I'm 17, and was at the mall with my mom, she left to a different store and i was walkin around by myself, this guy told me i was gorgeous and asked for my phone number, i said no, and thanked him for the compliment then left, then i ran into him again! i thought he was cute, but he seemed a lot older, anyway he asked me for it AGAIN and i gave it to him, he called me last night and asked me to meet him at the movies and he will make me dinner at his place! he is 28, do you think he just wants to use me, or could this be a real man for once? im so sick of boys, my last boyfriend didnt even have a car and this guy has his own place!
2007-03-13 10:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by puppyluv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes! He's 28, you're 17. Sorry, but I wouldn't trust him. He might rape you or something...this shouldn't be happening. I know you're sick of boys (I know how you feel), but please, don't. And the first person who answered doesn't know what they're talking about. They don't know your dad, I know my dad wouldn't rape me. So anyways, please. You're 17, and you have a life to live. Please don't go.
2007-03-13 11:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ive dated older guys like that. They never really want a relationship. He just wants to get in your pants! By going to the movies and having dinner with him is making him think that hes already there. If you dont want a flingy, casual (sex) relationship with him, then dont see him.
2007-03-13 11:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I would definitely get to know him better before going to his place. Yeah dinner sounds harmless, but you never know what kind of person he really is. Just get to know him in public first please, pedophiles are everywhere and they are very hard to pin point. If he doesn't understand why you won't go to his place so soon, then he isn't interested in anything but getting in your pants.
2007-03-13 11:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be careful....try to meet him at public place first...restaurants, movies, park etc....DONT go to his place yet, even if he says he's goin to cook for you, just say that your parents are taking u out to dinner or make other excuses....just dont go to his place after u feel comfortable or around 4- 5 dates! other than that Good Luck!
2007-03-13 11:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by deliah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this MAN should be dating women his own age. your young and shouldn't be dating sum1 that old. he sounds like a pervert,besides,do you think with an age difference like that, it would last, in a few years your gonna want sum1 younger,or he'll want sum1 older. god bless you! your in my prayers sweetheart !!! john
2007-03-13 11:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no don't do it
2007-03-13 11:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to rape you and kill you. Report him to the police, and tell your mother.
If you have a dad, do NOT tell him about this. Your dad will take advantage of the situation and rape you.
2007-03-13 11:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 13⤋
please dont go out with this guy!
2007-03-13 11:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bubba 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋