Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

One of my children has a blog on myspace, i found out he was useing stimulants. it run's in my side of the family's past history.
I know the dangers of them. How do i confront him without looseing contact with him?

Ps, he lives out of state with his mom. I don't want to loose contact with him.( But i don't want to see him harm himself either. )

2007-03-15 16:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by kelly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my cousin is on illegal drugs. my friend was friends with my cousin but she is mad at him since he thinks that she is a poser. she's gonna tell MY PARETES that he is on drugs out of anger . (These are teens.) since they will tell him parents. if i want to i can tell them that my friend (the friend person who is angry w my cousin) is doing that for revenge and my cousinis not on drugs they will believe me. (NOTE: ME AND MY FRIEND WHO DOESN'T LIKE HIM KNOW THAT MY COUSIN IS ON ILLEGAL DRUGS) the reason that my friend who doesn't like my cousin woudl tell me parents is because she knows them and she has no idea where my cousin's parents are (they live FAR) or even their phone # so she would tell my parents so they would tell me cousin's parents. i have access to my cousin's parents phone #. i don't know if i should let my friend go messing with my parents, though. if i was her i wouldnt tell his parents that he is on drugs for revenge. but thats her plan. i know its not good for him

2007-03-15 16:34:19 · 11 answers · asked by somebody 1 in Friends

im a frehsman at high schhool. i am in a smart program. it is where it is smart if u are in it. It really bugs me becuae i dont want to be in it. but then agaiun its good for college. I dont want to seem like a nerd. Most people in this program are really annoying or nerdy. i mean there isnt any offense intended but those arent my kind of people. i like the friends who are loud and just talk to a variety of people. The problem is those kind of people arent located in the program. there are loads outside the program. my question is how do i approach a random person and sort of talk to him/her? i mean they arent in any of my classes and if i talk to them, they'll think im weird and that they dont even know me. how should i approch them without sounding like im sucking up??

2007-03-15 16:34:16 · 2 answers · asked by MJ 5 in Friends

He always talks about it, and says he will be safe by using a condom and i'm just not sure that at this age, i'm ready. Lots of ppl my age are sexually active and i know that if we are being safe, i won't get pregnant, i just don't know what to do. i'm afraid if i don't he will break up with me, but i also believe that he won't break up with me because we have been together forever. And i know sex is pleasurable, and i really do get urges sometimes, i just don't know if i should.

2007-03-15 16:33:04 · 45 answers · asked by Ida 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 16:32:47 · 5 answers · asked by tawfeeq a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here is the details. This girl i have liked in the past has just broke up with her BF a month before prom and incenuaded to me that she wanted to go with me so i asked her and she said yes. The thing is she knows i used to like her because i asked her out and was turned down. Well i asked her out again and she told me that she wasnt ready for a relationship yet but when she was i would be the first to know. I hope that was the truth but because of past experinces it is hard for me to tell. Do you think she is just using me for a date or actually concidering me as a potential BF.

2007-03-15 16:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymos 1 in Singles & Dating

is it bad to seem like ure not interested when really ure just pondering how to be the character? evryone thinks that im not interested and think that im not singing bcz i don't think the play is good enuff to have me sing. (when really i lost my voice)
im not sure wat's going on but my friend hoo's managing the spotlight is talking about how i should focus more and im not sure if i rly should bcz i feel im doing well <=[
plz help me on this, THANK YOU! =]

2007-03-15 16:32:24 · 2 answers · asked by airfaerie118 1 in Friends

everyone's moving forward and getting things done and going places. but i'm just here. i'm getting left behind. why can't i move forward with everyone else?

2007-03-15 16:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i was just wondering if you haven't kissed anyone before is there a way to practice? lol i know it may be a stupid Q!

2007-03-15 16:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by Vikki 2 in Singles & Dating

many of you gave great advice. i just wanted to clear something up. i don't care about money. i am a teacher at an inner city scool. i care about integrity, about making a difference. i don't care if i'm the bread winner, i just want to be proud of him and his efforts. i just see other guys and how ambitoius they are and wish he was like that . one the other hand, he has a lot of great qualities that other men don't. i just wonder, are you ever %100 happy with all of your spouse?

2007-03-15 16:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by imperfectly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin went down on the cable guy for free cable and premium channels. she and I were roommates and we never got a cable bill. Ladies, have you ever done anything to get something (grades, promotions, car fixed. etc.) Be honest.

2007-03-15 16:30:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this dude named Ricky... i think he likes me too but i dont know how to get him to go out with me with out asking him! and i dont wanna be the one to ask! how do i do it?

2007-03-15 16:30:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can u say to your buddy that just broke up with his gf???

2007-03-15 16:30:08 · 1 answers · asked by zippoman1990 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always been friends with guys and not so much girls. Now since I just moved to a new school and I have this neighbor who is the first guy I talked to, my new bf said he feels uncomfortable with me hanging out with him. I don't want to stop hanging out with my neigbor but I don't want to call it quits with my bf either! What should I do?!?! If you need more details I'll edit this too. Just ask for more.

2007-03-15 16:29:57 · 2 answers · asked by blub.blub.FISHY <>< 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 16:29:05 · 1 answers · asked by cheese 1 in Friends

2007-03-15 16:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well my friends and I are constantly getting mad at each other and these past couple of months, my 3 friends and I have been at it constantly. I told my friends I don't want to do this anymore and 2 of them has too, but my other friend Vicki started this whole thing because she can't talk to haili because shes in a gang they won't allow her to talk to her. Then the other friend, Gabbie, got involved when he shouldn't of and now basically I'm with Vicki, and Gabbie and Haili are together(were obviously fighting) but i don't know what to do because i'm getting anxiety and am always worrying...anyone have any advice on what to do? anything would really help, i'm not my self lately because of this, thanks.

2007-03-15 16:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it ...

a) immediately before the kiss actually happens(just by looking at her)
b) as soon as her soft lips touches yours
c) when you begin kissing her (without tongue)
d) when you begin kissing her (with tongue)

Curious..I miss kissing! :( lol

2007-03-15 16:28:34 · 11 answers · asked by califonialove 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 16:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm in love with my teacher. This is more than a crush, I could seriously see us having a future. He has told many times that I am one of the best people he knows, and we always seem like we know what the other is thinking. He seems genuinely happy whenever he sees me, and I definitely feel that way about him. I know its far-fetched, but I want to have a relationship with this man so badly. I graduate in June-- should I tell him how I feel?

2007-03-15 16:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by kibs11788 1 in Singles & Dating

just wanted to know and say if u are christian or not

2007-03-15 16:27:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am really ugly and no one likes me because I am a skank. Why do you think. OMG do I like sound conceited. My mom tells me people are just jealous because I am so fabulous. What do you think.

2007-03-15 16:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by Nica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im gonna have to learn to become a phone person soon. see, my bf works alot and i go to school and stuff, therefore it is really hard to see each other. i guess im really phone shy. i never know what to really say without sounding too dumb or uninteresting. it's easier in person. what can i say? any tips to make it easier?

2007-03-15 16:26:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, I went through a rollercoaster of emotions from begging, pleading, crying to being his friend to him telling me he never wants to talk to me again to him hating me. I changed my approach, determined that i still wanted to salvage the relationship. I have hung out with him three days in a row now as FRIENDS (im trying to spark up positive moments), and yesterday he told me he misses me and started crying, and i said what about us? and he said he now kind of wants to be with me but wont confirm it because he wants to be sure his feelings are not fake, and he dosnt want to take me back and regret it sometime later soon. I have gone through hell and back with these emotions. He says he needs time to think, to make sure he does want to be with me. we are seeing each other tomorrow with some friends, how should i act?we might go to bar,should i drink? what are my chances that he wants me back?whatcanido to increase my chances of him wanting to getback?

2007-03-15 16:26:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in your questions? it really helps people understand the question or situation more. just a thought.......

2007-03-15 16:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by SweetDarlin' 3 in Singles & Dating

and i said no and she asked me if i liked her friend and i really do but i also said no and her friend heard and seemed disappointed. i know i fucked up but wat should i do now??

2007-03-15 16:26:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to learn what is important to grandparents to know from their grandchildren in the area of thanks and gratitude.

2007-03-15 16:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by BAYLOR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls, if you were talking to me what is the best way for me to ask you out..or for your number etc...What would really punch that ticket for me?

What I usually do is try to find something that we have in common..i.e. going to the gym, then I slip in a line such as, "well i'm going to the gym later on today and if you want you can come with me just gimme your number and i'll call u to see what you wanna do" (i live on a college campus) or I would ask them if they wanna get something to eat or something. I just wanna know from a girls perspective what would be good..Help :)

2007-03-15 16:25:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently go into a fight with a couple of my friends Hailey & Crissy. Hailey (&Kyra who i'll intro later) are pretty, popular, and every likes them. Some would consider them preppy. Crissey and me on the other are almost Hailey and Kyra's opposite. People would consider me and Crissey emo or goth. Crissey could care less what people think about her wheras i care what everyone says. So crissey and hailey would always get into fights and call each other b*%&@'s and talk about how the other was a complete jerk. They would make me choose sides which i could never do. So i tried getting them to at least get along when coming in contact with each other. Crissey agreed after my second atempt. Hailey, however refused. She didn't want to try so i became very upset with her because crissey absolutly is appaled by hailey yet still made an effort. So Hailey became mad at me for 'trying to make her do something she didn't want to.'

2007-03-15 16:25:27 · 3 answers · asked by Breanna 2 in Friends

i am 18 and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for 2 years. i know more than anything in the world that i want to marry him. we have talked about it before. he asked me to marry him and i said yes. however there is no ring and we have not told anyone. im 100% sure im ready to get married. theres only 1 delima money. neither of us have the resources. my family is rather wealthy, but im too afraid to ask my dad, i know he would say im too young. i dont know how i would even go about it. me and him have never had a good relationship. i plan on going to college and yes i know its more convenient to wait until after i graduate but its so far away. i know i want this. please help.

2007-03-15 16:24:55 · 25 answers · asked by shelly m 1 in Marriage & Divorce