I have this boyfriend, we were together for 3 years. That time, I was so in love with him. We broke up because of a third party, meaning it was one bitter break up. But i was determined to get over him. And after 3 years and another relationship (well, that relationship has ended too, but that would be another story), I am confident I am over him, and I really am (one nice thing about the internet, is unlike my friends who would say im just defensive, i dont have to defend that indeed im really over him). Now, my ex and I got reconnected because of the nature of our work. We talk like good old friends, except bring up the past. My question is, is it normal that I think we refrain from talking about his girlfriend (who is the cause of the break-up) or their affair for that matter? Any thoughts would really be appreciated. Thank you.
2007-03-15 18:35:24 · 1 answers · asked by bellepepper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes that is normal. It's a touchy subject and will always be weather you are over him or not. It something that caused you pain. But on the other hand, it will give you some closure if you do.
2007-03-15 18:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋