ok so to start off my bf and i have been dating for about 4 months now and have worked together for about 9 months. and now he's one of my managers. well there's this lady prolly about in her 30's that started in jan. and lately my bf has been going on break the same time as her and sitting in her car smoking cigs. with her. the first time i didnt really make too big a deal about it cuz we drove together to work and he didnt want to ask for my keys to sit in my car. usually he sits in his truck. well tonite he just disappeared and he wasnt in his truck so right away i knew he was with her and i got really upset b/c he drove tonite, so why did he have to sit in her car?? am i over reacting? oh and there was another lady that used to work with us that used to sit in his truck with him. she was atleast 40. he's 20!!! what the hell is going on? i know i have trust problems b/c of my past but i just wish i knew how to get over them. please HELP!!!!
2007-03-15 17:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by Blondie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront your man and ask him to tell you the truth cause its really bothering you
and if it doesnt sound right, you know hes lieing end it...he thinks he can use the fact that your so understanding and trusting but not all guys return the favour
but thiis means hes just using you
i doubt they are talking business on their break
maybe one day follow them and see for yourself
until then dont over react its no use stressing if you dont know the whole story behind the visit to the cars
2007-03-15 17:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Blondie my question was a joke about the boys... K no need to be harsh.. Good luck with all you problems with trust and boyfriends smokin cigs with other girls best of lucky sweetie
2007-03-16 01:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by marissa w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well. Get to know that girl and hang out with her, you work so probably out to cofeee? Get to know her see what she's all about. Then if she seems innocent, watch her a little and see if he still hangs out with her and stuff. Then after a while, confront him with it. Just be like who were you hanging out with her? And then if its just getting plain annoying and he is ALWAYS with other women. Break up with him. But before you do, talk to you real boss and tell him what is going on so that your bf won't fire you after you break up with him. He just might be pissed. Hope this helpsss, message me back or whatever if it does!
2007-03-16 00:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, smoking is bad for your health. The fact that these are all female smoking buddies of his is a bad thing for you. I can see why you'd be concerned and I don't think you're over reacting. But what can you do?
2007-03-16 00:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly understandable that you would have trust issues over this. That is kind of weird. You should definitely confront him about that. I'd be upset too!
2007-03-16 00:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u should know that cheating lyin has no age limits n yea u should get over them of course duh but u just cant over them over nite is not easy if it was them all women wouldnt have a problem when it comes 2begin in a relationship life would b easy
2007-03-16 00:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh Ooo
Watch him closely..very closely
Be smart, rational and realistic
Use your intuition (ur a woman)
Be honest with yourself and with him
See where you stand and what you still think and how you still feel after doing all these.
2007-03-16 00:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋