I am pregnant ,but he doesn't want to get any responsiblity.i knew him for 3 months,i try to keep the baby,i told him everything nice,so that can keep the baby,but he doesn't care.i think i am wrong and situpid to say that?being a woman and mother,am so sad that i can't keep my baby,because it iwill be very diffecult for me if i am alone.am hopeless for life.
2007-03-15 18:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just keep the baby and break up with him. he just want sex not love. that's why sex out of wedlock is not allowed becuse this problem will arise.
2007-03-15 18:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy just wanted to have sex with you. Keep the baby and leave him. The abortion of your child is just not worth that fool. A real guy that loved you would have asked for your hand in marriage b4 having sex. And if he really cared about you he would have put on a condom.
2007-03-16 01:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Karmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his responsibility. You could sue him for child support. I think that giving the baby up for adoption is a good idea if you really feel comfortable with it, but it sounds to me like you don't. I think you should really research your options before you make a decision, and talk to your mom or whoever raised you. They normally know you best, and can help you make the best decision for you. Don't depend on the loser though, but do make sure his name makes it on the birth certificate if possible.
2007-03-16 01:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if he doesn't want any part of the baby, then leave him. don't beg him to face the responsibility. you will regret it so much later on. that kind of a guy is not worth spending a life time with.
you can still survive without him. raise the child on your own. surely your family will help you. but you have to be strong for you and your child's future.
2007-03-16 01:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what number are you!!! He only wants sex, whether with you or some one else. He does care about you or your difficulties. He just does not want to grow up and be responsible. It also seems you have a low self esteem to think you need some one in you life, so you could be happy. If you can't be happy alone, getting with him, be ready for a rough ride.
2007-03-16 01:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is right for you and this baby, he has
responsibility rather he want to or not. don't make any
decision with out talking to someone about this.
2007-03-16 01:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋