This guy in my class tried to talk to me, he sits in front of me and we talk in class. 2 weeks ago he asked me if he could email me, I said ok. he sent me 2 really nice email and I gave him my ph #, we went out to dinner twice, talk daily, I have been over his house to watch a movie, he is a really nice guy, patient, not agressive, he hasn't even tried to kiss me. He is a HS teacher, buying a townhouse. There is a huge problem, he has 3 kids, girls ages 1,2,3 WOW right? I have a child that is 6 so i do not want to be judgmental but at the same time he was not married to either of the females that he has kids with, he has two with one one child with the other and Baby Mama drama, were just hangin out right now but I dont know if I want to get in the position of being involved with someone with drama. More of his background close with family; parents, sisters, has goals, job stability. I dont know, I would like to get to know him but DAMN ya know its always somethin? What do you think?
2007-03-14 06:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 29 by the way
2007-03-14 06:17:16 · update #1
He has been honest about his relationship with these women and why he is not with him. We have talked a lot about everything!
2007-03-14 06:19:59 · update #2
I just have been talkin to him for a couple weeks and could careless about tryin to move in I grad from nursing school next yr I will have my own ****. I just said that to express that fact he is a hard worker and has somewhat has it together not tryin to be a golddigga
2007-03-14 06:41:15 · update #3
My ques is would you even try to get to know him?
2007-03-14 06:41:59 · update #4
I dont know if I want to be bothered or not
2007-03-14 06:46:45 · update #5
I dont know if I want to be bothered or not
2007-03-14 06:46:46 · update #6
Run for the hills,you dont need his excessive baggage.No wonder he hasent tried to kiss you yet,he is still kissing the other 2.
2007-03-14 06:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by siaosi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your alert button has already been prompted.
Don't let the townhouse make you see dollar signs.
he may not be very generous besides he also may not want to move you in.
Keep it on a friendly basis as it looks like he wants to take it slow. Don't know why he is waiting if he is such a bed bouncer as you have expressed.
Also, you have your daughter to think about, have you even had the kids meet? She has to be comfortable with the situation as much as you are.
2007-03-14 13:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you go ahead and do that if you think that you two have a future but frstly he is gonna change men do NOT stay like that and 2. i dont date men who have kids firstly! and the fact he werent even married is crazy but for me naa i wont do it but if thats what you dig go ahead and do dat sh**/!
2007-03-14 13:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋