shallow, realistic or close minded about men?

Question

dont believe that men would love stout women, am i close minded or shallow?
Am i shallow or just realistic about life, or really close minded?
i dont believe that men would want to marry fat women
i dont believe that men truly appreciate a womans worth if she does not have a beautiful body
and that i dont believe that men could stay true in marriage and that they would always find a way to cheat
and that i dont believe that good looking men fall for stout women
i just dont think so, i just think that all men ever care about is the body of the woman, not the brain, but the body
so i dont like to get involved with men

Answer 1

My dear u are soooo wrong that it's not even funny....U are not shallow, but u seem to have a jaded view about men in general and what men seek in a relationship. Yes it is true that men are more visually stimulated than women, but to pour every man on the planet in the same bowl of piss is flat out laughable. Why are u so bitter towards men...I would certainly like to know...honestly.

Answer 2

1. dont believe that men would love stout women - some do some don't.

2. i dont believe that men would want to marry fat women - depends on how you define 'fat'. If you mean morbidly obese and overweight by hundreds of pounds then probably not, if you mean overweight by a few pounds (10-150) then I feel men do want to marry them. Remember it is not all about looks. If it is, you have a shallow man indeed.

3. i dont believe that men truly appreciate a woman's worth if she does not have a beautiful body - absolutely true, not all men do this, but lots are more interested in the body than the person, and this is quite sad indeed.

4. and that i dont believe that men could stay true in marriage and that they would always find a way to cheat - 100% false, if a man is cheating there is something wrong with him, he is always responsible for what he does, he may blame his wife for driving him to cheat, but that is just a cop-out. He makes his own decisions all the time.

Don't give up quite so easily on guys, just be very cautious, there are males out there that see way behind just your body, and can see into your heart, soul and intelligence. They just seem to be the hardest to find since they are so rare.