I think I'm in love with my teacher. This is more than a crush, I could seriously see us having a future. He has told many times that I am one of the best people he knows, and we always seem like we know what the other is thinking. He seems genuinely happy whenever he sees me, and I definitely feel that way about him. I know its far-fetched, but I want to have a relationship with this man so badly. I graduate in June-- should I tell him how I feel?
2007-03-15 16:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by kibs11788 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes definitely!! go for it but the day after you graduate or there could be some trouble. Age doesn't matter if it feels right
2007-03-15 16:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mooney Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa baby! slow it down. Your teacher could get fired. Im guessing your not the only girl he talks that way to, your just blowing it out of proportion because you like him. Now, since your 18, wait until you graduate, go back and see him when the next school year starts, then just be friends with him. see where it goes from there. I had friends who became best friends with teachers.......but nothing more. Ill tell you though that no relationship will likely come from this, 18 and 30 just dont mix that way, its a whole different stage of life. sorry
2007-03-15 23:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are real, but they are not realistic! Hold on...you have a brand new future coming after graduation. Don't pursue him, in fact you should distract yourself from thoughts of him and minimize the time you spend together. You will find another person you sync with...just be patient and look in your new age group (18-22/young adult).
2007-03-15 23:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kristel W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I think you should wait until June but you should definately tell him. Age doesn't matter, and in June, neither will the fact that he used to be your teacher. Good Luck! :-)
2007-03-15 23:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teacher=student relationship is so taboo. It is unethical for him to date you . The other teachers on campus know you and him. It will look really bad on him even after you graduate. I would stay away as hard as it may seem.
2007-03-15 23:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is your teacher, it is completely inappropriate. What you do after is your business. But you'll have different priorities. He's an "oldish" man, and you're a young girl who wants to party. I think there is too much of an age difference.
2007-03-15 23:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has any character or morals at all, it won't matter if you tell him or not. You're his student and that is how he met you. It would be completely inappropriate for him to cross that line, regardless of your graduation. There are plenty of people out there for you...take your time and enjoy life!
2007-03-15 23:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in June - the day AFTER you graduate!
2007-03-15 23:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...maybe after you graduate but not right now, not while he is still your teacher. That will just make things weird and that is how rumors start and high school is very well-known for rumors.
2007-03-15 23:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, tell him how you feel abt him, its better telling him now then not telling him at all. You go for it girl, i would if i was in the same boat as you. Just go tell him before or after class. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 23:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋