My boyfriend is the best boyfriend ever......but his bestfriend just came back to scholl and he keeps hanging out with him he didn't he even sit with me today, I have no issue with that as long as he would have told me. But he still won't talk to me do you think that he would want to break up with me and don't tell me i am jealous because i am not. just please help.... I NEED HELP!!!!
2007-03-13 11:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did I mention his best friend is a GIRL!!!!!
2007-03-13 11:37:01 · update #1
Well let's see...
he's your boyfriend right?not yet your husband, so i guess he doesn't really need to tell you everything he's up to. Knowing that he's best boyfriend is the catch. His bestfriend was like a long lost friend right? You were together for how long now? Why not give them time for now. But if takes like a week without notice, and he really doesn't spend times with you, that's something. You could ask him and tell him how you feel and share with him your insights. But for now, try to understand that they miss each other. Just make him feel you're always there for him.
2007-03-13 11:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by mushy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in his shoes... if you're best friend just came back to school, wouldn't you want to sit with them? Yes, he should have told you, but its not that big of a deal. He probably was just happy that his friend came back and needed to spend some time with him.
If it happens continuously, or if he stops talking to you altogether, then that's a different story.
If it really bothers you that much, just talk to him calmly and let him know that you would have appreciated him telling you that he was going to sit with his friend and not with you. Don't be mad at him, because then he'll feel threatened. Just speak calmly and you'll get this settled.
good luck.
2007-03-13 11:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just needs some guy time. His friend just came back, so he is probably wanting to catch up with him. let it go for a few days. If he is still giving you the cold shoulder, talk to him...calmly.
2007-03-13 11:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kewpie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to relax. It's just one day. He can hang with his friends for a while if he wants. Now, if he ignores you and doesn't talk to you for like a week, Then its probably over.
2007-03-13 11:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just excited his best friend is back.. talk to him about it or try sitting with him and his best friend.. im sure once things are back in the normal flow stuff will level out.. i doubt its a sign he wants to break up.. hes just excited for his friend goodluck =]
2007-03-13 11:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel!! some boys are like that when they get around their friends they are a whole different person! but its only one day and he probably just wants to hang out wit his friends. but if it continues then just talk to him and if he act like a jackass then he wasn't really for you!
2007-03-13 11:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. If he gets mad at you for just bringing up the issue, then dump him. But if he really is great, then he should just be like, "Oh i'm sorry. I didn't know it upset you that much."
2007-03-13 11:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by mareda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him how u feel bout havin his friend around.or try 2 hang out with them.try 2 fit n with them.try 2 talk with him one one.
2007-03-13 11:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple more days and if it's still going on then talk to him. Ask him why he's acting so stupid.=] you dont deserve it!
2007-03-13 11:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by booo!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to talk to him. i had the same problem, and i talked to my boyfriend about it. and we fixed it. just talk to him about it (or write him a note). thats the best thing to do.
2007-03-13 11:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋