I am going to sleep around or implys to have him dead- goodness- NEVER! I am just trying to weigh things more and also consider all the "what if's"! I am very much hurt, remember?!? Deceiving husband- hello! Good thing I ask in here, nobody know who I am, if not, say I ask friends or counselors, everyone becomes judgmental just like what you're doing now! Not all though but most of you are! Anyway, my question is, how can you answer questions when your percentage shows how little you know? Don't you know that your answers/percentage are reflections of your heart and size of your brain? But I still want to thank those who are so sweet and honest and nice. Go ahead, give me good answers!
2007-03-13 10:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by finding_answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To those who reacted to my question negatively, don't, it shows your temper and attitude. And to those who took their time to answer my lousy question honestly- appreciate it a lot! And to those who want to react some more, go ahead-give me your best shot!
2007-03-20 09:38:56 · update #1
I'm not angry at you, but I feel there's some information that
you're not realizing. ie: When a person joins YahooAnswers,
they do NOT come in with a percentage of 99% because you
must START answering questions to even establish one.
Percentage does not reflect knowledge (or lack of) on any
given subject. Hypothetical case: If Dr. Ruth joins YA, does
it mean she doesn't know anything about sex, just because her percentage is only 2%?? I don't think so!! BUT, there are some people on this site who don't know sh*t, and they
just answer a lot of questions only to acquire the points.
A deceiving husband or not, if you don't want to "air your dirty
laundry", don't ask the teens on this site for their opinions.
2007-03-21 05:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answer the questions even though my profile shows I have only 8% of best answers. I think the ratings however are subjective. It is not an accurate or scientific measurement of intelligence or heart size. I have found that I get the best ratings for helpful information. The criteria is usually the most compassionate person who shares a similar experience (empathy) wins. On some level we all need to feel helpful. This way we feel better about ourselves no matter what we score.
2007-03-20 19:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I replied to your question the first time, and hope that I am not one of those big hearted peanut brained individuals you are refering to. What is actual "deceiving husband" doing to cause you such pain? Maybe I missed a question in regards to this? And what are the "what if's" you are searching for? There are a lot of helpful responses to your question, yet nothing you want to hear. James Van Praagh once wrote these words "We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own path, and we will never be HAPPY if we live someone else's idea of life." It's only my opinion but "what if's" in life are always present especially when refering to the past. I could have a million discussions with myself in regards to where I am at in life if I looked at the "what if's". My heart goes out to you for your dilema that is causing you so much grief but you may be the only one who can answer your own question, ultimately you have to make the decision and keep in mind that some people lose sight of the fact that of two evils, it isn't always necessary to choose either.
God's peace be with you
2007-03-15 06:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by dad_raisn_5_onmyown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the percentages aren't reflective of how decent and sincere answers can be. Some of us try our utmost to share our honest and polite opinion, which is what askers want. Thus, the forum which exists. I don't check anyone else's stats, and I don't know how many people do. Most people have a limited time on here, so we go to questions which interest us, or which we have some information to share.
Sorry you have had a bad experience.
2007-03-13 10:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for putting your private bussiness in the internet and ask the opinion of strangers.
It was your choice not to tell the people that know you...remember?
What do you expect? Professional advice from mostly teenagers???
If you think that you know it all and have everything figured it out, then don't ask for advice... since you don't need it.
Also, why insulting the people taht have taken time out of their life to answer you lousy question?
They have meds for what you have.
2007-03-13 10:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your at 2%.
Most of the time, the asker only picks the question that gave the answer they WANTED to hear.....
A woman could write how she is sleeping with a married man, and 41 people will tell her "Bad idea", and the one stupid person who says something like, "Hey, go for it", the asker with choose THAT answer as being best.
2007-03-13 10:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because you have a low percentage of best answers doesn't mean you don't know what you're talking about. It just means someone else liked another answer better. Anyway~~~~I'm not really up to par on your situation.....sorry if people seem to judge you...........
2007-03-13 10:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me for years before he finally admitted to it. I don't want anything to happen to him either but, I believe what goes around comes around. He will be on the other end sometime in his life. I am not a therapist or nothing just a woman who has been there, and I think we should share what happens and what we feel, it can help others.
2007-03-13 10:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU are the one who put your private life here.. you should expect a variety of answers.. and you sure got them.. but DONT put people down for any answer,,and you wanna talk about the size of THEIR brains, sister, you got big ballz.
2007-03-21 04:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck! I always wanted to be a comedian just like all the other people on this site!! I think I am as funny as any of them!!
2007-03-20 09:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by dale j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋