What to do in this complex situation...HELP!?

Question

So there's this guy. And I like him, and I am really sure that he likes me. This is at my swim practice, and his times don't coincide with mine, saying that I can never talk to him. He has a lot of friends, guys and girls, and he seems like a fun person to be around and he swims really good :) He is too shy to come up to me and I am too shy to come up to him. I am afraid to ask one of the girls, who I meet in the dressing room, to tell me about him because he might find out.
But I am perfectly sure that he likes me, he looks at me all the time, and sometimes he smiles...and his guy friends always look at me too...am I just dreaming or does he like me? And how should I approach him or should I wait for him to do it? Please help! :)

Answer 1

Maybe you should ask his friends about him. If he knows you like him he's more likely to approach you, guys don't like putting themselves out there.

Answer 2

Smile and wave at him when you see him. Say hi whenever you see him. This should be enough to let him know you like him. This is what I've learned about guys: they're waiting for the light to turn green. They are waiting for a signal from your part to know they can make a move because they are afraid to be turned down.

The fact that he is shy has nothing to do with it. He is still a guy. Let him make an effort to show you he is interested by making a move as well. He noticed you. Show him from afar you're interested and then the ball is back on his side of the field. If he doesn't make an effort now he won't make an effort in the future.

Whatever you do DON'T involve other people!! They'll just make it worse and more complicated.

Answer 3

what's wrong with you approaching him? some guys are just too shy! you never know what will happen if you don't try! if you feel that he likes you, that's how it is! you have to have guts girlfriend :-*