sometimes i sneek on my husbands myspace and there is always new freind request from different women in bathen suites. he doesnt seem like the one too cheat. should i be worried? is it just stupid pop ups? all the girls are from different states than ours. or what could be the cause of these girls sendind freind request?
2007-03-15 18:28:00 · 17 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think that you husband is handsome, so do other women...
Also, like most, your husband probably likes the attention too. Obviously, if he is the one getting the invites, then he definitely doesn't have any intentions...so, relax. Let others be jealous. After all his profile says that he is married, right?
2007-03-15 18:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband gets like 10 of those a day, it has nothing to do with him and everything to do with stupid Spam Bots, they are not real people and if they are they are trying to sign you up for something or other stupid things. Some real women are what you could consider Myspace W*hores. They want as many friends as they can get. He is not cheating on you, and stop worrying about his myspace, you have no trust in him. I have my husband's permission and password and I go on there about 1 time a month as he can't very often and he talks to friends and so I see how they are doing and such.
2007-03-16 02:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...you shouldn't be worried about myspace. I get the same thing all the time, women in skimpy ss's, and I'm female....
9 times out of 10, if you'll go read their profiles, they are nothing more than bots, selling sex........or selling diet aids, selling different crap, looking to hook someone up through singles websites, yadda yadda yadda....
If your going to sneak onto his myspace, the thing I would worry about would be the "real people" he has loaded on his page, versus's the ones that he gets request from......those are the profiles that you need to read...(if you don't know them)
BTW, why are you having to sneak? Why don't you just make yourself a profile on there also. You can read his comments, click on the persons profile that left the comment to see if he's replied...
Its really not that hard to see where people have been on your computer....lol, its all in if you know what your looking for....
2007-03-16 01:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you look for trouble, you'll find it. What does a guy need to look like to determine if he'll cheat, this is a new one that could be clarified. He has a setup in an "online dating service" to be receiving these e-mails from females requesting their "friendship". Some guys are openly letting females that they just want a friend or a casual fling because of their being married, so, only you can find out what his site is really about. Maybe time will help you in finding out before it's too late if you'll just ask him what does he be doing online and to show you his setup. If he declines, there's reason for worry.
2007-03-16 01:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends on my space don't mean a thing. Its just a popularity contest. People just asked to be added on so they can say that they have this many people on their list. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Thats why I hate Myspace and don't use it.
2007-03-16 01:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cause is your husband, and you need to kick his butt before all this gets out of hand. Most affairs start this way. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but he's either thinking of cheating, cheating, or a pervert.
2007-03-16 01:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trust him. If your gut instinct tells you he doesn't seem like the type to cheat, he probably isn't. Those women are just trying to make money. Ignore them. He probably is.
2007-03-16 01:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is talking to them. OR maybe he's just looking. That would make me feel like crap if it was my husband doing that, but at least he's not cheating. But I really don't know, it seems kinda funny. Ask him about it, you have the right to.
2007-03-16 01:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have nothing in the world to worry about! i am a girl and i get that too. it is just from people that looked at his profile and liked it.
2007-03-16 01:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by MomOf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me and I found that sort of thing on the computer, I would delete it all and if possible cancel the programme altogether that it comes from without telling him. He probably won't say anything about it to you, but if he does, just say that you thought that it was some unwanted programme invading you computer and that you cancelled it because you knew he wouldn't like that sort of thing.
2007-03-16 01:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋