why is it that females don't like to perform on men but they want you to do it to them?

Answer 1

exact opposite for me - I love "performing" on my hubby, but really don't like it done to me... aggravates him, cause he likes to, and I know he's good at it, but it's just ew!

Answer 2

How long have you been married? Before getting marrieed my wife did it quite often, since we have been married 7 years ago, not once. Not from the lack of begging on my part. Even have made deals where I would spend hours at the mall with her for a little favor when we get home, but after 3 times of her welching on the deal, gave up that idea too. She says she doesn't feel she has to now that we are married. Its not christian like. We have never been to church?? I am not dirty, and stay showered and trimmed but no luck. She is very good at everything else though but still would be nice a few times a year or something. Just don't ask "since you don't like to ..is it ok if I get your sister to do it?" even as a joke

Answer 3

Um...a little thing called the gag reflex, dude. It isn't an easy task to learn, takes lots of practice. The practice, can make you vomit. How eager would you be if it meant you might vomit? I think it's especially frustrating if a guy expects it to be like "the movies", and trust me, those girls have had more practice than your average girl. Think of it as the female version of "performance anxiety."

There is also the issue of how men sometimes talk about it. You know, if you give a negative connotation to a girl who does "perform", then how eager are the rest of us going to be to gain the "trashy" status? You see what I'm saying? You'all want it, but your gonna talk bad about those of us who actually do it? If we do it, and we do it well, then we aren't any better than the trashy "movie stars." Cause how many of you'all would actually take one of them home to mama?

Answer 4

I like performing on men.

Answer 5

I love to perform on men!

Answer 6

More pleasure, the clittoris is their pleasure pack, not their mouth. Sure you get some pleasure out of eating her out but most females dont exactly love to get their face sprayed with stuff, best to keep it clean and to use some nice smelling non toxic lotion helps.

Answer 7

You apparently don't know many females...there are few that I've ever met who wouldn't perform oral on a guy (or any other usual sexual act for that matter), especially if she hoped for or expected it in return.

Answer 8

same reason men like it but don't want to perform it.

Answer 9

i think it just has to do with the person. everyone loves to be performed on but not everyone loves to perform. and some times on the wrong person it could be gross. i'd check your pubes for grease and chicken bones dude, maybe there's something wrong with you.

Answer 10

YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY MESSING WITH THE WRONG WOMEN. OR EITHER YOU TRY TO CONTROL THE SITUATION WHEN A WOMAN IS DOING HER THING ON YOU, AND SOME OF US DETEST THAT. PERSONALLY, I ENJOY "PERFORMING" VERY MUCH........BUT YOU HAVE TO KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF OF ME WHILE I'M AT IT. LET ME DO MY BUSINESS.........AND DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT PUTTING YOUR HAND ANYWHERE NEAR MY HEAD. I KNOW WHAT I'M DOING, I KNOW I'M GOOD AT IT, AND I DON'T NEED ANYBODY GIVING ME ANY SORT OF DIRECTION OR INSTRUCTION WHILE I'M AT IT.

Answer 11

well i cant really say i never performed on a man but have had desires of doing it, but just sunday mi boifriend and i broke up before i tried.