we'vee been going out for about two months now, but he still says on his voicemail "im not here, leave me a message. April, i love you." that's his ex! ive asked him about it but he says he just hasnt had time to change it. what does that mean? he's had two months two change it!
2007-03-15 17:55:15 · 13 answers · asked by littlemoments 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means absolutely nothing. My son left the girl he was living with and a year later, his machine still has HER greeting on it. He's just lazy. He doesn't hear it. People who call him hear it.
2007-03-15 18:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his voicemail. How often do you think he hears that message? He might not even know what it says unless you remind him. And you two have only been going out for 2 months. Its really not that much time. Pick your battles especially if this is the only thing. If hes not talking to her all the time let it go. Mention it to him but dont get worked up over it.
2007-03-15 18:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him that it bothers you? He needs to know how having a shout out to an ex on his answering machine is making you feel. If he is over her and really wants to be with you he will change it. It has also been 2 months, he has had plenty of time in TWO MONTHS to change a message on an answering machine. I don't think he is ready to give up his last relationship and possibly not ready to fully give himself to start another.
2007-03-15 17:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could sit here and say dont let It bother you but we both know It does. Just tell him hey I dont like calling your voicemail and hearing that every time. If he doesnt change It then you need to talk to him and find out why he wont. And If he gives you the same lame *** exuse he has been then offer to change It yourself. Either way If he is with you then she needs to be out of the picture In all aspects. Good luck
2007-03-15 18:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 14:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by rocca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's rediculous. it's a piss-poor excuse saying he hasn't had time. you can make sure he has time, next time you guys are together, ask him to do it then. he will definitely have time since you are together and he probably isn't doing anything else at the time. if he still finds an excuse, be very careful in getting too attached. usually when people break up, that is one of the first things they do, is get rid of things like that, unless they are holding onto something.
maybe he really hasn't found time, but next time you are together, you can be sure the time has found him.... good luck.
2007-03-15 18:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cut him a break - maybe he really doesn't have time to change it. But you should definitely try to catch him when he DOES have time and get him to change it. Why would he want his ex on his voicemail?
2007-03-15 17:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he is still into his ex. i've been there and done that before. I had a gf who refused to change her password or take down pictures and put up pictures of us. turned out when her ex came to visit from another country, she dumped me and wanted her back! bitches
2007-03-15 18:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to find a new boyfriend, he not over his ex. you right
he has two months to change his machine.
2007-03-15 17:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a guy, he was born lazy. next time you're with him, ask him to change it then and there. hopefully, hes just been forgetful.
2007-03-15 17:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋