My boyfriend recently finished with me. He made it clear it was over so I moved to a new city to try and get over him cos I loved him very much. One day he turned up at my office with flowers and told me he was sorry, we talked and decided to give things another go. But we live in different cities. We have seen each other every other week and are making a huge effort and everytime we are together there is still chemistry, I still see the love in his eyes and he tells me he wants to be with me. But when he isn't with me, he is distant and doesnt call me or text me like he used to and I feel a little bit like he is punishing me for moving away when I did that because I thought it was over. I saw him this past weekend and we had a great time, are still very much in love but when I try to talk about stuff he closes up. I told him we need to communicate better and I miss his calls/texts now more than ever and he seemes understanding but now he has gone home again it is the same - nothing!
2007-03-13 10:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Bellabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wells lifes life if u want him that bad go after him! why are u waiting =D
2007-03-13 10:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy think relationships are like work...PArt - Time...when he feels like it he's in there when he doesn't he's out, on break, no calls or texts!! What is up with that? This guy is going to break your heart again...because he is not ready for a relationship. You know how i know because the same thing happened to me..So if i were you i would end it before you seriously get hurt again..shoo him out the door before he gets a chance to do it to you...Good luck...one more thing you deserve someone that will always be there for you..calling, texting, no matter what!! there's no reason for him not to if he loves you
2007-03-13 10:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. Make it work, love does not
know time or distance. I know cause I am in love with a
guy in the Army. My love for him will never go way.
24 years and we still have that chemistry. So tell him how
you feel about him. and good luck
2007-03-13 10:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my point of view, i think of he's treating you like not something. He did not take your words heavily and you do not rather easily worth the attempt to ask him do something for you at the same time with texting you or coming on line on MSN. He would be spending circumstances together with his kinfolk and you will desire to be considerate too! i will see that he isn't a solid boyfriend, and that i recommend you to offload him until now he dumps you and get yet another female! he isn't well worth it on condition that he did not delight in you and make you harm. See, you asked him to vow you to bypass on line by using 12pm popular and he purely did for the 1st day. the the remainder of the days he did not. He did not take you because of the fact the 1st and he did not omit or care approximately your thoughts too. You adult men would desire to additionally communicate greater and there would be misunderstandings interior the relationship. good success! (:
2016-12-18 12:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by mijarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be happy with the part-time relationship. If you want to be together, one of you has to move. I would not, however, move back until you are certain that he is totally committed. Based on what you have said, it is somewhat unlikely.
2007-03-13 10:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its time to decide to end it or think about moving to be with him.but can u be sure it would work this time around?
2007-03-13 10:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋