my bf of 9 months has never been an emotional guy caring about my feeling as much as i expected (note: i usually expect a lot!) its not his fault,all his family is like this!! they r just cold! very very cold!
anyway...we never had a real fight,cause he almost never gets angry! and whenever i got mad at him things got better at the end.
he will graduate univercity this yr,although he barely gets involved with his classmates,this time they sat a picnic and he neither did invite me nor told me til the night befor going there! i got really pissed off! im pretty,im younger,im well educated,so i couldnt understand y he did not ask me to join him and his froinds,i dont know y but i told him chose one (me or ur picnic)he said he loves me but he wants to join his friedns too,so i said its over, im fed up,and i aslked him to stp calling me and he did so! LoL im not in love with him,but i got used to him! wt should i do now? am i suppose to call him?! wt should i tell him?
2007-03-14 06:30:51 · 1 answers · asked by sugarbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Up to you, Frankly I wouldn't deal with the dark hearts that way. But you are transgressing here, the real issue is his emotional distance not the fact that he didn't invite you to the pinic(chances are it just didn't mean much to him, the picnic, not you). So I wouldn't end it right there. Talk with him a little bit more and try to get him to express some sort of feelings for the things that happen in his life. But when your deal with dark hearts its not going to be easy. Its just easier to live numb sometimes. Its really a survival technique used to protech that ego(pride) from the battle field which is human relationships. So maybe take it a little bit easier on the guy, you know whats wrong with him, so don't hate him for that.
2007-03-14 08:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋