OK there is this guy and he confuses me sooo much. Sometimes when we are together he pays attention to me and its soo good then others like he talks so much more to other girls so then i start to move on... then he will call me or IM and say somthing sweet and nice and i start to like him again... what does this mean??? Does he like me or what??? guys dont just call u for no reason right???? What should I do??? I like him a lot but I honestly dont know why because he is not giving clear signals...
2007-03-14 06:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he seems like a really nice guy... i dont think he would play me... at least not on purpose
2007-03-14 06:38:04 · update #1
Well i'm in exactly the same situation except that it has been going like this for nearly two years and a half. I told him how i feel about him and each time he had an excuse like he's too busy and he would not be able to handle everything at the same time. Since then things evolved, we got closer to each other but still our "relationship" is very confusing. I still don't know exactly where we are going, or if we are going somewhere. I'm telling you all this to say that it's not easy to find the right solution to that situation. Either you stay and remain confused or you talk to him and if the answer is not what you wanted maybe it is better to quit. That's what i am considering too. Hope i've been helpful in a way or another!
2007-03-14 17:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Selena C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look at yourself first. Decide how do you feel about him? If you really like this guy and would like to give it a shot, why not sitting him down and telling him how you feel?
I know I'm not that sharp in noticing sometimes when someone is interested in me. And if I'm not sure how someone feels about me, I might get really insecure telling them since I wouldn't want to loose their friendship or freak them out.
On the other hand, he might just want to be your friend and is afraid of sending you the wrong signals.
Either way, your best bet is to figure out how you feel and if he's worth it, take a chance. You might be suprised and worse case scenario you'll at least know where you stand.
2007-03-14 13:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number and run as fast as you can without looking back!!! You're confused because your head is telling you one thing and your heart is telling you something else. Listen to your head! He's playing you and you're way too nice to see it or believe it. If someone truly is interested in you, then he will have eyes ONLY for you. He will want to talk ONLY to you. He will want to spend his time ONLY with you. I'm sorry but this guy is not the guy you think he is... Get out while you can!!!!
2007-03-14 13:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by mommichka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be happening for multiple reasons.
1. He's trying to not appear "overeager" and therefore is acting more interested at certain times.
2. He's confused about his feelings for multiple women and his feelings for you grow and shrink depending on how available the other women are.
3. He's a player, and only wants to bang you.
2007-03-14 13:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by rockin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii*t! I have one of these guys too... do NOT fall for it. he doesnt like you and is only keeping you as a back up plan! I know you dont wanna hear it but it took me ONE YEAR of wasted tears and heartache to realize that he was a complete joke and didnt mean anything he said or did. i think its best to just move on and disconnect yourself before you get anymore hurt than what you already are!!!
2007-03-14 13:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask him. If can't give you a straight answer, move on. If he says he wants to be with you then let him know that he has to be with JUST you. And that he needs to show you attention in public as well as in private.
2007-03-14 13:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by little_puffit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems pretty clear to me.
Sounds like he's stringing you along. He only pays attention to you when he thinks you're losing interest. He doesn't like YOU, he likes the fact that you like HIM. I suggest getting a boyfriend who likes you more than he likes himself.
2007-03-14 13:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nono.. i think u r interpreting it wrongly.. its normal if u feel like he is playing u.. coz sometimes surely he will talk to other girls.. so u jus have to adapt it.. if he says something sweet and nice means he is flirting with u .. now wat u shud ask is does he usually sweet talk with other girls? dun worry jus simply ask him.. if u like him u mus keep on contacting him at least text him or call him.. 1 week 6 times at least.. haha.. tats how i get my gf.. anyway, all u gotta do in the world of love is simply open ur mouth and ask.. but becareful sometimes ur timing is wrong and it may hurt him/her... haha.. iam so sad i hurt her feelings jus now jus simply asking her dumbass questions!!
2007-03-14 13:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be waiting you to send a signal, maybe you should show some interest and see if he reacts
2007-03-14 13:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Marcelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a waste of your time and patience, drop him. He sounds like a big player.
2007-03-14 13:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋