If a wife cheat, the husband has to wonder if the child is his. But if a husband cheat, the wife don't have to worry about that.
2007-03-15 17:10:37 · 59 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, but she wonders who he goes home to at night. You gave your vows to that person. You promised them your love, your all. And the wife has to worry what if the mistress is carrying a child.
2007-03-15 17:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kaytee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know, women don't have to get pregnant. There's a little thing called contraception and if you marry a smart woman who just happens to cheat, she'll insist he use condoms too! Yes, accidents to happen, but there's another wonderful invention called abortion! Getting a medical or chemical abortion would work best because it's just a chemically induced miscarriage and her husband would never know the pregnancy wasn't his fault!
Anyways, if either spouse cheats it's lying and that's why it is wrong. If the couple decided that it was okay to have other lovers, well that's not cheating. Another thing, the husband could wind up with a sexually transmitted disease and pass it on to his wife because according to you cheaters don't know how to protect themselves from stds and unwanted children!
2007-03-15 17:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife worries about her sexual appeal with her partner. The wife worries about the husband having additional children outside of their union. The wife worries if her husband may pass on to her a sexually transmitted disease. The wife worries if she can believe her husband when he tells her anything. Granted many of these worries can equally be shared between husband and wife. However if there is a child involved on either side of the marriage it effects them as well. Many people believe that their affairs don't affect the kids, it does. It is not their fault however children respond to the relationship of their parents.
2007-03-23 12:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by anifan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But if the husband cheats then the wife has to wonder if he got another woman pregnant. I think that it is just as bad if either one does it b/c in my opinion if you don't want to be with that person then you need to get divorced instead of going out cheating.
2007-03-23 04:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something called "marriage vows" that a man and woman pledge to each other that includes the promise of being faithful. If someone is going to cheat on his of her spouse, don't get married in the first place. And that's not even including the fact that the husband (or wife) could bring home something that can't be cleaned up with Clorox.
2007-03-15 17:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's terrible for either person to cheat. If the husband cheats then the wife has to worry about the diseases her husband may bring home. What's the point to a marriage if there isn't trust & loyalty?
2007-03-15 17:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by 2Tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets start off with this.....there are all types of these that can be transmitted in the process of a husband cheating. I am sure that no woman would want that coming back to her. The thought of a man laying with another woman and then coming home to his wife and also laying with her is not a good feeling. Adultery is wrong whether it be male or female!!!!
2007-03-23 13:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by queentasha26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad for anyone to cheat
if the husband cheats then the wife has to wonder who is having his child
2007-03-15 17:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's all about honesty. Cheating is an act of betrayal on both parts. If the husband cheats how is he to prove that he doesn't or hasn't gotten another woman pregnant? Also marriage is a promise to the other party that you will cherish, RESPECT, and care for that person til death.
2007-03-23 15:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello it's bad because he can give his wife an STD for one, or make a child with someone else and because he's not supposed to cheat he's married. Yeap, it's not fair for us women if we ever cheat but it's all good, for women out there that do cheat just don't feel insulted when they ask for a paternity test, that's life.
2007-03-21 21:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be married, get a divorce and or live the single life and never get married. No one wants to be married to a cheat. The wife does have to worry if the husband brings her home a STD or HIV/AIDs from his little sessions of unfaithfulness.
2007-03-15 17:14:17 · answer #11 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋