Hey y'all,
I can't help but notice that some of my questions get really judgemental answers from other ladies.
(this isn't directed to any of the men. I love you no matter what you say)
Ladies.....While you are being "independent" and judging me, I'm going to have your husband and/or boyfriends making their "O" faces with me.
Ha!
Seriously, why the rage. I love men, and my husband doesn't know anything, so what's it hurting him?
2007-03-14 06:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just coz he doesnt know you are taking advantage of his complete trust in you, doesnt make it right. have no problem with anyone who wants to have lots of men - if u can, good on u! but all i know is i couldnt undermine the guy i love so severely and not feel even a little heartless
2007-03-14 06:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your vows to your husband consisted of but vows usually include a pledge of unconditional love and faithfulness for as long as you both live. Most likely, you made these kind of vows with your husband and now not only are you breaking those vows, you are also being dishonest about breaking them. Your husband is under the impression that you are faithful when you are not and that is what pisses people off. If you want to sleep around, you need to end it with your husband or at least both agree to an "open marriage". Instead, you want to be a sneak about it meaning your husband is not only living a lie but is also being put at risk for STDs without knowing. You have every right to love practically any man you want but you don't when you are married. You want freedom without the responsibility and things don't work that way. You will end up paying in the end whether it is because your husband finds out you cheated or you end up pregnant or/and with STDs. You might feel like being with men makes you feel powerful but really you are just playing with fire and one day you are going to get burned. If you really loved your husband, you wouldn't do this to him. You think you are "independent" but you are a slave to your lies and your need for men.
2007-03-14 13:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I've missed your questions and all the answers but, from the sound of this particular question you enjoy your low self-esteem, ability to hurt others and shallow nature.
Its really great if this brings you happiness today but if you want to ever have a relationship with someone besides yourself, you might find counseling helpful.
I'm a woman and don't find you a threat and will be happy to answer any of your future questions in a non-judgemental way.
2007-03-14 13:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Diana 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cus you think you are all that for stealing a ruining marriages and relationships
why would you want someone that is taken
and you are a cheating liar I'm sorry I'm trying to stay calm i really am but why the heck would you steal someones man is it to make yourself feel better
my friend flirted with all married men and lots of them cheated but the reason she did that was cus she thought that if she could take a man away from his wife or 20 some odd years she was special but she wasn't she was hitting on old fat bold guys how does that make her special it just makes her a sick twisted messed person with nasty taste
i think why you are getting rude comments is cus what you are doing is so wrong we cant help but hate you and why would you go and degrate women with this question when you are a women and we fought so hard to have equality dont be a skank and I'm flaggin you for this comment to try to get you to understand that you aren't making yourself look better you are just attracting bad guys that want you body and dont care about you
so stop it and be a woman not a skanky girl
2007-03-14 13:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately for you and your ego, you won't get "all the husbands/and or boyfriends" because some men are attracted to women who have class and some self-respect. Have fun being a sl*t though, really, it sounds like you're a natural and they say everyone needs at least one skill right?
2007-03-14 13:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's okay for you love men, if you keep it to yourself... but it's not okay to MAKE love with them. If your husband doesn't mind you cheating on him, that's his business.
It's not about the "love" you claim to feel - it's about the vows you've broken, and are encouraging other people to break, that make your actions hypocritical and selfish.
Why do you find this "joke" so funny? Karma is listening, you know.
2007-03-14 13:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that if you are married you really should't be cheating on your husband. One of these days you are going to get yourself in a situation that you are not going to be able to get yourself out of. Once that happens you are going to feel like the worst person in the world, and you are going to hate yourself for what you have done to your husband in the past.
Its not fair to him what you are doing, let him go so he can spend the rest of his life with someone who really cares for him.
2007-03-14 13:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you love us men no matter what we say, because I wouldn't wish a back-stabbing tramp like you on my worst enemy.
If your husband knew what you were doing, that would be another story. But he doesn't.
I hope your husbad gets wind of your unfaithfulness and dumps your *** out on the street.
2007-03-14 13:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by rockin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm independent enough not to have a boyfriend, I won't be having that problem. Enjoy.
2007-03-14 13:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont deserve a guy that trust and loves you... there are other girls out there who are completly loyal and trust worthy but are single because whores like you take away all the good guys tsk tsk tsk you should be ashame of yourself. hell you dont even know yourself if his doing the same to you with your bestfriend
2007-03-14 13:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋