I like this guy who likes me back, but he has a girlfriend. We always flirt and tell each other we love each other, but he continues to be with his girlfriend. Should i continue this or tell him he needs to choose 1 girl not both or what??
2007-03-13 11:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Mira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should back off and tell him to do the same.
geez
2007-03-13 11:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh thats easy hunny he is unavailable and a major flirt
so lets say you keep flirting with him the chances are it will stay that way i mean why by the cow when you get the milk free and you get to have another cow on the side lol so im not calling you a cow but i am saying why would he want to end this he gets his girlfriend and a hot other chick that flirts with him. hmmm sounds like hes a jerk
ok so that leaves you telling him to choose. well lets see the outcomes are #1 he will choose his gf (which he already is by staying with her)
and #2 he leaves his girlfriend for you. YES ya how great is that right? well what makes you think he wont go out and flirt with other girls when he is with you
so i promose option #3 stop fooling yourself and leave him in the dust. go find yourself a single hot guy that loves you for you while he withers and cringes in the dirt and misery for letting someone like you go
2007-03-13 11:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whilst he's telling you he loves you, you can be sure he's telling her the exact same thing. I wouldn't even bother asking him to choose I would just not continue in flirting with him. If he can have a girlfriend and flirt and say he loves you whats to say he wont do the same if he were your boyfriend?
2007-03-13 11:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by jessicarabbit21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him he needs to choose, because it's not right towards his current girlfriend that he is with. Don't let him play you both for a fool, and what if he was with you, and started flirting with another girl?? Honestly..how would you feel about that?? I wouldn't feel too hot about it if I were in your shoes. I hope that he makes a good decision.
2007-03-13 11:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is willing to go behind his girlfriends back and flirt with you like this then he is gonna do the same if he leaves her for you, do you really wana be with a guy who is always looking for another gal?
2007-03-13 11:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all I wouldnt make him choose(that would b a big mistake) If I were u I would just not tell him u love him back if like he says it! O and just move on if he's not gonna leave his gf then he's not worth it! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-13 11:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you to back off because I know thats not what you want to hear. BUT you need to tell him that if he is going to like you the same way you like him then tell him to break up with his girlfriend. If you need any emotional support then email me at horslvr427@yahoo.com.
2007-03-13 11:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a man that verbally cheats on his girlfriend? You're next. He leaves her for you (if he even will) and then leaves you for a new girl because now you're old news. Way to pick 'em girl!
2007-03-13 11:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Elie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! let him decide whenever. the last thing you want is to be in the middle of their relationship! continue to be friends with him & flirt in a friendly way.. maybe he does like you, he just doesn`t like you as much as he likes his gf. boys are confusing like that. let him be with her, she`ll find out someway somehow if he`s not into her. =] bestofluck.
2007-03-13 11:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to consider why he still is dating the other girl and why he hasn't dumped her for you. Because you both like each other, talk to him and tell him who it is going to be
2007-03-13 11:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to choose one girl. If he's not satisfied with you, than there is something seriously wrong with him. Tell him to choose one of you.
2007-03-13 11:14:18 · answer #11 · answered by Lina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋