It is said that grils don't even know what the want there selfs. So i was wondering:
What do the want ?
I'm kinda looking for female answers. On for example:
What would you love to happen ?
What would you hate to happen ?
What is totaly wrong to say ?
What's the best thing you could possibly say.
Is it all about looks or personality etc. I think you all get me here. Love to hear something.
Cheers.
2007-03-13 10:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they want to be loved and taken care of.most of all, treated with respect and kindness!
2007-03-13 10:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE want men to value us, to show us that you care not just say that, we want men to feel proud of us.
I would love to have a husand for the rest of my life just so I can share everything with him and be there for him
I would hate being cheated that would change me.
Never ever compare us to another woman that is very very wrong
The best thing I could say is let´s run away to another world and I woul like to hear that too, but by taking hands and running around the block will do it.
Looks are important at first, you have to feel attracted, but once you start admiring a person he/she becomes really handsome/pretty for some reason, so after that no matter if they gain weight or loose hair, they are still amazing for your eyes.
2007-03-13 17:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls just want to be held, and loved, and respected. We love when a guy is really sweet to us and really romantic. Well at least i do. Something that i would love to happen is: A guy call you for no important reason but just to tell you they love you and miss you and are thinking about you and that you are beautiful and are special to them. My boyfriend does this alot. If a girls having a bad day, this will bring a smile to their face and most likely make their day a little bit better.
Something i would hate to happen: Find out that my boyfriend is cheating on me or "talking" to another girl as if he was trying to be with her. Girls want respect and love, not a jerk who is just with her to be with her. Also, NEVER be mean to her around your friends or embarass her around them. This will say that you don't want your friends to respect her either because you obviously don't. Try not to spend all of your time with "the guys" and not with "your girl" cause she needs to know that you think that she is important and worth spending time with. But also give her some time to hang out with her girls. Maybe try to plan a weekend or day that you want to go out with the guys and she wants to go out with the girls....that way, you'll both be happy and neither of you will get hurt!
Worst thing to say: Probably telling her that she looks ugly or fat or not as pretty as some other girl. You should always give a girl a compliment if you want to win her heart. You should also never give your "lady friends" more attention than your own girlfriend. That's a big "NO NO". If you do this, this is saying that your g/f is not as important or special to you as maybe one of your lady friends are. This is never a good thing.
Best thing to say: Like i said before, tell her she's beautiful and special and just that you love her and that you are in love with her. Girls love when guys show that they really care and girls also love when they know that you are there for them and will take care of them and protect them.
I think that it is kind of hard to start a relationship with a guy that you don't know without being attracted to them but i would say that i put personality first and then looks. If the great personality is already there, then the looks will come. I always say that " his personality makes him cute " and thats how it goes for me.
I hope this helps you! Maybe some girls think diffrent but i think i summed it up for me!
2007-03-13 17:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love guys to be honest. Some like funny guys. If you have a funny joke tell her. Don't be afraid to walk up to her and talk. We hate that your being shy. Be brave. We don't like imposses or liers. So be yourself don't pretend to be something your not.
2007-03-13 17:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by cutelittlebitch_130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want someone who isn't afraid to be themselves. I am immediately turned off by those pretending to be someone he isn't just for the sake of "fitting in".
Also, I appreciate a man who is articulate and affectionate. Of course, as you always hear, sense of humor is also key. :)
2007-03-13 17:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats right dude...girls dont even know what they want...but i will tell you...what women want is a project, that they can work at changing, and when the weak enough man does change, then they want to move onto another project. this is because they hate masculinity, yet once demasculined enough your like a another chick to them, and no longer viable...
and believe it or not...im not bitter over anything! just truthful!
2007-03-13 17:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nobody knows for sure what they want
love to happen-relationship where we can talk about anything with deep meaning or just laughing
hate to happen-doesnt like me for me, hits on me
wrong to say-yes you look fat, how much money do you got, you can pay
best thing to say- just give compliments on our hair or clothes
all i can say
hope this helps
2007-03-13 17:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want a guy who is nice and caring. alot of love. not all bout sex you know.that you r fat loose waight. all bout personality and inside
2007-03-13 17:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by hek09876543210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they want someone to handle the problems for them that they get themselves in to. girls get themselves in ludacris drama, and then need someone to bail them out. if a guy cant notice that then they get angry and fussy.
2007-03-13 17:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by JayPVIP 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
someone who doesn't screw them over
2007-03-13 17:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by stacey w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋