Well my friends and I are constantly getting mad at each other and these past couple of months, my 3 friends and I have been at it constantly. I told my friends I don't want to do this anymore and 2 of them has too, but my other friend Vicki started this whole thing because she can't talk to haili because shes in a gang they won't allow her to talk to her. Then the other friend, Gabbie, got involved when he shouldn't of and now basically I'm with Vicki, and Gabbie and Haili are together(were obviously fighting) but i don't know what to do because i'm getting anxiety and am always worrying...anyone have any advice on what to do? anything would really help, i'm not my self lately because of this, thanks.
2007-03-15 16:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your story confuses me
2007-03-15 16:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick a side. It seems like the easiest thing to do and it will be the hardest. By picking a side you are picking a friend over the other, and telling everyone else in the group that that friend is more important to you. That of course doesn't make anyone feel better and will keep the fights going. If you do like one friend above the others then just have her as a friend and cut off the others. By removing yourself from the equation you force the other girls to look at what THEY are doing as opposed to what "everyone else is doing to me."
2007-03-15 23:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by meraphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for new friends. Apparently, the ones you have are not very mature or very kind. If you're worried and anxious all the time, it's not worth it. Find people who don't make you crazy. Life is too short for all of this drama.
2007-03-15 23:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you'll be in college one day (maybe). Or at least out of high school. Such drama doesn't occur outside of high school, unless it's in junior high or middle school.
2007-03-15 23:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋