Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

we are goin on a triple date[[its sorta like a blinde date except weve seen pics of each other and talked on the phone... my friend like to play match maker so she hooked us up lol]]... me& him, kelci& austin[[her boy]], robin& bobby[[her dude lol]], and we are going bowling... and for the past 2 days he has called me but we are both shy so we havnt really talked alot... but neways... what shuld i wear since its bowling and if i buy a new outfit what should it be like... i want to make a good impression and look good so he dont think that i am unstylish or nething like that lol... but im very nervous and dont know exactly wat to wear... so plz help...
and o what if he tries to kiss me? i will be nervous lol........ but helpppp!!! thanks

2007-03-13 10:04:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance's EX wife is being very hateful. She has called My place of employment with Defamation of character, she sends threatening emails and has left numerous harrassing messeges on my home and cell answering machines. Is any of that something I can press charges for? I really don't want to persue it to a high level but I do want to make a statement to her that she can't just be going around acting like an immature cry baby. Please help!

2007-03-13 10:04:32 · 2 answers · asked by rescuechick344 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 10:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex boyfriend and i were together for alittle over 3 years over x-mas time we were supposed to get engaged & when it was coming up to that time he became distant and we ended up breaking up but got back together a couple weeks later because he said he loved me and we were meant to be... well the day before v-day i found out he was cheating on me... (He told me) but he said he didn't do n-e thing with her & he only took her out once... well i got ahold of the girl & she told me everything... she said they didn't have sex but they did make out a few times... well needless to say he kept sending me messages & calling me telling me how sorry he is & he wants me back & he doesn't want to see ME throw away 3 years over this but i spoke with the girl & she told me he was still calling her telling her he loves her & wants her to move in with him... we confronted him well my ? now is it's been a couple of weeks since the drama & i've been dating but i just can't stop thinking about him & it

2007-03-13 10:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:03:43 · 3 answers · asked by LADY SPARKLES 1 in Singles & Dating

My Ex boyfriend and i were together for alittle over 3 years over x-mas time we were supposed to get engaged & when it was coming up to that time he became distant and we ended up breaking up but got back together a couple weeks later because he said he loved me and we were meant to be... well the day before v-day i found out he was cheating on me... (He told me) but he said he didn't do n-e thing with her & he only took her out once... well i got ahold of the girl & she told me everything... she said they didn't have sex but they did make out a few times... well needless to say he kept sending me messages & calling me telling me how sorry he is & he wants me back & he doesn't want to see ME throw away 3 years over this but i spoke with the girl & she told me he was still calling her telling her he loves her & wants her to move in with him... we confronted him well my ? now is it's been a couple of weeks since the drama & i've been dating but i just can't stop thinking about him & it

2007-03-13 10:03:39 · 2 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2 in Singles & Dating

All my friends are surprised about how many bfs i have had. (1). they are like you are so pretty and i would think guys would be asking me out left and right. Why are guys not asking me out!

2007-03-13 10:03:07 · 34 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend have been getting close like messing w/ each other between classes, poking each other and stuff like that. well he asked me to go to the movies with him on his birhday at the end of this month. i said i will. but it is a date? or not and he gave me his # today, does he expect me to call him?? i am really bad at this stuff. i need any advice for now and the future. also i am not sure if i like him more then a friend, how do you know?

2007-03-13 10:03:01 · 9 answers · asked by superfreak 1 in Singles & Dating

well im a senior in high school and for a while right after school i have been going home and just watched TV and ate, and played on the computer. its been going on for a while and one of my freinds called me out on it, sayin i was lazy, a loser for just staying home and being a couch potato, but you know none of my friends really do anything at all during the weekdays and i have more fun staying at home, but now since my friend has mentioned it and also infront of everyone, that i am embarrased of it....i just dont know if its such a big deal....god i cant wait to graduate, high school is hell for me...i hate the kids im with, i just hate high school, everone is so stupid and immature and waste their time thinking about popularity and cliques.....its so childish and i cant wait to graduate.....

2007-03-13 10:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by jerzeygrl420 2 in Friends

I am fascinated by the thought of being restrained and tickled, but 1. I don't know why and 2. I don't know how to find some who would do it for me. Also if you are in a relationship and you are too embarassed to tell you boyfriend that you want to be tickled, is it cheating if you let another person who is experienced do it?

2007-03-13 10:02:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women make when searching for a boyfriend or pursuing for one?

2007-03-13 10:02:31 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so me and my bf have been in a relationship for five years, and I love him a lot. I'm 22 and he's 24, but it's like sex is becomming a chore because usually he's the only one who gets all the pleasure, and I really don't know how to tell him, or make the situation better?!! Any suggestions??!!

2007-03-13 10:02:27 · 4 answers · asked by dogluva9 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my teacher found out. So she thinks he is my BF. he doesnt like me but i do. he is 2 FEET SHORTER THAN ME. i gave him da lyrics to say ok by vanessa hudgens and he says it is nice. he has short curly hair and kinda likes hanging around me. I am 11 and he is 12. yup hard to imagine. I need advice an i doing a bad thing? will he soon like me? HELLLLPPPPPP

2007-03-13 10:02:18 · 1 answers · asked by Iseeme(: 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:01:51 · 16 answers · asked by Ben W 2 in Singles & Dating

so theres this girl that i like and today and she was looking at me.This all happened when a girl told her i was looking at the i like but i wasn't i was looking at the teacher.The next day it was a trip and she was looking at me.SO does she like me or something?

2007-03-13 10:01:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend finished with me 2 weeks ago. Then yesterday, she sent me a message to ask if I'd like to go for a drink with her, only as friends,where we could just chat etc. I after thinking long and hard agreed. The problem was that the drink was terrible, she just started having a go at me,basically saying why she finished with me, and that she's seeing a new guy now, who's much 'better'...i just got quite upset...and i admitted rather stupidly that i had strong feeling for her, and that i loved her....she replied...that i didn't mean it...and then i just walked out...about 2 hours after, i got a message saying that she was sorry for all the hurtful stuff she said. i didn't reply. then today, i get another message saying that she wanted to be friends with me, if i wanted to, and she says she thinks it can work.....i haven't replied yet...what should i do...feel like not replying! we dated for 18 months & were good friends before!

2007-03-13 10:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are some do's and don'ts when searching for a boyfriend?

2007-03-13 10:01:12 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so confused about my b/f. He has an ex-wife and a son. His ex is a very spiteful person and i have somehow come into terms with that in a way. Our relationship is perfect except for her. I want our relationship to work so i decided to tell him if he could please reserve any comments that she makes about me to himself since that would avoid me getting angry. I want him to be able to talk to me about his problems, i just don't want to hear her insults, thats all. His response to that was " Well your are right, i'll just go talk to my other friend because my problems are none of your business anyway".
I felt really hurt by this and i don't know how i'm supposed to react to this.

2007-03-13 10:00:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend recently finished with me. He made it clear it was over so I moved to a new city to try and get over him cos I loved him very much. One day he turned up at my office with flowers and told me he was sorry, we talked and decided to give things another go. But we live in different cities. We have seen each other every other week and are making a huge effort and everytime we are together there is still chemistry, I still see the love in his eyes and he tells me he wants to be with me. But when he isn't with me, he is distant and doesnt call me or text me like he used to and I feel a little bit like he is punishing me for moving away when I did that because I thought it was over. I saw him this past weekend and we had a great time, are still very much in love but when I try to talk about stuff he closes up. I told him we need to communicate better and I miss his calls/texts now more than ever and he seemes understanding but now he has gone home again it is the same - nothing!

2007-03-13 10:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Bellabella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you had one wish, and it only lasted one day, what would it be?

2007-03-13 10:00:49 · 20 answers · asked by ThisSongsForYou 3 in Singles & Dating

how do they start and end?

2007-03-13 09:59:57 · 3 answers · asked by ThisSongsForYou 3 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I started going out with me b/f my friend has been acting wierd like when he got me a necklace she said it needed to have diamonds but all my other friends liked it. She always calls me and himannoying. Well today everthing got on my nerves. She got mad at me because I am friends with her ex best friend. She told my other best friend to not talk to me because she wasn't going to. She doesn't have a b/f and is always telling my b/f cares about me and then tell me he is stupid and dumb. (Sry Iam switching back and forth but i am furious and don't know what to do ) Should I stop being friends with her this is the second time she has got on my nerves and won't say a word to me and I am tired of her. What do I do?Is she jealous because I have a b/f?

2007-03-13 09:59:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to be his girlfriend. However, I told him that I like him very much, but I didn't want to have a boyfriend before having a stable career first because noone can guarantee my future except me. He told me that he would wait for me. I told him that it's ok with me if he is dating other girls during his waiting period and I will let him know when I get my degree and then we will become bf and gf. Also, I told him if he's married by that time, then we're till friends not enemy.... And he said he would wait for me. Then we went to separate school and did not see each other for two years...Occasionally, we called each other and talked a little bit... I will recieve my RN in three more months from today and I have been very excited....However, yesterday, I suddenly saw him in Alberson Market holding hand with the other girl....We greeted each other, had a little conversation while his gf was holding hands with him, and I felt hurted inside!...... What do I do now?

2007-03-13 09:59:01 · 3 answers · asked by yenhu 1 in Singles & Dating

have been kinda seeing this guy for a bit we text each other alot. On saturday night i saw him and we ended getting a little close went to a party together and he said when i went home wed go on a date this week (he also said that when he was not drunk!) then i text him today and his message went like this 'sorry bout the other day babes proper ill, didnt recover till monday!! at the races today yeah its gorgerous? losing all money though!' why did he not ask me out on a date should i ask him? what shuld i say!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 09:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the maid of honor in my friend's wedding. I am never one to do anthing average, I want it to be memorable and make my friend feel special, a bonding experience. I am usually great when it comes to creating things like this, but at this point in my life I just can't seem to find my creative bug!! Any help would be greatly appreciated. Whether it be themes, games, things to do. FYI, it will have to be held the Wed night of the wedding due to all guests being from out of town. And we are all about 25 yrs old

Thanks!!!

2007-03-13 09:57:27 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Weddings

He's 18 years older than me...I feel disgusted with myself but I love him. I'm shocked at myself as this is totally out of my character but I constantly find myself thinking about him. I'm generally a sensible girl, I don't do stupid things, I'm pretty intelligent so I am aware that obviously nothing could ever happen and will never happen since he just considers me as a pupil and he's married, plus he's a really good man so he'd never be remotely interested in 16 year old girl - in fact I hope he isn't interested in young girls! I know you're probably all thinking, 'what does she know about love?' but I never have silly little crushes. I'm just not that sort of person. He's not even good-looking or anything like that, he's just so kind and funny.
I've clearly just got to keep my feelings to myself but I just want to know if you think I'm disgusting and childish to be feeling this?

2007-03-13 09:57:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known her for a few years. We were friends before we started dating, and then when she got me a job with her over the summer, we started having and expressing our feelings for eachother. It was all good until about a year after dating. I broke it off. She was very clingy, and just a little too much of a stressor. We were still having sex and kissing, but also fighting a lot. A few months of that went by and we started with more space between us, but only with anger. A few weeks ago I tried getting back with her, and things were turning out good. We were together more, and even kissing. She said she still loved me, but her father took it to the extreme. Her father asked if we were dating, and I said no. This started a huge conflict. She wasn't 'allowed' to see me, and I went to great extremes just to see her. She has new friends, has changed her outlook, and I don't know her true feelings anymore. I don't want to forget her, and I feel like I can't live without her, but I have to.

2007-03-13 09:57:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kirk A 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 i backed into this kids car 2day and its is a little damage but im afraid to tell my parents. Whats the easiest way to tell them?

2007-03-13 09:57:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So he does not want to be with me, but he said he maybe able to in the future. He said he thinks of me everyday and he loves me. It has bee three weeks. We dated five years. The first man I ever felt head over heals in love with??
Please advise. I have received wonderful answers and advise on here. Thanks for being super supportive!!!
My Ex and I are very attractive people. I do not beleive its another woman (in my heart).

2007-03-13 09:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by KCSH 2 in Marriage & Divorce