2007-03-13 11:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by ptetty in pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should try to exercise your "courage" into putting people ( especially males) in their place . Especially when you are the one who is being subjected to this discomfort.....
Swallow some Iron , girlfriend, and tell this lizard to go back under their rock.
2007-03-13 11:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you DO have the courage to tell him to stop... you just need to find out where that courage is hidden. Ultimately, it's this meek, doormat attitude of yours that encourages him to touch you without permission.
Saying no doesn't make you a b**ch or a bad person or even rude... just politely tell him "I don't like it when you touch me like that, and you need to not do that ever again." If he doesn't respect your request, then you have the right to tell him NO more forcefully, push his hands or body away, and if need be, report him to a teacher or the police.
This is good practice for you to start standing up for yourself... if you can't even say no to someone who is just grabbing you, how will you stand up to someone who is using you, raping you, beating you? You'd try and protect yourself then, wouldn't you? So, if you have the courage to face a big danger like that, you have the courage to face a little unpleasantness like this, see? It's in there - just trust yourself.
2007-03-13 11:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, i also had the SAME problem. it kinda depends on how close u guys are, and weather u still want him as a friend or not. basically, the nicest thing to do is to be around him with other male friends, or LOTS of female friends, so he'll b too embarassed to touch u. also, when he makes a move, move his hands away in a joking manner, and change the topic. also, make him know that u are uncomfortable with him touching you.
good luck! ^_^
2007-03-13 11:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply after awhile it bothers you, "right" well show that person the same thing but in a way that he or she can see the point but like when that person grabs or is touchy dont put up with it and say, hey I dont mean to mean but stop! I dont like it, if you dont like it go away. hopefully the person will understand.
2007-03-13 11:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's time to find your courage. You are teaching your friend (??) that it's okay with you if he treats you disrespectfully. Don't let him, or anyone else, do things to you that are offensive to you. Tell him to stop! If he doesn't, he's no friend.
2007-03-13 11:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay i had the same problem.....this guy taylor would NOT stop touching my legs and arms and grabbing my hand and it bothered me so i told him thru txt and again in a note....he didnt stop and it REALLY ticked me off so i slapped his face and told him hed better stop....now he only does it erry once in a wile and i let it slide sometimes and sometimes i dont
2007-03-13 11:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Christina. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF IT BOTHERS YOU TELL HIM TO STOP!!
i know this from experience, my girlfriend had a similar problem with a guy and it ended nasty . . . tell him to back off before its too late.
2007-03-13 11:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by prince14 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're not going to tell him to stop, you'll just have to put up with it or don't go around him anymore.
2007-03-13 11:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Get a life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just TELL HIM, you have the GOD given right not to be touched or grabbed unless YOU want to be.
2007-03-13 11:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then learn to LOVE and ENJOY the touching and grabbing scaredy cat.
2007-03-13 11:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋