Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. A few months ago we decided it was the right time to have sex. I do not regret I love this man more then ever. When we first met he told me about how when he was younger 2-3 years ago he made a mistake. He was drunk and at a friends one night when he met up with a random chick "doesn't know her name never did" and had sex. When he woke up the next morning he said he was upset with himself and decided not to do it again until he met the one he loved. Over the last 2-3 years he's made a lot of postive changes in his life. As a girlfriend, I feel good that he could tell me about this and be open and honest with me but it still bothers me to know the man I love had sex with someone else even before me. Its been over a year that Ive known but for some reason it still hurts. I've talked to him about it before and he's always concerned. He's spent hours crying to me on the phone that he wishes he could change it. how could i get over this?

2007-03-14 06:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by pshhhbiteme 1 in Singles & Dating

Take off early enjoy some basketball.........

2007-03-14 06:20:41 · 2 answers · asked by Jason J 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I've known this girl for four years now I've dated other girls during this time, but i've always had a crush on her. She can literally do no wrong in my eyes i care so much about her. Yeah i get upset sometimes over her, but i always get over it b/c she is just so special to me. The problem is she never will give me a chance, i've asked her out b-4, but she always said she wasn't ready for a relationship, yet, but she was dating someone at the time, I didn't know b/c she told me she wasn't, but her friends says she was. Well I gave up on her six months ago, but she started calling me recently and we went out she was all over me and appoligizing for not giving me a chance and she loves me. Then a few weeks later she was back to her old self again and i feel like a jerk for falling for her again. I tried hard not to fall for her, but i care so much about her, Four years later and she still gives me butterflies, I just want her to be happy and I push her to goto school and better

2007-03-14 06:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by joe_68w 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend used to be soo tight we told eachother absolutly everything. Now she tells me nothing and tells everythign to two of our other friends. plus shes always with her boyfriend of 2 years and i never see her or anything. She seems to not like me so much anymore and makes rude remarks at alot of opionions i have on things and makes me feel like im a b*tch. I can't just tell her how i feel because thats just weird and i don't know what to do.

2007-03-14 06:20:10 · 11 answers · asked by Shae O 2 in Friends

2007-03-14 06:20:08 · 36 answers · asked by dobbzy76 1 in Weddings

I the girl i likei told her that i love her and she said that she loved me but does not want to hook up because she likes someone else. what do i do?

2007-03-14 06:19:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well im 14 and living with my nan and step grandad.. when i was 8 my auntie told me something that changed my life she told me that my real mam didnt want me and she left me with her mam and her step dad.. i can remember when i use to got visit them on a saturday but only slightly carnt remember what they look like or neything.. but i was 8 whn i was told this and had tryed tyo forget it because my auntie told me not to say neything. but back last month i found a letter from my real mam saying she has 2 children and living in west sussex but i carnt under stand why she didnt want me or why she left but i sitll not surposed to no about this and i dont no what to say or do..???

should i tell my close friend about this and have some1 to talk to im not sure of it??? what would you do?

2007-03-14 06:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My partner of 16 yrs has fell in love with man in another country. All this has taken place via the internet and phone and so has never met this guy. We have two young children together and she says that she loves me but is currently not in love with me. She wanted to take my two children away from me to be with this guy who could have been anybody, this I would not allow. The romance all started two months ago and I knew nothing of it until my life as I knew it ended on valentines day when she dropped the bombshell that our marriage was over. I am physically and emotionally drained, my wife is my my life and my entire world. I have so much love left in my broken heart for her its an impossible situation. She has now said that she messed up big time and is willing to try again. The problem is Ido not know if she is staying because she genuinely wants to try, or is trapped here because of the children. My 10 year old and myself are petrified that history will repeat itself, please help

2007-03-14 06:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I the girl i like that i love her and she said that she loved me but does want to hook up because she likes someone else. what do i do?

2007-03-14 06:18:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:17:42 · 12 answers · asked by DaShara P 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I got into an argument. Now he is leaving me. We have been together for over 2 years and are very much in love (or at least I thought we were). I just need someone to please give me encouragement to get through this, because I don't know that I can. If you have ever been through something similar, then please just respond to this. I just need someone to help.

2007-03-14 06:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or will we marry at all tell me what wrong with my life with men.why I can't find a good christain man.I am a virgo and he capricon what is the problem.

2007-03-14 06:17:22 · 1 answers · asked by ladywitpryd worry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:17:18 · 45 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

to tell u the truth i never got Knock out but i got Jump and i was still fighting

2007-03-14 06:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i get nervice when i talk to this girl i fancy and i never no what to talk about what do you like to talk about what do you like in a guy

2007-03-14 06:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shshe touched me up in one of my lessons and keeps looking and talking to me what does this mean

2007-03-14 06:16:52 · 4 answers · asked by DAMIEN R 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy in my class tried to talk to me, he sits in front of me and we talk in class. 2 weeks ago he asked me if he could email me, I said ok. he sent me 2 really nice email and I gave him my ph #, we went out to dinner twice, talk daily, I have been over his house to watch a movie, he is a really nice guy, patient, not agressive, he hasn't even tried to kiss me. He is a HS teacher, buying a townhouse. There is a huge problem, he has 3 kids, girls ages 1,2,3 WOW right? I have a child that is 6 so i do not want to be judgmental but at the same time he was not married to either of the females that he has kids with, he has two with one one child with the other and Baby Mama drama, were just hangin out right now but I dont know if I want to get in the position of being involved with someone with drama. More of his background close with family; parents, sisters, has goals, job stability. I dont know, I would like to get to know him but DAMN ya know its always somethin? What do you think?

2007-03-14 06:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, would this be a good way to ask for a guys phone number?
"Hi_____what phone have u got?" "motorola v3" "Oh right...whats your number?"

2007-03-14 06:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by Han 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to be in therapy a year ago because while he was in Iraq he had an emotional affair. After that we had to be compltetely open with each other including telling each other passwords to emails, phone records, etc. lately, I found out he has a myspace he didn;t tell me about-he has 2 friends on it that are both female-his profile says he is single and he doesn't want children(we have a baby together)-his excuse is that he didn't fill out the profile info-(it does say single if not changed but says no answer on children if not touched) getting suspicious, I checked his email and saw that he had changed his password for I don;'t know it anymore. He says he doesn't want to go back to therapy-cause he didn't like the one before and with a new one-we would have to bring up the past(Iraq). He still wants to have sex-not as often and only quickies. he has been working out of town alot lately and rarely ever did before. How do I find out what is going on? We have been married 21/2yr

2007-03-14 06:15:39 · 28 answers · asked by mdarting 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm very drawn to attractive fit women. I though haven't had any success with capturing their interest; I'm not ugly, but not overly handsome, and my physique needs a little work. Plus, I'm a bit of an introvert, so no I'm not Mr. Excitement.

Once I'm working again, and have some of my stuff in check, I'll look to hire a personal trainer.

In the past, I have felt good vibes from women I'm not really attraced to (obese, horsefaced ones, bad hair, not toned, loud, overly hyper) and am now (I'm in my mid 30s) wondering if I should heed other guys' advice and just go out with such ladies since I'm not Brad Pitt or Arnold when he was young, and definitely don't have an abundance of $. Part of me says sure do it; do you want to die alone, and possibly, at the same time, end the family line, since you'll be single with no kids? The other part says "well, that's dishonest and how do you know you'll over time find her appealing?" I'd appreciate your feedback. Thanks

2007-03-14 06:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 06:14:53 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

My jr bridesmaid is going to be wearing white to kind of resemble me. My flowergirl is only two and half, so I thought my little niece who is seven could wear white and resemble me.

2007-03-14 06:13:15 · 18 answers · asked by mjfrog 1 in Weddings

if u have been lied to by your partner and u lost trust in him or her- do u ever get it back? ( given that they make a huge effort to gain it) or does it continue to lack? If u speak from experience I am willing to listen.....

2007-03-14 06:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by Tanyah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is just so shallow. he is always saying insulting my mom and he is just such a nevatigive person. saying oh you are cheating on me and all that stuff and saying she is good for nothing. and meanwhile she cleans his clothes cooks cleans and anyhting you can think of but he doesnt appreciate it. please serious answers only. he gets mad over ANYTHING!

2007-03-14 06:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-14 06:12:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Afternoon y'all,

I got in late today, and sorry if I sound in a bad mood. I had a quick fling with a co-worker last weekend, and I think he gave me the flu. My poor husband had to get up in the middle of the night and get me some meds. He is such a sweetie.

Thanks to all of you for the "mile high club" suggestions! You are sweet! I think my new boyfriend and I are flying to Seattle next week! Not my baby daddy, but my co-worker.

Anyway, My husband's daddy is coming to town to stay with us for a week. We had a quick fling about five years ago, but then he moved to another town and moved in with someone.

I haven't seen him since, and I know he has broken up with this lady. I've talked to him on the phone last week, and he seemed kinda down. I would like to rekindle something with him while he is in town and make him "feel good" (ha ha!). The hubby works the whole weekend, what do you think would be a subtle way to flirt with him? Or should I just ask straight out?

2007-03-14 06:12:19 · 17 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a guy friend since Sept and it changed to a relationship mid Jan. Everything was fine until I got calls from his ex-gf telling me that they were still together. His best friend & him told me that she is just obsessed and can't get over him, but the calls were quite annoying for me. Later on I found out that she had to abort a baby from the guy i dated. This means she became pregnant in Dec. I know that they were used protection and the guy i was dating does not want to be in a relationship anymore with her but still tries to help her at times since she she is young, has no parental support and is psych. unstable. I have asked for time apart to see if he will separate himself fully from her life if he actually wants to be apart of mine. He is making steps to prove he deserves me back like changing ways she can reach him and telling me the truth about her and the circumstances he knows he can't abandon her abruptly. I really like him, should i give him a chance in the future?

2007-03-14 06:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by newbie 1 in Singles & Dating

The doctor gave her 2 months to live and her birthday is April 2 and i want to give her something great that she will always love intil she dies

2007-03-14 06:11:12 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke_C 1 in Family

i am 29 male and i love and adore women , I like women only , i do not want to wear make up or anything else , i just like to wear panties and pantyhose, my wife knows but dosn't like it she is worried about what people might think if they knew . I feel who is going to know if you dont tell them . i feel like she told her freind and her mom , she says no , but i think she did , i would like womens thoughts on this thank you

2007-03-14 06:10:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, this is the last place I'd ever think of getting advice, but.. A little background; I'm coming off a failed, but what was, a serious long-distance relationship - we seperated over differences that we couldn't work out . It was my first serious relationship, and grew via phone, email, letters, and IM while she is at college in OR. I'm ready to start searching again, but closer to home..
I happened to be poking around Myspace and found an old friend. I haven't seen her in about 3 years, since I moved 55 miles or so east. We were acquaintances from church, and saw each other pretty often. I had a crush on her, but never had the guts to say (ahh being a kid). I contacted her, and she remembered me! I wrote a little note, but she's been kind of quiet - she told me how I can keep in touch, email, etc. I had a little "e-flower gift", so I sent it to her and she said "thanks!", but thats about it. I have a "charmer" personality, but I can't get it going....

2007-03-14 06:09:34 · 3 answers · asked by DT89ACE 6 in Singles & Dating