ppl keep telling me I should never let him back...but I really do love him so I'm sorry, but I will if he wants to, but yes...I will do some tests to see if he does want me back...so my question is, what kind of tests are there to see if he really does want you and wat results do you want?
2007-03-15 18:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...he broke up with me twice...and he says he loves me but I'm afraid he doesn't and that he's stringing me along. I noe I love him...I need tests to prove to ppl and my heart that he loves me too
2007-03-15 18:09:32 · update #1
Where he takes me out to dinner. If he takes me to Carl's Jr. then he understand me, but if he takes me to a fancy resteraunt he has no clue.
What music he plays when we hang out. If it's NDDP, Le Petit Prince, garou, Celine Dion or Sir Elton John then he gets me, if not then he avoids the obvious.
If we're sitting down on the floor together and he grabs a book. If it's my favorite chapter from Notre-Dame De Paris then he obviously really understands me. If it's the newest edition of Harry Potter then I'd just get up and leave.
When we choose a movie to watch. If he asks me for my input and we make some form of compromise then at least he's trying. If he doesn't even ask me what I want to see then I either get up off the couch and leave, or I don't go to the movies with him.
When he wants to tell me how much he cares about me...instead of saying some simple cookie cutter "I love you" he says "I understand you."
When he can recite my favorite quotes from the book, Notre-Dame De Paris in French he has a chance...if he recites some sappy overdone piece from Romeo&Juliette, then we're done.
Although I'd like to say"I don't have criteria for a guy" I do.
2007-03-15 18:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him at arms length. Go on dates again - 1 or 2 nites a week. No hanging out, watching tv like the old days. Let him COURT you. Let him SHOW that he's sincere. No sex, (not until the test results come back) (and LOOK at them). Read "The Rules". It might be free at the library but I recommend buying it - I refer to it from time to time.
2007-03-16 01:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test only tell you what MIGHT be on his mind. but u can never be abosolutely sure. they way i see it u have 2 options
1) You could confront him and try to work things out.
2) You could move on. find a new love, hang wit your girlfriends more, spend time with family, work, anything to get your mind off of him
2007-03-16 01:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to "test" someone then what you feel is NOT love. You just don't want to be alone...that's not a good enough reason to allow someone else to walk all over you.
2007-03-16 01:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one should be spell check..
2007-03-16 01:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋