do you like aholes? or sweeties?
2007-03-15 17:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wish I liked the sweet ones, but I always seem to fall for the aholes. The nice ones are just too boring. Wish I was different!
2007-03-15 19:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dangerous men are only great in romance novels -- in real life, the sweeties are the only ones worth having a relationship with, they're the only ones who know how.
2007-03-15 17:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by school_daze_47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think assholes or sweeties constitute a level of danger in a man.
But to answer both sets of questions. I like sweeties. And I like men who can make me feel safe but also be impulsive.
2007-03-15 17:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tania La Güera 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women would probably say I'm a sweety & while I would rather be that then an a*hole I'm not boring & have a wild & adventurious side that often doesnt get a chance because of my nice side. I've had sex in a park during sunset while it was busy, on the side of a freeway, on the hood of a car in a church parking lot, in a movie theather, I've been in fights & hungout with thugs gangsters, skaters, taggers druggies & alcoholics. Several of my friends have died in violent deaths others od or killed themselves. I've broken the law & not just speeding or jay walking. I have friends in San Quitein which is a federal prison where the night stalker & Scott peterson now live. I was known by the police in 9 counties in my area growning up & often didnt go a friday or saturday night without some sort of incident with police. Yet I also have also offered my apartment to a female friend while I was out of town so that she & her kids could stay protected from her abusive ex bf since he didnt know me or where I lived, place it was a gated community with security & police close by & I was going to be out of town for several weeks & so she didnt have to worry about paying rent or being obligated to some how pay me back or even pay rent. I see the desire for the bad boys but especially as a good guy I have to say its easier to spice up a nice guy then tame a wild boy & safer on your heart. Especially when you've known the guy for years & yet he's never changed or pushed sex on you. Seems like the nice guy should win but I know they never do... & in the end I hope its always worth any hurt. I've been jumped because of how nice I have been to women even by several friends who didnt stay friends. Anyways I'm just as wild as any other guy just when it comes to a woman especially one I really like nothings more important then her happiness & while I'll stand up for myself or tell her that somethign she did hurt me I try to balance my needs with hers so that everyone is happy since I get mine from her being happy.
2007-03-15 17:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how dangerous? lol if living life in the edge like car racing etc is fine but if u mean dangerous as in having my life in danger coz he's violent type then no?But personally, perhaps at a young age , we rebel with "bad boys" but end of the day...i wud prefer one that is a sweetheart..like the one i have now :P Been there,done that...too old to be with a "bad boy"lol
2007-03-15 17:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Danger is definitely a plus in my eyes.
Not really sure why. I'd say I go for "bad boys" except, I fall for the really sweet ones.
The little things that I could go mad for are like the whole smoking [dumb], rebel, dangerous occupation sometimes [dumb], but always nice.
Contradicting? Maybe...lol
2007-03-15 17:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to like the bad boys, till one did something really bad to me. Then I was lucky to meet my husband. The first nice guy I ever dated. Nice guys are hard to find. My problem was I lived in the city, I found a good hard working country boy and my life is happy.
2007-03-15 17:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by LUCY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter. ANd if trying to change for the ladies. DON'T. It means yr a fake. No girl likes that. Trust me. I'v gone out with all the right guys.
2007-03-15 17:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer sweeties and intelligent, dangerous men have no future.
2007-03-15 17:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweeties, with a hint of bad-*** rebel. like guys that would fight for you, and at the same time, put his coat over a puddle of water for you. =) they're sexier that way. assholes are a complete turnoff.
2007-03-15 17:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋