Do I have a chance?

Question

So me, a friend and this girl who's friends with my friend went to see a movie yesterday and we kinda started holding hands which ended up at the end of the night as kissing, not like little grandma kisses, more like long kisses kisses. When I dropped her off at home with my friend its waqs just kind of like "cya later". So today I think I cought her off guard but I asked if yesterday ment anything. She said she didnt know and that it caught her really off guard. Then I asked her if she wanted to see a movie with another of my friends. She said sure but not to expect anything to happen again. So I asked her if she liked me as a friend and she said of cource then I asked if there could be more and she said she didnt know. She said not right now and theres no for sure and she didnt want to lead me on too much since its totally contradictory to last night... at first its like shes not sure then it goes to theres nothing there right now. She did say she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow.

Im trying to decide if that means she could be interested and I may have a chance. Or if she just wants to hang out as friends. Either way I need to drive with her for about 20 minutes by ourselves tomorrow any tips on what I should say to not make the drive 100% akward lol?

Answer 1

Honestly, I think she just wants to be friends with you but she wants you to be interested in her beyond being friends. Why? Because like she said, she doesn't know.

She doesn't know because she has a different expectation of who she wants to date seriously. This probably means she is waiting for someone better or she's waiting to see something about you that would make her interested. One thing is for sure, she is cautious.

There's a hint for you. She doesn't want to jump in any relationship with someone she doesn't know very well. All you could do right now is get to know her and be genuinely interested in getting to know her. Do not rush her, let it flow. If anything happens, good. If not, well, at least you tried. You never know where it goes until you try.

For your next "date" or whatever she calls it, don't talk about it. Obviously, she doesn't want to talk about it with the "I don't know" answers. Instead, talk about your goals in life, where you want to be, what you want to be, what you like to do, and things that she can talk about, too. It will let her know whether she should be interested in you or not.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Maybe she got carried away and is feeling uncomfortable about that? Don't push her. Just be a nice guy, ask her to do casual things and give her some space. Do some fun things with her and if it doesn't turn out to be a romance, at least you've seen a few good movies.

Answer 3

Wow, thats tough! Ummm, I would give you the advice of us girls, every time a girl says I dont know, and if she keeps staring you mostly every time, she might have a samll crush on you. This is where you come in! You have to get her alone, and say how you feel, and tell her that you need to know because every day is like a knife stabbing you in the heart. Say your feelings! Go for it!, Trust me, wegirls love hearing that, and you might have a chance with what I heard.

Answer 4

honestly as a girl .. ive been in this place before .. she might like you but doesnt want to chance your friendship in case you guys dont make it as a couple .. the best thing you could do is to give her space .. but make sure she knows you are there .. tell her you understand and that no matter what you guys are completely great as friends and if thats what she wants then you wont bother her about it any more

Answer 5

She doesn't want you to ask her... she wants you to TELL her. Tell her what you feel. The holdig hands at the movies, kissing very sweet. She won't do that if she wasn't interested. She WOULD tell you if she made a mistake.

Answer 6

i think you totally have a chance go for it!! good luck