my ex bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, I went through a rollercoaster of emotions from begging, pleading, crying to being his friend to him telling me he never wants to talk to me again to him hating me. I changed my approach, determined that i still wanted to salvage the relationship. I have hung out with him three days in a row now as FRIENDS (im trying to spark up positive moments), and yesterday he told me he misses me and started crying, and i said what about us? and he said he now kind of wants to be with me but wont confirm it because he wants to be sure his feelings are not fake, and he dosnt want to take me back and regret it sometime later soon. I have gone through hell and back with these emotions. He says he needs time to think, to make sure he does want to be with me. we are seeing each other tomorrow with some friends, how should i act?we might go to bar,should i drink? what are my chances that he wants me back?whatcanido to increase my chances of him wanting to getback?
2007-03-15 16:26:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am just so confused. SHould i keep telling him how much i want to be with him, should i just let him handle it, like should i give him the space he needs? Should i keep trying to hang out with him as to see we have good times? (the reason we broke up is cuz we always argued), he told me he dosnt want to 'jump to conclusions' and dosnt want the feeling to be fake, he has to make sure its real...but he says he regrets breaking up with me. We hugged, held each other (did not kiss) , and we had a good day for the past three days. but i am worried. what are my chances of him wanting to get back with me , and how can i increase those chances tomorrow night? THANKS.....
2007-03-15 16:29:23 · update #1
It sounds like he doesnt know what he wants and he's driving you crazy. I would stay away from him for awhile. Do not go out to the bar and do not drink with him. Take time to sort out your own emotions. Do what is best for you instead of letting him make all of the decisions that affect you.
2007-03-15 16:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont drink but have fun u know act normal dont act all pushy and stuff like that just relax and have fun with him and i wish u the best but ask your self what if he hurts me again will u be able to put yourself together again and if he doesnt then good for you sometimes guys need to let go of something they love to make sure they really want it u know just give it time and im sure he will come back just take it slow okay goodluck
2007-03-15 23:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry he just wants to get laid he is just playing with you to see how long you would stick around dump him and move on if his feelings are real and deep for you he will find you and chase you down make him earn your love back
2007-03-15 23:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by demondriver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋