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everyone's moving forward and getting things done and going places. but i'm just here. i'm getting left behind. why can't i move forward with everyone else?

2007-03-15 16:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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You may think that other people are living better than you are, but what you don't see is that they have problems too, just like you. No one is immune to misery. So be happy. Misery loves company, and boy do you have it.

2007-03-15 16:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 0 0

There's no secret to it. Everyone has opportunities. Some try harder than others. I mean, I could have been a doctor like my friend if I had the same drive he had. I could have been rich if I invested in real estate like some people I know. By the same token, there are people who look at what I have done in my life and they say, "WOW, why couldn't that be me?"

Life is different for every person because every person is different.

Some are good at setting goals and going out and fulfilling them and some aren't. I'm not good at that.

Try to recognize opportunities when they arise and take advantage of them even if you don't think you're cut out for whatever it is.

Successful people, no matter the level of success, have one thing in common..... They take risks. So the next time opportunity comes, Take a risk!

2007-03-15 16:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by JV 5 · 0 0

Do you think of gays have it extra durable than definitely everyone else? No, i'm able to think of of a lot of human beings worse off, those suffering with Cerebral Palsy, Hydrocephalus, Down Syndrome, Autism, assorted Sclerosis, maximum cancers and the toddlers born into this international with Harlequin variety ichthyosis. I even have not now nor will I ever choose pity from absolutely everyone. i'm happy with who and what i'm. Homosexuality isn't a ailment or a hassle it somewhat is to be triumph over. it fairly is a few thing to be celebrated whether i'm the only one which could have an incredible time in my own sexuality.

2016-10-01 00:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0 0

I don't have any backround information on you, so please forgive me if I sound judgemental or insensitive, okay?

With that said, it sounds a little like you may be spending too much time feeling sorry for yourself. Life is a blessing in and of itself. My mom always told me that when I was young. The fact that you woke up this morning and went on with your day is a blessing. NEVER believe for a second that you are JUST here. We have all been placed in this world to serve OUR PURPOSE, whatever that may be. Don't judge your self worth on the accomplishments or merits of others around you. Find what works for YOU and give it 100%, each and every moment. You'll find that you are so fulfilled and satisfied with your life...I PROMISE you that.

My mom also has another saying: "Your life changing moment isn't in anyone's hands but yours and God's. People spend too much time THINKING about what to do...do DO IT!!

BTW, she's the wisest soul that I've ever encountered in my 39 years of life. She's also my rock, my inspiration, my motivation, my one true thing, and most of all, my best friend.

Find your inspiration. I KNOW it's there; it's probably staring you right in the face each and everyday, just waiting to be noticed by you.

2007-03-15 16:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Chell B 3 · 1 0

Sure. We are moving and getting things done over and over and over and then we come home to relax. But we realize that after we check our messages and look in our mailboxes and look in the fridge...... that there are two more appointments that have to be squeezed in somewhere, you get called in to work when you are supposed to go on a school trip with your kid, there are 3 bills you totally forgot to pay and there's no milk!
So, we get our butts out of bed and we go do it all over again.
There's nothing easy about it but that's life.

2007-03-15 16:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

its just ur state of mind....u seem to be depressed about something.those people who u think r moving forward r working hard to do so...may be things r not working out right for u now...may be its time to introspect...i'm sure u'll know whats wrong with u..may be u r wasting time...or may be ur relationship with people around u is not right....may be u have a very low self esteem...try spending time in prayer....good luck n god bless

2007-03-15 16:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think part of your answer is within your question.(everyone else SEEMS to make it look so easy)

2007-03-15 16:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by myview 6 · 0 0

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