Im not really a phone person but..?

Question

im gonna have to learn to become a phone person soon. see, my bf works alot and i go to school and stuff, therefore it is really hard to see each other. i guess im really phone shy. i never know what to really say without sounding too dumb or uninteresting. it's easier in person. what can i say? any tips to make it easier?

Answer 1

first off, the guy should really do alot of the talking to make it unawkward but yeah during the phone convo...I usually talk about everyday things..finding humor in that kind of stuff and just plain letting it flow...Most of the time I don't know what I am going to say next but try not to make the phone go silent..that is just the most..uncomfortable spot..ever..haha..Find common ground, talk about the news, talk about uhmm school u know gossip it really interests people when they hear that you are passonate about something and just plain talk to HIM. thats important not to chat it up too much find out what he wants to talk about...alot of girls talk alot..it gets annoying..good luck

Answer 2

Just talk about things that went on that day and ask him how his day went. You can make a list of small things to talk about throughout the day that way you can remember when you talk to him. You may even want to talk about subjects from school or things that happen. If you don't talk to him on the phone, you will miss out on alot especially if it is hard to see him.