Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

that a girl that i was sleeping with in july and august of 2006 is pregnant and it may be by me she says that she is almost positive that it is mine should i wait till the baby is born and get a dna test or should i tell now or should i just keep it a secret altogether

2007-03-13 11:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, theres this boy in school, adn ive liked him for about 2 months now. except i didnt tell any1,cause sometimes my friends blab. anyway i told my one friend and she was lik" oh, cool" and then later, she was like, over email, i like "the boys name"!!!! isnt that sooo unfair! what should i do, i mean shes only liked him for like a week, and i really like him, plus she kinda likes someone else. what should i do, please help
but now shes saying shes srry, and that she wont like him anymore, should i belive her? should i stop liking the guy?

2007-03-13 11:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is the best boyfriend ever......but his bestfriend just came back to scholl and he keeps hanging out with him he didn't he even sit with me today, I have no issue with that as long as he would have told me. But he still won't talk to me do you think that he would want to break up with me and don't tell me i am jealous because i am not. just please help.... I NEED HELP!!!!

2007-03-13 11:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by ptetty in pink 1 in Friends

Would you want to talk to his ex directly before making the same mistakes she did? Would you want a "warning" about him? Sometimes people put on a good front. I'm wondering if I should talk to her first.

2007-03-13 11:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents lovemr, my sisters love me , my friends doint hate me but yet i have the urge to kill my self i doitn now y can any one tell me y .....

P.S. i am not gana kill my self i just fell like i want to

2007-03-13 11:09:00 · 2 answers · asked by mitymouse247 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he talks to me and looks at me. not innapropriately. but he also likes to find things that make me laugh, and keep telling them to me, and others. He doesn't really do it to other people.

I like him though, and i have his e-mail. Do you think he likes me? Should i say something, or just walk away?

2007-03-13 11:08:41 · 16 answers · asked by three4three 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel quite uncomfortable and *scared* to stay alone. I just moved from Virginia to California, so I don't have any friends yet...and i'm not 21 (lol). What could I do to ease my time and boredom while he's gone? (other than work work work and watch TV).

Also, what can help me stop being nervous about staying home alone at night??

2007-03-13 11:08:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK Theres this guy that i have a couple of classes with and in 1 of them we dont have assined seats but most of us sit in the same seat every day. Well sinxe theres only like 5 guyes in that class he normally sits with thim. But Yesterday i was sitting in the back of the class with some of my friends and he just came back there and sat behind me. And like every time i would get up he would totally stare ay my butt. And when he would i would turn around and he would pretend he wasn't looking. So when i sat back down he would always come up with an excuse to get me to turnaround and look at him. And he would always have the most perfect look on hiz face. Like a puppy and with that face i cant resist i have to do something about it. so today in the other class i have with him i heard that him and hiz girlfriend had broke-up and i started to ask him why and he started to yell at me so i stopped. But my question is does he like me or is he just actingfunny around me cuze thats the way heis?

2007-03-13 11:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by jonlova_23 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy who likes me back, but he has a girlfriend. We always flirt and tell each other we love each other, but he continues to be with his girlfriend. Should i continue this or tell him he needs to choose 1 girl not both or what??

2007-03-13 11:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Mira 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:06:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he works out of state and only gets to see her on the weekends.she has to stay with her stepmother, whom she can't stand, and has to babysit her 2 kids while she naps or socialized with friends.i still owe my lawyer money and can't do nothing through the court.what should i do and how can i get her back to me, where she beloongs. we think its a very unstable environment for her. not to mention, her grades have dropped dramatically since.

2007-03-13 11:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by calfra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 11:05:30 · 8 answers · asked by Jean P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They started seeing during his freshman year of college (8 years ago). She was his first real girlfriend and he lost his virginity to her. She sends him an email every month like clockwork and says things like "Lots of my ex boyfriends have stopped talking to me once they got into a relationship. I don't want that to happen to us because I really care about you".He didn't email her for a month or so and she sent him this e-mail. "so...is this your e-mail address still? I feel like a dork.I've been e-mailing you and I haven't heard back and I sent you some really stupid pictures and I'm embarrassed. :) Anyway, I know I'm being ridiculous and unstable, but you're not mad or anything? Sometimes paranoia sets in. I wanted to give you a call, but I don't have your number" Her emails make me angry!
She ends them with "LOVE" and she is persistently begging him to send or pictures or call her. She is married for god sakes! It just seems weird to me.

2007-03-13 11:05:05 · 8 answers · asked by delirium cornucopia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have alot of money to spend on it, and I want it to be a surprise birthday party since he has never really had a great birthday. He is just your usual guy but I am just not sure what I should do.

2007-03-13 11:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If a boy likes you and they tell there friends that they like you. Would that mean that they like you like they think your cute or hot or mean personality? Then one of his friends came along and said do you like him I said no. thanks for the great help.

2007-03-13 11:04:17 · 8 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:03:59 · 10 answers · asked by Falcão da Justiça 4 in Singles & Dating

last year i was seeing a guy but because we lived too far away we didn't have time to see each other and i have a job aswell. but at a recent party i saw him. and he asked for another chance, he was really sweet, we sat and talked for hours and he said he was sorry for everything he did even though he was a bit tipsy. his friends said he never stopped liking me. i still like him but don't really have anything to talk about in person. on the computer and texting is ok jsut in person. another chance?

2007-03-13 11:02:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling really frustated with my partner.

We both work full time and i do most of the work round the house,i would prefer to share it but I know this is not uncommon so I don't complain.

We have three kids and although I never doubt he loves them he has never given them much encouragement.He's never played football,taught them to ride their bikes,taken them swimming, to the park or anything.

When they were little he was studying but now it's busy with work. There's always something.

I've tried talking to him rationally,I've told him it's upsetting but nothing makes any impact. He just shrugs or gets annoyed with me.

He thinks we're so blissfully happy inspite of what I've said, it's like he doesn't hear.

I want to make things work but I don't know what to do next.

2007-03-13 11:02:48 · 17 answers · asked by mistyblue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 11:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jean P 1 in Weddings

This question is mainly for the guys but some ladies might. How many of you would have sex with some 1 you were totally unattracted to if you knew nobody would find out?

2007-03-13 11:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Singles & Dating

So I talk to this guy at school and I got his number from his friend. I texted him and asked if he minded, he said no, and then today (that last was yesterday) I sent a text asking what he wanted for his bday and his hasnt replied ... I know I prob should have waited another day or so, but with his number, I know I have the opportunity to talk to him so much more. HELP!

2007-03-13 11:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by Modern-day Ask Abby 2 in Singles & Dating

No one in my family thinks that my fiance is right for me.I love him and he loves me ........we have had a long 3 years but we overcame it.............They disapprove because he was incarserated for 10 years..but it behind him

2007-03-13 11:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by mrs. doc 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some good strategies or good advice for getting over your ex-fiance that I'm no long with??

2007-03-13 11:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by Elie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm athletic, and I'm wondering how guys feel about it. I play goalie for hockey, and I even play with guys but alot of them are quiet with me.

I'm wondering what guys take is on athletic girls? Are you guys intimidated by them or just shy around them or worried their gonna spank you at a "guys" sport?

I'm really curtious about this, and I'm wondering if it contributes to the fact I struggle to get asked out.

2007-03-13 10:59:53 · 17 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 10:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so then dont respnd

2007-03-13 10:58:50 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Friends

Ok our reception is in a different place then our wedding about 18 mile travel distance. We are having a cash bar so is this our cocktail hour? is this tacky rude?? We are on a strict budget. I am serving a sit down dinner appetizers, salad, dinner, desert.. I would rather pay good money for a dinner then money to get my guest sloshed.... Cocktail hour is the time between the time when we take pics and it takes us to get to the reception... so are we being tacky?

2007-03-13 10:58:39 · 29 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Weddings

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 4 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. SHE ONLY WANTED TO BE FRIENDS!

We 3 WEEKS AGO at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

Today I asked her if I could add her as my friend on Facebook(via email)THATS ALL I ASKED,NOTHING ELSE.She wrote bck: asking how I am,what she done on her wkn and said I can add her "as a friend lol"

I said how I was and asked NO questions about herself-

SHE WROTE BACK AGAIN, saying I should be having fun with the ladies and to join her appreciation society!Wrote back saying I've been having fun wth other girls-too much fun!

She didn't reply to that email-though I asked how her dancing is going-WHY NO REPLY??

I'm shocked as she said via txt 4 weeks ago that the friendship is OVER!!!Did she mean what she wrote in the txt???

Is the friendship restarting??? A POSITIVE SIGN???

2007-03-13 10:58:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17, and was at the mall with my mom, she left to a different store and i was walkin around by myself, this guy told me i was gorgeous and asked for my phone number, i said no, and thanked him for the compliment then left, then i ran into him again! i thought he was cute, but he seemed a lot older, anyway he asked me for it AGAIN and i gave it to him, he called me last night and asked me to meet him at the movies and he will make me dinner at his place! he is 28, do you think he just wants to use me, or could this be a real man for once? im so sick of boys, my last boyfriend didnt even have a car and this guy has his own place!

2007-03-13 10:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by puppyluv 3 in Singles & Dating