Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

My friends don't like me hanging out with stoners b/c they're afraid that I'm gonna start doing drugs. I just think stoners are funny and fun to hang out with. But I am Christian, and I know that I'm supposed to be witnessing to these "stoners." What do I do? Do I keep hanging out with them?? Ahhh..help!

2007-03-13 10:12:54 · 32 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Friends

I have this best friend named Ashley and she and I have known each other as long as i have known my family. Ashley and I lost are great friend and we helped each other threw it. I told Ashley everything that was going on in my life and we would spend every day together. I basically lived at her house. They had been saying they were going to move for the past 3 years and then they finally did move. I didn't even know they moved until i got back into town and tried to call Ashley and she was gone. I was doing okay about them moving but now that its spring break and i can't walk down the street to ashleys house i feel crushed and broken up. i don't want to do anything anymore because ashley isn't hear with me. I feel so lazy and never wanting to do anything. What should I do and is there anyone out there who will talk to me and help me threw this?
Karie Bates

2007-03-13 10:12:43 · 7 answers · asked by heritagedancer_333 1 in Friends

It is said that grils don't even know what the want there selfs. So i was wondering:
What do the want ?
I'm kinda looking for female answers. On for example:
What would you love to happen ?
What would you hate to happen ?
What is totaly wrong to say ?
What's the best thing you could possibly say.
Is it all about looks or personality etc. I think you all get me here. Love to hear something.

Cheers.

2007-03-13 10:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A gay man could always buy his wife a strap on. A gay woman could just toss her husbands salad. I'm not trying to be offensive but you get the best of both worlds that way. You're married and your sexual desires are satisfied.

2007-03-13 10:12:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have i lied to my girlfriend about 4 times about certain things that were silly and daft i have gotten jealous of quite a few lads in her life because im 400 miles away i get anxious about them because there closer i moan alot sometimes i cant hear on the phone and i ask to turn it down more than once i ask if she is ok quite alot maybe once every 10 - 15 minutes i sit on teh pc with her for hours on end sometimes and on the phone speaking to her that comes both ways we both do it by choice i spend alot of money on credit for my phone which i shouldnt it runs my money down i stay up late on college nights incase she needs me my choice again we argue and fight alot because of the above things i moan abou and more my friend has spoken to her a few times before pretending to be my sister to see why she was being nasty to me/ less talkative i lied about something her friend did once because her friend was speaking alot about another man and i thought somethin might of been up i lied

2007-03-13 10:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by skizmo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone have experience of civil ceremonies singapore/australia/bali/hong kong? Don't want the 'package deal' want to arrange own low key ceremony. We are both divorced. Are there any restrictions? Has anyone experienced any memorable venues?

2007-03-13 10:12:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay my ex keeps calling me names and staying things behind my back and i don't wamt him back that would be a huge mistake. but he was also doing drugs and i might not wanna be with him be i still care and i don't wanna see anyone get hurt or hurt themselves and so i told his mom and me and her still have a very close relationship. well i need some advice on what is should do cuz now he keeps talking his talk about me and calling me names and now is saying things about how i'm a horrible person cuz i can't keep my mouth shut and i know it's stupid high school drama alot of people are starting to believe what he is saying but i haven't said or done anything to him since the beginning or the year. and that is when we broke up soo please can someone please tell me what to do i've done all i can do. i can't be nice about this anymore

2007-03-13 10:11:58 · 4 answers · asked by Maggie may 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:11:54 · 4 answers · asked by ggd958 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious!

2007-03-13 10:11:34 · 21 answers · asked by lovealice 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy. And I like him, and I am really sure that he likes me. This is at my swim practice, and his times don't coincide with mine, saying that I can never talk to him. He has a lot of friends, guys and girls, and he seems like a fun person to be around and he swims really good :) He is too shy to come up to me and I am too shy to come up to him. I am afraid to ask one of the girls, who I meet in the dressing room, to tell me about him because he might find out.
But I am perfectly sure that he likes me, he looks at me all the time, and sometimes he smiles...and his guy friends always look at me too...am I just dreaming or does he like me? And how should I approach him or should I wait for him to do it? Please help! :)

2007-03-13 10:11:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:10:36 · 18 answers · asked by Salsa 3 in Singles & Dating

and my friend thinks tht he looks at me like 24 seven but i don't think he does

2007-03-13 10:10:34 · 3 answers · asked by Missa M 1 in Friends

I am going to sleep around or implys to have him dead- goodness- NEVER! I am just trying to weigh things more and also consider all the "what if's"! I am very much hurt, remember?!? Deceiving husband- hello! Good thing I ask in here, nobody know who I am, if not, say I ask friends or counselors, everyone becomes judgmental just like what you're doing now! Not all though but most of you are! Anyway, my question is, how can you answer questions when your percentage shows how little you know? Don't you know that your answers/percentage are reflections of your heart and size of your brain? But I still want to thank those who are so sweet and honest and nice. Go ahead, give me good answers!

2007-03-13 10:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by finding_answers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I immediately felt like he meant so say tinny winni or tiny pinch of salt .... or something like that but the word "PINNY" slipped ouT. So then I thought maybe someone said that to him, and so I got suspicious, since he did just come back home for lunch from a group karate workout class. Do you think there was some flirting going on there and so it was still fresh on his mind or do you really think he was just tongue-tied?

2007-03-13 10:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever I talk to one of my friends on msn I act weird. I accuse her of things and get madly jealous for no apparent reason. like if she has says she's been out with her friends or something. When we meet irl in school and such I act a bit more normal, well I tease her a lot, and push her and stuff... and suggests that she can't keep her hands off me, all as a joke ofcourse but I do it a lot so it's getting really weird.

I don't want to act this way, I act completely normal when I'm with my other friends and my family and everyone else. It's just, I feel so frustrated when whenever she's around and I don't know where to put myself. I try to act normal around her but I can't. She is so annoying and she's driving me crazy.

What's wrong with me?

2007-03-13 10:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by loveless_sselevol 3 in Friends

with him, I forgave him for what he did but I still havent forgot of how he hurt me. We would always be fighting because of everything I would always be bringing that up. The only way that stopped was because I found out i was pregnant its our first baby. My pregnacy has made him change alot. My concern is how about after i give birth will he still be the same or is it going to go back to the fighting and arguing because of what he did. Please help!

2007-03-13 10:09:28 · 18 answers · asked by star86 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so yea im going to graduate in 3 months, but everythings been going not so good.....friends problem, high school drama, and myself problem...anyways i was wondering how long people usually stayed connected or close with their group of friends after they graduated high school.....do we have to be close with these people? is it easy to make a totally different group of friends and stick with them, since the group of friends i have arent really that tight....i want a tight group of friends of mine and be happy with....is it possible to do that? as of now after i graduate i wouldnt really want to be friends with a lot of the kids in my school......

2007-03-13 10:09:22 · 16 answers · asked by jerzeygrl420 2 in Friends

My best friends getting married and quite sadly they will not be getting a house for a while so do not need any house goods. So what would be a good gift to get them?

2007-03-13 10:08:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Wut does it mean when a guy picks on u in a friend sorta way.

2007-03-13 10:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by idk 1 in Singles & Dating

we use to date or mess around with. Then today i came arcoss some old IMs to a girl he use to date, and from reading them it seems like he was watching here and her roommate mess around on a webcam. What should i do? Should i ask him about it or what? The IMs where date for after we made the agreement and after we got married.

2007-03-13 10:07:56 · 16 answers · asked by jenniferguelker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a long one and yes it really happened. I am now 21 and live in a dorm at New York University, but when I was 17 something happened that I can't forget. First let me fill you in on the details. When my parents got married they lived in my dad's condo here in NYC, but my mom was a country girl and when her parent's died she wanted to move into their house in the country in upstate New York. It is a beautiful Victorian house in the woods about 5 miles from anyone, and it's gothic. My grandparents loved this house and mom wanted to keep it. So they moved into the house and had 3 kids, one is me of course. Nothing real strange about the house started happening until I was about 17, and only that one time...so far. I was in my bedroom and my parent's had gone out for their anniversary. My little brother wasn't home because he was staying with his best friend, Todd. They had a test to study for and thought they would go to school together the next day. It was just me and my sister, Julianna, at home. It was about 9p.m. Not late, but it was dark. To beat it all it started raining and lightning and the lights started blinking. So Julianna ran to my room and said that she wanted to stay with me. She was pretty young then. I told her it would be okay so I lit some candles and turned the blinking lights off. She calmed down and she helped me study for a music test that I was going to have the next day at school. Then after she had calmed down completely I took her to bed-around 9:45. It was still raining hard. So I kept studying and after I got finished with the music book I decided to try some pieces that my music teacher told us to study. It was very boring, so I started improvising and I made the piano vibrate cause I sometimes get roused up in the music. Then I heard my glass of apple cider fall. I thought that it fell because of the piano's vibrating, but it was on my nightstand on the other side of the room. I brushed it off. But I had to take the broken glass downstairs to the kitchen garbage. On my way upstairs I saw my sister had gotten out of bed and was in the family room coped by the fire. She knew not to light the fire by herself, but she told me that she didn't light it, but I knew that we were the only ones in the house. I thought that she was lying, but I said nothing and went back upstairs. Then on my piano stand that holds music I seen the Turkish March by Mozart, I knew it wasn't mine. So I went downstairs and asked Julianna and she said it wasn't hers-I thought she was lying. So I put the fire out and told her to go to bed. She said okay and as she went up the stairs, I went in the kitchen to get some water. Then as I went upstairs again I saw that the music had been taken. When my parents got home I told them about it and mom said that the Turkish March was her dad's, my grandfather's, favorite piece. She thought I was playing a trick on her of course. Then as I was going to my bedroom I looked at our family picture. My grandfather was in it holding a piece of music, I never noticed it before because it was so small. I looked real close and seen the music he was holding was by Mozart. I thought "Oh Brother!" I was kindly scared, but not hysterical. I didn't sleep that much that night. The next day in school I sat near an open window in music class because I was hot- I get hot easily. Before the test the teacher said we could take a few minutes to look over the text. The wind blew and turned my books pages to the chapter about Mozart. Then a few seconds later it turned it to the one about Haydn(a classical composer). The thing about Haydn is that his first name was Joseph, and Joseph was my grandfather's first name. It made me wonder. I kept it to myself, who would have believed it?! So was it a coincidence? Was it just the wind? Was it my sister playing a trick on me? Was the spirit of a dead musician? Was it the spirit of my grandfather? Then, a few days later or so, I remembered that Julianna told me that she didn't turn the fire on the other night when it happened. I asked her who did it, and she said that that never happened that she never went to the family room and that she never left her bedroom after I tucked her in. To this day, I don't like to listen to Mozart that much!

2007-03-13 10:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kreutzer 4 in Family

I tried it and it's not for me. I mean I know it's for some people and for them I say it's good but it's not something I'm going to do again. What do you think about online realtionships? Give me your opinion on whether you agree with them or not. Or if you agree with me on it and think if someone else wants to do it then they can but it's not for you. I am just curious to see who in all believes in finding love that way or not.

2007-03-13 10:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by Irish Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

....and I want to type a thank-you letter to my interviewer. My question is, should I drop the letter off or email it to her?

Sorry, I know it's wrongly categorized but that's the only way i'll get some answers...thanks!

2007-03-13 10:07:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom wants me to go to my sister-in-law's house for the days she's gone out of state. Me and my mom was arguing about that.

I just want to feel grown up living by myself while she's gone. So, today, my mom went out of the state. My sister-in-law came by to pick me up, I told her I would come to her house tomorrow because I was still packing up my clothes.

I know my mom is going to call, I want to tell my sister-in-law to say to my mom that I was staying with her for the night.

2007-03-13 10:07:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

help!

2007-03-13 10:07:22 · 3 answers · asked by livy (: 1 in Friends

There's this guy in my grade who got one of his friends to ask me out 3 years ago. I had been caught so off-guard that I never gave him an answer. Then the year after that, one of his other friends told me that he thought I was hot in front of him, and he was all embaressed, so I guess it was the truth.
Anyway, now it's been basically 2 years after that whole thing, and now I started liking him about 4 months ago.
Sometimes we catch the other person's eye for a matter of like 5 seconds (which is a lot of you think about it) during class, but I don't know if it means anything.
I do NOT don't have the guts to physically go up to him at school, but if it was online I would ask him.
The only problem IS that he doesn't have IM and I don't know his email, and I'm not about to ask anyone.We aren't really friends, and we like never end up talking at all.
This is driving me insane-I don't know if he still likes me or not or if I even have a chance with him anymore.
What do I do? Thanks!

2007-03-13 10:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by BOOM !! 1 in Singles & Dating

Hii =) ummm... whenever i think of something like perverted, like don't get me wrong im not one of those phycos but i always have to tell my mom or else i feel guilty or like something bad is gunna happen i have to get it off my chest..........anyway idk if that is normal or wut P.S. nd another reason i tell her is because idk if its normal pleasee give me ur opinion......

2007-03-13 10:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

There is this guy who I have had a crush on ever since I started high school. It's not for the looks but for the personality. I first met him through his older sister. The guy I like is in the same grade. We started talking once we first met. Now I have known him for over 7 months. I have gotten pretty comfortable being around him. He always likes to make me laugh and loves to challenge me. A few times a week we have tickling wars and he always tries to tickle me. We have held hands a few times during the tickling wars and once even held hands when we weren't. Only for a few seconds though.But after I had first met him he had a "church thing girlfriend". He told me it was only a "church thing" but that was right when I met him. Now he and I flirt more and more everyday. I can't help but wonder if he likes me and doesn't know that I like him or he just thinks of me as a friend. I have tried to hint that I like him and sometimes I think it works and sometimes it doesn't. Does he like me?

2007-03-13 10:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother has this horrible degenerate of a girlfriend. She has literally no redeeming qualities. She is not smart, she acts like she is 2, she tells him not to cuss when she does herself, she's fat as hell and has no eyebrows, and I think she just wants to get pregnant with him to get married and move out of her house. His best friend told him if he marries her he won't show up to the wedding, I agreed with him. How can I get them to break up?? It's clear he is just desperate, but he refuses to admit it. We have had many conversations where I tell him how I feel about her, but he doesn't care. Any tips at all would be great.

2007-03-13 10:05:44 · 13 answers · asked by dajackson 1 in Singles & Dating

for example he told me I couldn't do drugs and he tures right around and abuses his meds

2007-03-13 10:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by ilove_drew2006 1 in Singles & Dating