Should I tell her I LOVE her?

Question

Well I've known this girl for four years now I've dated other girls during this time, but i've always had a crush on her. She can literally do no wrong in my eyes i care so much about her. Yeah i get upset sometimes over her, but i always get over it b/c she is just so special to me. The problem is she never will give me a chance, i've asked her out b-4, but she always said she wasn't ready for a relationship, yet, but she was dating someone at the time, I didn't know b/c she told me she wasn't, but her friends says she was. Well I gave up on her six months ago, but she started calling me recently and we went out she was all over me and appoligizing for not giving me a chance and she loves me. Then a few weeks later she was back to her old self again and i feel like a jerk for falling for her again. I tried hard not to fall for her, but i care so much about her, Four years later and she still gives me butterflies, I just want her to be happy and I push her to goto school and better

herself. I never stop her from going out with her friends or going dancing, b/c i think its important you have fun outside of a relationship and you can have that trust, but she started ignoring me again. I want to tell her how i feel, b/c i never have, but she isn't taking my calls. I want to tell her so I know if she does walk away i will know i did everything and hopefully give up on her. So if she comes out of nowhere again in six months I wont fall for her again. Or maybe she will fall for me who knows? Will I come off as a creep if i tell her how i feel about her, but she doesn't feel the same I just want to tell her everything then tell her if she doesn't call me back i will know she doesn't even want to be friends, but if she wants to stay friends or more she needs to tell me, but the ball is in her court at that point b/c im not going to put anymore forward until she tells me. Im not gonna be no jerk or fool waiting and wondering. IS that wrong for saying?

Answer 1

I'm sorry, but she sounds "flacky", like she is emotionally unstable or mentally ill. I don't understand her hot & cold over & over - she ignores you one second, and LOVES you the next, then again doesn't know you exist.

I'm sorry. This just is not a good candidate for a lifelong companion for you. Please pray that God gives you the strength to move on; God will provide you a better mate if you just waite and allow this gal to move out of your life.

I'm sorry. I know it hurts.

031407 12:31

Answer 2

Sadly, it sounds like you may be her 'backburner' guy. She ignores you when all is well and she has a boyfriend..but when things slow down, she calls you up and toys with your emotions. Then, when she gets over her low point, she is back to ignoring you again. I find it pathetic......her, I mean. Not you. And she doesn't sound like a true friend. If you really want to put yourself out there, tell her how you feel. But be prepared for the same old excuses.....

Answer 3

if you really care about her i think that you should tell her it cant hurt you any more. maybe then she will understand. i have been in her situation and when i found out it was so different. yeah i felt a little weird at first but then everything worked out. if yall are meant to be, then dont worry, do not hide your feelings for her. go get the girl

Answer 4

personally i believe u should tell her....bcuz it sounds like yall were meant to be if shed give u a chance. its not everyday that stuff like this happens..give it some more time.

Answer 5

yes why not??