I would like to know if this boy at school still likes me? He has thought I was hot for a long time. Now I have classes with him this year & he talks to my friends. Then he told my friends he "liked" me. not just hot. I liked him too so we started talking. Well he had a gf but they broke up recently & she is the stalker type that begs him back, & he told me he didn't know if he would get back with her. Well she takes his phone sometimes, & one day I texted him when she had his phone. She ended up calling my phone asking who I was, she said she asked him but he was panicking and getting scared & didn't want to tell her. I assured her we were just friends so she wouldn't flip out & start drama & so he wouldnt be busted. Well this was a week ago & I haven't talked to him since. I dont know how to get ahold of him b/c she might still have his phone & we are on break so i cant see him at school. he hasnt called either but i told his ex-gf i have a bf so maybe his ex said something to him?
2007-03-15 18:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by pinkfreezerstick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In general, if you have to ask then the answer in no.
2007-03-15 18:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by HeartOfGlass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... that wasnt a good idea saying you have a boyfriend. I dont know how old you are but I think you should have just been like " LOOK GIRL!, he's my boyfriend now, so GET OVER IT!". You shouldnt have let a week passed without trying to call again either. But then again, why hasnt HE called you? Maybe he is with her again, especially since you told her you are just his friend and have a BF. He probley was hurt because you said you were just friends and didnt have the guts to tell his EX you ARE his GF now.
Honestly, I think you should forget about him... cause he didnt even care to call you back after a week... so yea... I'm sorry bout what happend to you, but I have a feeling you are very young.
2007-03-16 01:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by youronlyhope85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is probably still interested in her or maybe even back with her by now. It just seems to me that if he really was "over her" that she wouldn't have his phone in the first place because it would not be any of her business who he was speaking to on the phone. It also seems a little strange to me that he got panicky when she called you and did not want her to know about you. If he does not want to be with her then he should not care about still trying to please her by not talking to other girls. I just think if he was really moving on and didn't want her bugging him so much he could just tell her.
2007-03-16 01:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly's Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with this guy and move on. Obviously, he's not done with her or she wouldn't have his phone. Guys know how to get rid of girls they don't want around. Could she have overpowered him and taken away his phone? I doubt it. That leaves me thinking he's not really done yet and if you persue him you'll just look needy. Go do things that you enjoy and stay busy. Nothing's more attractive than a busy, happy girl. If not him at a later date, you'll meet another guy.
2007-03-16 01:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Annie D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does but is now faced with a decision of who he wants. When you see him at school make it seem cool that his girlfriend called you by saying " i saved your *** by lieing about having a boyfriend." he will see that your cool headed and will help make his decision a little easier by realizing that you would be an understanding girlfriend and not a control freak like this other girl. you can also drop a hint like "too bad you got a gurl" :)
2007-03-16 01:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should try to call him on a pay phone or some type of phone that she could not see your name so if she has the phone you'll know. (why are they still friends she sounds like a phyco!)
2007-03-16 01:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, teen bliss....Sorry to tell you this, young lady, but you need to move on. He is with her, whether for good or bad. And you are also playing a game. "Oh, we're just friends"... Yeah, right! Be honest with yourself. He is a player and loved the attention till it backfired on him...and you, as well. All 3 of you are playing "head-games" and don't want to own-up. A rose is a rose is a rose is .......
2007-03-16 01:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with that lady above. if you have to write all that out and ask, the answer is no.
if he really liked you, believe me, you'd know. Guys don't play games. they're pretty obvious about stuff like that.
2007-03-16 01:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When break is over you will see him again, hold your horses. You can talk to him then.
2007-03-16 01:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kirstin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋