I'm really confused; girls, what should I do?

Question

Okay, so me and my bf have been in a relationship for five years, and I love him a lot. I'm 22 and he's 24, but it's like sex is becomming a chore because usually he's the only one who gets all the pleasure, and I really don't know how to tell him, or make the situation better?!! Any suggestions??!!

Answer 1

I was on the same boat. but i finally went and sat him down and told him that i was okay giving him what he wanted but i was not going to make it a job. i told him that it should go both ways and once he was done it was over. i thought that it would bother him but he really was okay with it. when we are togather its diffrent he puts more time into me then him self and that is what every girl needs.

Answer 2

Please have a sit down, relax and tlak with each other conversation. Over coffee and dessert or something. Communication is vital in all relationships. You can let him know you enjoy the intimate time with him, but need more satisfaction for yourself. Let him know what you want. Not demand, but would apreciate him doing. Then, next time move his hands where you want to be touched, talk with him, let him know what you want, etc. Or, just forget the sit down talk, and do the other. Your choice. However, communication is so very important. Take care.

Answer 3

Hi! well.....during sex,while you're giving him pleasure,tell him you want him to do something for you,give him the details,there should always be communication in sex,it is selfish of him having it all and you get nothing or little.But remember it's during sex because in that point he will feel he must give in order to receive.Yeah,it's like a little game, "now it's my turn.'' Good Luck!

Answer 4

Stop having sex. You have already damaged your relationship by having premarital sex