thinks like this?

2007-03-15 17:54:18 · 13 answers · asked by touchmeforever2004 2 in Family

gap

2007-03-15 17:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend of 1yr made a key to my house without my permission!!!!!

None of his belongings are at my house and he only sleeps over maybe 2 times a week. Not to mention he has no business over there while im not there and if he did want to be over there all he had to do was ask for my key.

i dont want to flip out on him, im so surprised he's usually so considerate. he asks me before doing little stuff, why would he think he could just make a key to my place and not tell me? Giving somebody the key to your place is like a milestone in your relationship not something you take upon yourself to do.
all i did was ask for it back i havent really addressed why he did it because i dont want to get too upset. What would you say?

2007-03-15 17:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Singles & Dating

I think dat rocker/Skaters are hot well some of dem so I want gurl opinions!

2007-03-15 17:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by Gamecutie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's quite nice,when he's not around his friend that is, but I have liked him for a long time, and know I am getting the felling to ask him out...i am not oo sure he likes me,but do know that we talk and used to give hints that we liked eachother, but I know that maybe I'm wrong that he even likes me.He tells his firend stuff, but I think he is stopping, and his friend and I are getting pretty much along.He's really nice.

Don't take this the way in which you think that he is the type that likes girls and is immature about it.Or that, he is sending his firend to me to talk to me.I know he is not, and I am starting to think that he just sees me as Vianney.

2007-03-15 17:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Brandon came over last night and brought some vodka over and we were taking shots i had four shots and i was waisted i couldent stand up straight. and i asked brandon to go find me something more comfortable to put on so he got me my pink lingeria. and he was sitting by the bed rubbing my leg and my shoulder and every time he whould go to do that he whould touch my b*** and then i couldent help my self we started kissing and i told him i couldent so i told him i wanted to go take a bath so he took me in their and sat there tell i was done and then i went to my bed and i threw up and then david layed with me tell i went to sleep and then left.

2007-03-15 17:49:35 · 4 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I lied to a friend on myspace about being something I am really, not meaning I created another profile and she wants to know if its is me on both of them, she gave me that :she wont get mad if both accounts are mine but I dont believe her. Its not like I know her but she is a good friend. I dont want to tell the truth instead I just want to give her the cold shoulder tell her it isnt important and delete her as a friend. Is that a good idea?

2007-03-15 17:49:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well he broke up with me twice...and now he says he needs to grow up first before he can take care of me in a good relationship and I really felt like he was never coming back, but today...he told me he was still here and he told me to trust him. does that mean he want me back or is he just stringing me along?

2007-03-15 17:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Singles & Dating

I remember when me and my brother were little ..he was pushing me in a grocery cart too fast and it tipped over...and boy did my dad ever tan our hides. lol

2007-03-15 17:48:28 · 22 answers · asked by Bark at the Moon 6 in Family