For instance someone you have had to end a relationship with due to them letting you down,cheating on you,lying to you,having a drink problem and getting verbally abusive,and promising never to do it again,and then just doing it again,
Or someone who has treated you badly and broken your heart,someone you could never trust again
2007-03-14 06:30:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't send them songs! It is time to move on.
2007-03-14 06:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya Pants 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. You've wasted enough time and energy on this person.
If the shoe was on the other foot what would you think if you received a song from an ex?
What do you want to get out of doing so?
They're not going to change. Nobody deserves to be treated in this manner. You don't need this person. You don't need to be treated like that. You are a human being who deserves respect.
Decide now to move on, take this as an exciting opportunity to start a new life, meet new people and make it ten times better than it has been. You will soon realise that the majority of people are not like that.
Don't send a song, you'll regret it. Maybe for a short while you will feel like you've got your own back in some way but it won't last.
Sending a song will give this person the impression they still have something over you and you don't want that. Stop all communicaton with them (if this is possible, not knowing the full story, if going through a divorce it may be necessary etc).
Good luck with your new life. Say goodbye to verbal abuse, lies and broken promises.
2007-03-14 07:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by becks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.... nothing.
Dwelling on the past isn't a good way to heal yourself. Nor is sharing around the hurt. I know it might make you feel better temporarily, to lash out in response... but it doesn't promote real healing.
Step back, step away, and start respecting yourself. Don't walk the cycle of hate, pick a new path. Drop the past like a bad habit, and pick up a few healthy new ones. When you feel angry, go for a walk or do a few pushups. The best revenge on a bad relationship is to have a great looking body to head into the next one with.
2007-03-14 06:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even waste the time or energy or even postage? You really think a song is going to rub salt in the wound? He didn't care about you before, so what makes you think a song is going to hurt him even more? Take a few months off for yourself to heal and recover (no dating or fooling around). When you get comfortable, try again, but be more cautious. You know the signs so you should know what to avoid. If you really want to stick it to him, send an annonymous letter (typed letter & envelope) recommending he get tested, as you tested positive for something. Let the loser sweat for three weeks.
2007-03-14 06:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here you go Cry by Faith Hill;
If I had just one tear running down your cheek
Maybe I could cope maybe Id get some sleep
If I had just one moment at your expense
Maybe all my misery would be well spent
Yeah.... could you cry a little
Lie just a little
Pretend that youre feeling a little more pain
I gave now I m wanting
Something in return
So cry just a little for me
If your love could be caged, honey I would hold the key
And conceal it underneath the pile of lies you handed me
And youd hunt those lies
Theyd be all youd ever find
And thatd be all youd have to know
For me to be fine
Yeah.... and youd cry a little
Die just a little
And baby I would feel just a little less pain
I gave now Im wanting
Something in return
So cry just a little for me
Give it up baby
I hear your goodbye
Nothins goin save me
I can see it it your eyes
Some kind of heartache
Darlin give it a try
I dont want pity
I just want what is mine
Yeah... could you cry a little
Lie just a little
Pretend that yourre feeling a little more pain
I gave now Im wanting
Something in retrun
So cry just a little for me
Yeah... cry just a little for me
Woo ooo, could you cry a little for me
Yeah, yeah
2007-03-14 06:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
( chorus ) You can have her, I don;t want her. She didn't love me anyway. She only wanted someone to play with , the love I wanted was a love to stay.
( vs.1 ) The one I loved, up and left me. Ran away with my best friend. Comes home at night for just one hour, daylight comes she's gone again.
( vs. 2 ) When you're in love with, the wrong woman there ain't much you can do. Just dig a hole and crawl right in it and pull the ground in over you.
( vs.3 ) Life without love is mighty intense but confessions good for your soul. I'd rather have love for just one hour than the world and all its gold.
I believe the tittle is " You can have her " .
I sing it with my guitar.
2007-03-14 06:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't send them anything as it will just show that you are still being upset by them. Forget about the past and concentrate on living right now.Don't look back, look ahead and hold your head up high. Concentrate on yourself and what you want from life. If you cling on to the past you are being a victim. The choice is yours. Good luck.
2007-03-14 07:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by foxy4t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that if you wanna send songs to an ex its probably a good thing hes an ex because you are definitely too immature to have a relationship
2007-03-14 18:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by markandharold1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say the song that would best describe my ex would be Keith Urban's "You'll think of me" and the best part of the song is:
Someday I'm gonna run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life
Which one of us hasn't felt this?
2007-03-14 06:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're No Good by Linda Ronstadt
Feeling better now that we're through
Feeling better 'cause I'm over you
I learned my lesson, it left a scar
Now I see how you really are
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
I'm gonna say it again
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
I broke a heart that's gentle and true
Well I broke a heart over someone like you
I'll beg his forgiveness on bended knee
I wouldn't blame him if he said to me
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
I'm gonna say it again
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
I'm telling you now baby and I'm going my way
Forget about you baby 'cause I'm leaving to stay
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
I'm gonna say it again
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
Oh, oh no
You're no good
You're no good
You're no good
Baby you're no good
2007-03-14 06:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no contact at all is usually the strongest statement you could ever make.
Stop being in middle school and grow up. Self confidence, self restraint, and a spine get one pretty far in life. I suggest you discover yours and move on instead of wollowing in this hole.
2007-03-14 06:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋