Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

My white wedding dress has a bit of silver threading on it which is not too prominent, but it's definitely silver. I was so in love with the dress that I didn't consider how this would look with my gold jewlery. I'm more of a gold than a silver person. Can I wear gold jewelry with a white wedding dress with some silver threading?

2007-03-15 18:36:11 · 17 answers · asked by hhhh 4 in Weddings

she was just not born with the mommy jean! brooke sheilds is a perfect example, if she is was....GIVE ME A BREAK, WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL THE LOSERS THAT JUDGE MY FRIEND?????

2007-03-15 18:35:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this boyfriend, we were together for 3 years. That time, I was so in love with him. We broke up because of a third party, meaning it was one bitter break up. But i was determined to get over him. And after 3 years and another relationship (well, that relationship has ended too, but that would be another story), I am confident I am over him, and I really am (one nice thing about the internet, is unlike my friends who would say im just defensive, i dont have to defend that indeed im really over him). Now, my ex and I got reconnected because of the nature of our work. We talk like good old friends, except bring up the past. My question is, is it normal that I think we refrain from talking about his girlfriend (who is the cause of the break-up) or their affair for that matter? Any thoughts would really be appreciated. Thank you.

2007-03-15 18:35:24 · 1 answers · asked by bellepepper 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, because, I heard of people go crazy when they fall in love. Or they die of a broken heart. You can love someone and they can turn around and use you or hurt you. Is love even real.. I know you can care about someone. But love the way it use, seem kinda of fake..

2007-03-15 18:34:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've went on three dates with a girl and didn't make a serious move or told her i liked her. if she decided to go out with me three dates, that means she like me, right?

2007-03-15 18:34:26 · 14 answers · asked by Lost Drifter 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 18:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by Peacen 3 in Friends

The reason I liked her in the first place is because she said she liked me online after two weeks of us talking, then I was excited because I felt good that someone finally liked me. I asked her how she felt about me the next day, then she said she didn't really know, she had too many boys in her life and didn't know how to handle it. After a month she told me she didn't liked me but I still liked her. So I kept talking to her hoping she would eventually change her mind and give me a chance. After a while I noticed she was everything I've looked for in a girl and I fell in love with her. After 4 months of us talking she told me she was falling in love with someone else, whom she gave a chance and not me, and that a couple of her friends were falling in love too. I implied to her that I was falling in love with her and she kept asking me who. Then she asked if it was with her, but I felt I shouldn't say so online so I changed the subject and found out we were unknowingly both watching

2007-03-15 18:32:19 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my exgirlfriend and want her back. We have been broken up for about a year. She gives me signals but don't know how to take them. Like I told her that i didn't want to talk to her any more so I could moe on with my life. But that onlylasted for about a mounth. Then got drunk and called her. We talked for a couple min. The next day she called me and asked me if we were friends again. I said that i didn't know and she said well can we still have sex. I didn't act on this because i didn't know if she was testing me or not. we have hong out for the past two weeks. But she says she just wants to be friends. What are my chances at get bake with her

2007-03-15 18:32:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 13 years and it has not always been easy. I grew up in a home where my dad cherish and adored my mom and lavished her with so much like roses diamonds trips away from the kids dinner out once a week they will be married 49 years in late spring she has never had to worry in her younger years ever and she never had to work outside the home.

Is it normal not to always be connected to your spouse, it is normal not to like eachother at times, is it normal to feel that you feel taken for granted?

I just got some bad news today which felt like a swift kick between the legs and as a result things are going to be very tight finacially until we get better jobs.

I would never get divorced but I can see why people do because marraige is hard and it is not the easy when things are so damn expensive.

What are good godly ways to "suck it up" and deal with the punches life gives out how can I not tkae life and trials so personally in our marraige?

2007-03-15 18:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 18:30:43 · 21 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm graduating in a few months, and I'm pretty scared. I'm excited for college, but I love my high school. IF it weren't for choir, theatre, my teachers, and a few really close friends...I'd be completely thrilled to leave! But I don't know how I'm going to give these things up. I have one or two friends that I can't imagine (or don't want to imagine) giving up. I know that next year I'm going to make lots of new friends, but right now, that's not very comforting. I have some really, really close relationships. Right now, I don't really need encouragment about how great next year is going to be...I get enough of that. I just want to hear about some real life stories about staying connected with best friends from high school. Have any of you stayed in close contact?

2007-03-15 18:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by mars 3 in Friends

Ok, to try and make an long story short, I was phones buddys with this guy. We become really, really, cool. He lived in another state, but turn out he was from where I stay. I would say I was talking with him for like maybe two months every night. So later he told me he was moving back to the city. So the day he was about to leave he call and was telling he was driving back home, and that he was getting his cell cut off since
he was getting a new number.Well, days has turn into weeks and weeks into months. And I just can't seem to let it go. Did something happen to him? Did he make it home? All I have is a disconnect cell number and his full name. I've try those website but they want money and I think its all fake.

2007-03-15 18:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this one friend who I got close to because we both had fun together. As we started talking more, she started talking like me and acting like me. When she joined this one after school club I asked her to join with me [thinking it would be fun], she started talking like me in front of my friends to get laughs, tells stupid jokes and acts stupid on purpose to get laughs, flirts around with all the guys, and laughs really loudly to get attention. I'M SO ANNOYED BY HER, I CAN'T STAND IT. People say I talk like her, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW SHE TALKS LIKE ME. When I'm around her, I don't want to be myself anymore and I just turn quiet. I don't people mixing me up with her. I mean, it wasn't a big deal at first, but after a while, it builds up. And you can't help but either to compete with her for attention or just ignore her as much as you can. How can I deal with someone like her? She's okay when it's just me and her. & please dont say "try talking to her" cus I did, & she just gets mad.

2007-03-15 18:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by abcjosiee 2 in Friends

I am a mature women and that she dont want me around no more. I dont understand why she said that. I am crippled and handy capped but that should not matter. She said that the only way that my other sister and mother could have a relationship is when I am dead. I am so sad that someone would want me to be dead in order to have my mom as a part of her life. How should I think of it.

2007-03-15 18:29:19 · 11 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Singles & Dating

So me, a friend and this girl who's friends with my friend went to see a movie yesterday and we kinda started holding hands which ended up at the end of the night as kissing, not like little grandma kisses, more like long kisses kisses. When I dropped her off at home with my friend its waqs just kind of like "cya later". So today I think I cought her off guard but I asked if yesterday ment anything. She said she didnt know and that it caught her really off guard. Then I asked her if she wanted to see a movie with another of my friends. She said sure but not to expect anything to happen again. So I asked her if she liked me as a friend and she said of cource then I asked if there could be more and she said she didnt know. She said not right now and theres no for sure and she didnt want to lead me on too much since its totally contradictory to last night... at first its like shes not sure then it goes to theres nothing there right now. She did say she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow.

2007-03-15 18:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i sneek on my husbands myspace and there is always new freind request from different women in bathen suites. he doesnt seem like the one too cheat. should i be worried? is it just stupid pop ups? all the girls are from different states than ours. or what could be the cause of these girls sendind freind request?

2007-03-15 18:28:00 · 17 answers · asked by BB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 18:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by lisa b 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and 3 months. We've had a long distance of 6 hours for about 1 year and 7 months. We see eachother once every 4 weeks. I can't get accepted to her university and she wants to go to Austrailia to study abroad for 6 months. Is it reasonable to ask for a break and go our own ways for a while and if we somehow get back together then we know it was ment to be?

2007-03-15 18:27:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok to make a long story short....he is always saying that I am the one for him but yet, he talks to a lot of other girls online and on the phone. I am supposed to be marrying this guy and I LOVE HIM and dont hide anything from him...HELP

2007-03-15 18:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by sunshineprincess1988 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20 years old, and I am still at home. I am going to college and will still be here for about another year. At that time I will move out after college, I have a really good relationship with my parents, and it seems like they want me to live here till im 40.I love them both verymuch and wouldnt want to hurt them but when I move out I wanna move to nyc. Im from a small town and my parents think that im gonna stay here even though Ive told them I wanna live there.Its very important to me, but now Im starting to have second thoughts, what if when I get married they wont get to see my kids. everyone is leaving them and I feel horrible about it.....what should I do? I want them to be happy, but I wanna leave here and see whats out there. Ive already been in nyc and LOVED it there....what do I do?

2007-03-15 18:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by william e 1 in Family

I feel in love when I'm with here, and when I'm away I'm perplexed, I miss her, but in a strange way, as if I'm in a waiting zone, I can't do anything while I'm away, and when I'm with here I feel relieved, as if I can breathe again! Sometimes I feel insecure but when I'm with here, her eyes and smile, make me feel safe!! What's wrong with me?!

2007-03-15 18:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by WHITE KNIGHT 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend seems to be very promiscuous.... she went for ages without a bf and then when she got one it was my cousin... well I dont blame her for dumping him cuz he was just like my dad... very controlling in ways... but before she dumped him she was seeing this other guy behind his back. Wait I am getting ahead of myself... she went out with my cousin for about a month and then she was having sex with him and then before she broke up with my cousin she was having sex with another guy. Then she set up a myspace acct and was talking to ppl on there and she posted a pic of herself in a skimpy bikini... then while she was having sex with this one guy that she cheated on my cousin with she was also having sex with another guy too. Then she stopped because she got a different bf who was 10 yrs her sr she was only 19 and he was 29 and still lived at home with his rents... no intention of moving out... and she had sex with him shortly after they started going out.

2007-03-15 18:26:03 · 9 answers · asked by tears fall softly 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the only friend of a 82 years old man, i am 29 years old, he has no children, only 2 elderly brother and 1 nephew, his family rarely come and visit him, he has no wife either. I honestly care about him and i often go shopping for him and taking him to the doctor visit. He calls me 'grand daughter', and i just took him out last weekend to his favourite restaurant. The problem is that i am not very weathy ( i work very hard), do you think my elderly friend will help me out and leave me somthing one day?

2007-03-15 18:26:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Anybody know him? Know where I can find him? Know how to reach him? Anything?

2007-03-15 18:24:54 · 2 answers · asked by Mom Sparrow 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've a friend who studied with me about 4 yrs,,we facing our teen life together..but now she already quit from her study..n get married..she leaved me without any news...i've wish her birthday last month..but she didn't reply my message..till now..but i know that she always contact with other friends and tell them about my weaknesses..im so upset with her...

wht should i do?
plz help me,it will effect my emotion n my study...

2007-03-15 18:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by tashadenatasha 2 in Friends

Ok, so i really like thiz girl, and i think she may like me back... but im not sure. She iz really nice and i dono if she iz just being nice to me cuz thaz how she iz. We hung out for the first time a couple nights ago and watched a movie and stuff, cuddled and all that. At the end of the night she gave me a little kiss on the lips. I know it may sound like a given that she likes me, but whats the best way to know for sure? and oh yea... shes a stripper. and the reason why she waz calling me in the 1st place waz to tell me she doesnt work at the club anymore. So whats the best way to tell if she really feels something for me or she iz jes being nice?

2007-03-15 18:23:20 · 7 answers · asked by Mr.XXX 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 18:21:56 · 26 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to know if this boy at school still likes me? He has thought I was hot for a long time. Now I have classes with him this year & he talks to my friends. Then he told my friends he "liked" me. not just hot. I liked him too so we started talking. Well he had a gf but they broke up recently & she is the stalker type that begs him back, & he told me he didn't know if he would get back with her. Well she takes his phone sometimes, & one day I texted him when she had his phone. She ended up calling my phone asking who I was, she said she asked him but he was panicking and getting scared & didn't want to tell her. I assured her we were just friends so she wouldn't flip out & start drama & so he wouldnt be busted. Well this was a week ago & I haven't talked to him since. I dont know how to get ahold of him b/c she might still have his phone & we are on break so i cant see him at school. he hasnt called either but i told his ex-gf i have a bf so maybe his ex said something to him?

2007-03-15 18:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by pinkfreezerstick 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 18:21:02 · 8 answers · asked by beeutifulbumbleb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 18:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating