that a girl that i was sleeping with in july and august of 2006 is pregnant and it may be by me she says that she is almost positive that it is mine should i wait till the baby is born and get a dna test or should i tell now or should i just keep it a secret altogether
2007-03-13 11:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her. honesty is the best policy. if you wait, she is gonna get all upset that u didn't tell her earlier and u can avoid that whole arguement by telling her now so she can mentally prepare herself if it is yours
2007-03-13 11:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Honesty is the key to a good relationship. Either way you take a chance on getting "kicked out" of a relationship but wouldn't you rather end the relationship on a good note instead of yelling and screaming about sleeping with this other girl? I know I would! I would tell her, if she breaks the realtionship off you can just know that she doesn't care because if she did she would listen and help you through it. Tell her, wait until the baby's born and get a DNA test, if it's positive then I would fight for custody of the child. I am so sorry that you are going through this situation!
Good luck!
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2007-03-13 18:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her because if I was going out with you I wouldn't want you to lie or keep a secret from me, and also if I did something like that I know that you wouldn't want me to keep any secrets from you. So do what you want if you really love this girl I would tell her. But if you don't then don't go out with her. I would help take care of the baby if it's yours and if it's not then good. Good luck on your choice!!!
2007-03-13 18:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girl friend, secrits are not good. Tell her you are not positive the baby is your's but it might be then get a dna test when it is born.
2007-03-13 18:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by TBfan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her!!! She will respect you more for your honesty and you can face the girl and the situation together! Then get a dna test asap!
2007-03-13 18:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Good Witch of the South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her now.If it was me,I would like to know now.You must not care too much about your girlfriend to have done such a thing to her she's better off with out you in her life .Relationships need to be about honesty and RESPECT.You neither one.
2007-03-13 18:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by lovely1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you cheated on her you need to tell her and be a man about it. If you weren't with her at the time then she can be mad at you . BUT if you did cheat you need to own up to it and tell her so she can get out and find someone who doesn't mess around.
2007-03-13 18:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by h.b.i.c. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now dont keep any secrets......she might leave you she might not....it was from your past mayb she will understand....but if you keep it a secret from her and she finds out from someone else shes not going to forgive you....good luck next time use protection
2007-03-13 18:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this girl was before her time, you should tell her. I think it would be awfully awkward to have to explain that later on, like if you were to get married to current gf and have to explain child support payments.
2007-03-13 18:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no tell her now,that way when the baby comes it wont hit her as hard,just be sure to tell her ur with her and ur gonna be a farter to you kid but that wont change ur relationship and how you fell about her,good luck!
2007-03-13 18:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋