my dad is just so shallow. he is always saying insulting my mom and he is just such a nevatigive person. saying oh you are cheating on me and all that stuff and saying she is good for nothing. and meanwhile she cleans his clothes cooks cleans and anyhting you can think of but he doesnt appreciate it. please serious answers only. he gets mad over ANYTHING!
2007-03-14 06:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dad loves me very much. he wouldnt do anything bad i juat want to tell him how i feel when he says that stuff.
2007-03-14 06:27:20 · update #1
my dad would never hit us. its just a lot of times he is in a bad mood and treats us like crap. my dad is that kind of person to hit his family.
2007-03-14 08:13:03 · update #2
It sounds like he is very controlling and I know its hard since hes your dad and and my moms husband and all, but I would talk to your mom and tell her she needs to get out, it sounds like if she doesnt, over time, something bad could happen. Follow your instinct,
2007-03-14 06:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by heidi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until your mom is ready to stand up to him and say something, there is little that will change. Perhaps if she left the home with the children and went to a Women's Safe House where he did not know where she was and did not contact him for several days or even a couple of weeks...then contacted him by some safe method...and see if he is willing to attend some kind of marriage counseling where he can talk about why he feels the need to be so dominating and abusive. If he agrees to it...okay. But she needs to make him understand that she is not coming home until they have attended several sessions and she sees some changes. If he does not agree to counseling...then she needs to then decide if she wants to return to the situation or move on.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-14 19:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there's nothing much you can do. He's your dad so no matter what, you still have to be respectful. With your mom, show love and support - help her with the household chores, make things easy for her, tell her you love her, etc. - BUT it is not your place to ask her about dad (and his bad moods). Unless your mom wants to share her feelings with you, I'm afraid this is really none of your business.
HOWEVER, at the first sign of anything physical, call the police...at the very FIRST sign!
God bless.
2007-03-14 13:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must be very hard on you listening to your father speaking to your mother like that.
I would advize that you let your father know that you don't appreciate the way he speaks or acts towards her.Maybe it would give him a wakeup call.
Let your mom know that you appreciate all the things she does for your family and that you care.
Maybe your father is having problems that you aren't aware of.Could you possibly speak to a family member about this and have them suggest to him that he go to see the family doctor.There may be medical issues going on with him if he is so upset and angry all the time. It could be worth a try.
2007-03-14 14:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like your dad's happy.
just be there for your mom give her a hug when she need's it and don't be afraid to stand up to your dad for yourself or your mom. (if she doesn't do it for herself)
you need a place to be outside of your pain you and your mom need to get away.
go stay at a hotel or one of her friends houses or even one of yours anywhere to get away from abuse
don't be a victim of abuse don't be afraid to stand up for what you think is right :)
I really hope the situation changes for you all :)
2007-03-14 14:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad was the same only he doesnt love me your choice i told my mom to divorce him and when she finally did she and i have grown apart now cause she is acting just like he usually did to me now!
2007-03-14 13:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He mouths off what He feels about himself and then feels better about himself by tearing down your mom.
2007-03-14 13:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋