My friend seems to be very promiscuous.... she went for ages without a bf and then when she got one it was my cousin... well I dont blame her for dumping him cuz he was just like my dad... very controlling in ways... but before she dumped him she was seeing this other guy behind his back. Wait I am getting ahead of myself... she went out with my cousin for about a month and then she was having sex with him and then before she broke up with my cousin she was having sex with another guy. Then she set up a myspace acct and was talking to ppl on there and she posted a pic of herself in a skimpy bikini... then while she was having sex with this one guy that she cheated on my cousin with she was also having sex with another guy too. Then she stopped because she got a different bf who was 10 yrs her sr she was only 19 and he was 29 and still lived at home with his rents... no intention of moving out... and she had sex with him shortly after they started going out.
2007-03-15 18:26:03 · 9 answers · asked by tears fall softly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So she went out with him for a few months... she broke up with him one day and the next hour she already had a new bf that she was makin out with that smokes weed and what not...
2007-03-15 18:28:03 · update #1
yes I am questioning her morals... the reason that I know so much about her sex life is because she was one of my best friends and she has told me pretty much everything. We have drifted apart after since she went out with the 29 yr old. But we were really close and I do worry about her but I cannot say anything because it would be kinda hypocritical for me to do. I We have gone through much of the same things in our lives... and I too used to be a bit promiscuous but not as much mostly because I cannot bear the thought of anyone touching me as a result of my past and the things I do now
2007-03-15 18:49:22 · update #2
What she is doing is usually symptoms of low self esteem. For sure, she doesn't value her body. Maybe, her body or physical appearance is all she thinks she has going for her. Was she sexually abused when she was younger. Many times victims of sexual abuse will become promiscuous. She sounds like she is headed no where really fast. Have you tried talking to her about it? She needs to figure out why she has no feelings of self worth unless she is lusted over by lots of guys.
2007-03-15 18:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jesslynn
Your friend most have made you mad what did she do to you besides dump you. Is she fat? Did a guy just dump her before this happen. Sounds like some thing has changed in her life?
If you are a real friend ask her if you can help her. Ask her what has gone wrong that she is acting this way. Tell her you are her friend but worry about her because of STD. and the way she is acting. Do not give out her phone # to the guys on this site.
2007-03-15 18:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how it is that you know so much about your friend's sex life. I am not the kind to pass any judgement, but by what you have told us here, she is a sexually active female, and I wonder why in this day and age that so many females only think it is men "who think with their genitals." I do not think your question is so much about her having promiscuous sex, rather than her immoral behaviour of betraying her bfs at the time.
2007-03-15 18:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hate the word slut. a woman can have sex with multiple partners and she's labled, but a guy does it he's a stud.
anyways...sounds like she is on a self-destructive path. She may have abandoment issues or some other sort of issue of that nature. she may have self esteem issues too. sounds like it to me. if you are any friend, maybe show your concerns about her behavior because of all the diseases out there and she could get pregnant and worsen her life.
2007-03-15 18:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must think it gives her power, maybe she needs a confidence boost
2007-03-15 18:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-15 18:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by rocknrollover76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After all that, you still have to ask if she's a slut?
2007-03-15 18:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mind your own business
2007-03-15 18:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooo i like Slu* can you get her number
2007-03-15 18:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋