Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Hey y'all,

I can't help but notice that some of my questions get really judgemental answers from other ladies.

(this isn't directed to any of the men. I love you no matter what you say)

Ladies.....While you are being "independent" and judging me, I'm going to have your husband and/or boyfriends making their "O" faces with me.

Ha!

Seriously, why the rage. I love men, and my husband doesn't know anything, so what's it hurting him?

2007-03-14 06:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Singles & Dating

OK there is this guy and he confuses me sooo much. Sometimes when we are together he pays attention to me and its soo good then others like he talks so much more to other girls so then i start to move on... then he will call me or IM and say somthing sweet and nice and i start to like him again... what does this mean??? Does he like me or what??? guys dont just call u for no reason right???? What should I do??? I like him a lot but I honestly dont know why because he is not giving clear signals...

2007-03-14 06:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were fine everything was good if not better then usual we went to a dance and left with some of her friends to go to spend the night at one of their houses i went home but felt bad cuz i didnt take her aside and kiss her good night. i texted her and said she i felt like she kinda forgot about me and didnt say goodbye. well the next night she called me and said she wanted to take a break from it till summer break and after all the finals were over. i went to all her b-ball games for the 3 months we dated and just a week before she made the all-state team. we r both jr's in high school. she wanted to take it slow since her ex had cheated on her so i think i acted to much like a friend and to little like a bf. he family liked me all her friends like me but now her sister hates me and my gf had tears in her eyes the next day when we talked. i think if i ignore her and talk to other girls she will remember how much fun we had but i cant do anything im so depressed.

2007-03-14 06:31:06 · 5 answers · asked by greg 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by Aman M 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf of 9 months has never been an emotional guy caring about my feeling as much as i expected (note: i usually expect a lot!) its not his fault,all his family is like this!! they r just cold! very very cold!
anyway...we never had a real fight,cause he almost never gets angry! and whenever i got mad at him things got better at the end.
he will graduate univercity this yr,although he barely gets involved with his classmates,this time they sat a picnic and he neither did invite me nor told me til the night befor going there! i got really pissed off! im pretty,im younger,im well educated,so i couldnt understand y he did not ask me to join him and his froinds,i dont know y but i told him chose one (me or ur picnic)he said he loves me but he wants to join his friedns too,so i said its over, im fed up,and i aslked him to stp calling me and he did so! LoL im not in love with him,but i got used to him! wt should i do now? am i suppose to call him?! wt should i tell him?

2007-03-14 06:30:51 · 1 answers · asked by sugarbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

For instance someone you have had to end a relationship with due to them letting you down,cheating on you,lying to you,having a drink problem and getting verbally abusive,and promising never to do it again,and then just doing it again,
Or someone who has treated you badly and broken your heart,someone you could never trust again

2007-03-14 06:30:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay here it goes- I'm going to be 19 soon and I have never dated/ been in a relationsip. In high school I was too busy with everything else to care or even think about having a relationship. So now i feel so left behind and lonely b/c now all my friends are gone so its hard to see everyone and i do want to feel needed by someone - i just dont know how to become unsingle. Like where do i find people and how do you just start talking to someone???

2007-03-14 06:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by suave_girl65 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been married 2 yrs just about and am only 23 / my hubby is 24 so we are both still young.I thought are marriage was great and fine till i caught my hubby cheating with a co-worker 1.3 into our marriage.At the time we were supposed to have been trying for a baby i was heart broken.After this we could not stop fighting so 2 months later he left throwing divorce papers at me .I ran into an old highschool bf while at the bowling ally picking up my little cousin and he was first love as well the whole home run deal.Later i gave him a call and one thing led to another drinking was involved.It happened 2-3 more times before i called it quits needing to get over my emotional issues.To my suprise my hubby came back wanting to work things out.He has since moved back in problem is i just found out i am 3 months pregnant and it cant be my hubbys.What can i do i feel awful?

2007-03-14 06:29:17 · 27 answers · asked by Ashley C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 06:29:04 · 1 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4 in Singles & Dating

We are being married in June at my church, we're just wondering how much $ to give the Deacon who is performing the service. We've paid $75 to the church, which everyone being married there is required to do. I know it's customary to give the priest or other clergyman a token after the service right? In case it matters, I've not been a member of this church for very long so I haven't formed a really close relationship with the Deacon, although he's very nice and has helped with the wedding very much.

Also, do we "tip" the pianist? How about the photographer?

I live in the Midwest U.S. if that helps with a dollar amount!

2007-03-14 06:29:01 · 8 answers · asked by K 3 in Weddings

So i'm a senior in high school and i feel like this year i've really started to realize who my friends are and who aren't. I wanted to know if this is a normal thing to expierence. I wish i could have figured this out long ago PLEASE HELP there is more it's a tad bit long

2007-03-14 06:28:49 · 3 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lya K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:28:16 · 8 answers · asked by fishlover 1 in Singles & Dating

c, they used to sleep w/each other off and on. so know he is not talking to her or wants anything to do w/her, so we at the club and ask me to dance so we dance, he also bought me drinks too. he was all on me so know she says i disrespected her and had it thrown in her face. we have sleep together but she doesn't know this..so should i tell her and leave him alone or not say anything and continue to see him?

2007-03-14 06:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by cleveage2006 1 in Singles & Dating

I called my bf one night, the call got accepted, but no one answered, and there were girls giggling in the background, it was obvious he was on the street cuz i heard cars passing by. I called again and so he answered, he told me he was by a grocery store, but they didn't have what he wanted to buy so as he was leaving some girls came to talk to him. I quietly asked if he was cheatin, and he told me "uh....yeah?"
I hung up and my friends told me to call and find out what really went on. When i called he said he didn't hear a thing i was saying and just said "yeah" just like that. He keeps telling me that if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't still be with me, and that he'll leave before he cheats. I have a big prob. with jealousy, am i just overreacting?

2007-03-14 06:27:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but girls always say i satisfiy them ? is 7 inch with a 5 inch girth small only serious answers im sensetive

2007-03-14 06:26:43 · 4 answers · asked by darren p 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married to my wife for 14 years, have 3 wonderful preteen girls that I love to death. Wife and I are not working out - she has great resentment to me for some past serious trust issues (money mostly, no cheating) and now, while she's still a mostly good mom, she and I are not OK. I am the sole earner, I get the kids up and ready for school (she's sleeping and is seriously bad tempered when she wakes up). I go to work and in the evening, mostly end up cooking the dinner, laundry, cleaning etc., while she downs a couple of bottles of wine and, once again is seriously bad tempered and full of drunken logic in our conversations.

Anyway, from my perspective, its gotten past "staying together for the kids" to "staying together because I can't afford two residences". How can I make it work financially and amicably for everyone? I gotta remain a big part of my kids' life but I gotta get away from her?

2007-03-14 06:26:42 · 18 answers · asked by blaplanet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 45,Wifes 38,Three children.Seperated twice before trying to make 3rd try at,together 25 years,a home in her name only.This reconciliation she change alot,goes out every chance she gets,even when i'm off.shestates there's no stopping her,because I took her youth .I tell her to much will result in her meeting someone else.Over the years sex dwindled,No passion between us,now she says we should see someone else,which i thinks she's doing already.I must admit that a boring individual & not financially able to give her the world but i'm here not running the streets,while i'm home with the kids,she's off .When i ask she tells me to get a life.Because of the fact she says to see someone else is this her way of saying mind your buisness, I'm going to continue on this path.Why do i feel bad?Is it because of all the years together.Can't really tell the whole story here.Should I ignore what she's doing or leave?

2007-03-14 06:26:19 · 19 answers · asked by Ira D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my EX best friend and are a mess...
We stopped being BEST friends about 1 year ago when my boyfriend at the time left the country... i started getting feelings for him after about 3 months and didnt tell him at first. i left for the summer to see my boyfriend and came back and everything was totally different.

we fight ALL the time. and for the past 7 months would mess around all the time when we were drunk on the weekends (i am 20 and he is 21) and today he said he knows i talk about him and he is over it (i only said that i had feelings for him--and never told him!)

we pretty much ended the relationship... is there anyways to make things better cause i was falling for him and now i am heart broken. should i pretend i dont care AT ALL? or try to get his friendship back again???

2007-03-14 06:26:13 · 4 answers · asked by Saritah Bonita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife takes wonderful care of our 18month old son. How much housework if any is it reasonable to expect from her during the day while I'm at work.

2007-03-14 06:25:23 · 12 answers · asked by sgersch26 1 in Family

2007-03-14 06:25:01 · 38 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys I'm doing a research paper on how people fell about dating interracily.. I would like to know how others feel about a white girl dating a hispanics! for everyones information I am a white girl and I do date a hispanic male and that is one reason I made a decision to do my research topic on dating interracialy. all answers are confidential and Is GREATLY apperciated.

2007-03-14 06:24:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my "boyfriend" have been together for 6 months and i love him but until recently he has been unwilling to make an commitment to me before we were exclusive but not together if that makes sense well recently have been developing feelings for a friend of his and he knows i think the only reason he has made the commitment is because of his friends interest. should i stay with him or leave him for his friend who spends time with me and whereas my boyfriend only wants to do one thing

2007-03-14 06:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by makiahy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 06:22:58 · 36 answers · asked by bel 1 in Family

I just moved eight hours away from my mom with my boyfriend. I am currently working and make to much money to get any assitance with daycare. However daycare can run from 400-750/ month where i live. My mom wants me to leave my child at her house and just visit. Before I moved I heard her saying how the only reason she looks forward to waking up and going on is because of my baby. My dad jus had surgery and now they both are disabled. He's the type that likes to do stuff. The only thing that they both looked forward to was playing with my son. It would be a bit of a financial help for right now if i let him stay, but i don't wanna feel like i'm giving him away. i also don't wanna lose any of the love that i have for him. He is my heart and soul. Everyday he was gone i thought of him. What should i do. He is also very happy when he's with them. Am i being selfish for keeping him with me?

2007-03-14 06:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by special 2 in Family

2007-03-14 06:22:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have visited her family a few times and they do not like me because I am Asian. They have shown distaste for our relationship. I know they are quite proud to be white in Scandinavia. Is there anyway I can change her family's mind about me? I have never done anything to be dishonorable towards her family. The only reason her family does not like me is because I am Asian. It frustrates me very much because they make me feel like I am not worthy of my wife and I am starting to feel that way and it makes me depressed. We have a daughter together and I am not sure if her family even likes our daughter.

2007-03-14 06:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help their driving me nuts

2007-03-14 06:21:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating