Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

Besides working out, which does help with our intimacy, what kinds of things, (herbs, ect, but no rx meds) could help increase her sexual desire. She is using zoloft which could be contributing to this lack of desire. Or it could be me....who knows, but has anyone been in this position and found something that worked for them?

2007-03-09 03:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by Bumbo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and an ex broke up about 4 years ago... we dated for 3.5 years... it ended ok i guess both really sad... anyways we both graduated from college now and live in the same city. i haven't spoke to her for about two years and she was trying to get back together. i was in another relationship at the time so i cut off contact. i am now single and really do miss her. my friend ran into this past summer and she talked to him telling him she really missed me. we really were a perfect couple just dated too young. i love her family, and she is a really good, smart girl, but she broke my heart. should i contact her and if so how?

2007-03-09 03:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I do as the wrestling coach at my middle school? Need help!!!!?

I coach wrestling here at my middle school. We have a 14 year old 8th grade girl Paige who is very pretty and was a cheerleader last year, decide to wrestle. Unfortunately she isnt very good. When we wrestle in practice, I think some boys may grope her butt and try to get some " free " feels. She hasnt complained but I noticed some things. Should I leave it alone or say something?

2007-03-09 03:49:52 · 2 answers · asked by don 1 in Friends

my guy cousin is gay. He visit every now in then and its no problem wit me. The only problem is......one day i was in the mall and from out of no where this group of guys dressed like females is heading in my direction. To make matters worse, my cousin was one of'em. I prayed that he didnt see me but he did and proceeded to hold a conversation. This was on a saturday so the mall was packed with people. While he was talking to me I noticed many people looking at me strange. Many people that I new from high school also passed by. Many didnt know he was my cousin but some did. Where I live rumors spread like wild fires. What should i do to ensure this never happens again?

2007-03-09 03:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello,
So I went to pick out my wedding dress yesterday and found a beautiful Augusta Jones dress that I love. I had to try on the dress at six months pregnant which is not a brides dream LOL but it had to be done before the baby was born since I have time to lose weight being that the wedding is in october. But she decided to order my dress in a 18 which was really scary because when not pregnant I am a 7-8 LOL She said that she just had to make sure it would fit when the day came which I am sure she knows what she is talking about. I guess my only concern is when I do get back to a 7-8 do you think a alterater really can get the dress to look exactly the same after removing all that fabric???? I am just a bit nervous because my best girlfriend thinks it will be off balance.

2007-03-09 03:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by Tracy.W 2 in Weddings

why are some people so dead set on ex's having no chance of getting back together? if you two have been apart for some time and have grown up and gotten over the past hurt and issues, can the relationship work?

2007-03-09 03:48:53 · 23 answers · asked by so_sincere 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have really cool friends and they've planned a huge bachelorette party for me (which includes a stripper!) My fiances friends are all married and controlled by their wives (no strippers allowed). They are planning to take my fiance to the bating cages to hit baseballs and to hooters for dinner - thats all. I feel bad for him because he wants a wild party like what Im having. I am completely comfortable in our relationship and want him to have the time of his life. Should i make suggestions to his best man? If so what should I say?

2007-03-09 03:47:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I want a committment, he doesn't. I'm not seeing other people, but he talks to other women on the phone all the time. I'm not very comfortable with that. It seems like once a week we go back & fourth because we both want this to be something that it's not. However, we keep holding on. I keep trying to be ok with the situation but I'm not. I think he keeps trying to get me to be ok with the situation by telling me that he understands I'm at a transition in my life & he does appreciate me, but he doesn't want to commit. I told him that I no longer want to burden him with my emotional mood swings about it all because it ways heavy on my heart because I care a great deal about him. I just don't think I've been being fair to myself. What should I do? I don't want to let him go but I can't deal with the other women & I'm whinning to him about it all the time.

2007-03-09 03:47:37 · 10 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

If your a tall girl im talking about tall, would you date a short guy? or do you want a guy taller than you? I want to know how many tall girls prefer short guys??

2007-03-09 03:47:36 · 14 answers · asked by deaftonez 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do doctors marry nurses? Is it the uniform????

2007-03-09 03:47:16 · 26 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in touch with many friends via email because most are students still and live away from home. Is it poor etiquette to send out wedding invitation via email? Do people do that now or should I resort to the tedious tasks of gathering mailing addresses from all over the country?

2007-03-09 03:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by kerri c 5 in Weddings

My first time to rent a flat on my own. what to eat? what to cook? when to clean and wash? what time to sleep? is a mess. I really dont know how to manage it. Have you been in such situation too?

2007-03-09 03:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by fredy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question before about Danny Glover and I got an answer posted that said "Hi Sardine, this is your doctor. I'm sorry to have to tell you like this but I lost your phone number. I'm afraid you have gonnheria." How can I tell if it is really my doctor? Also, what is gonnheria? If it isn't my doc, how did he know my name?

2007-03-09 03:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1 in Singles & Dating

For the last 5,6 yrs ive had the flu everyday and i was just wondering would this get in the way of a relationship..

2007-03-09 03:45:48 · 26 answers · asked by IC4NDY_ 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband to be and I keep bickering over his family time. My family is all in town, almost all of his are at least an hour away. The problem is, I always get left out. If I get upset or tell him I feel left out, I somehow always end up the bad guy because I "don't want him to spend time with his family." But when he spends time with him, its like he suddenly tosses me aside, and the time frame messes with me. He wants to go spend time out with his sister, but it can't be just leaving, say 4ish driving up there and hanging out and coming back, He has to leave at noon on sat. and not come back till sunday evening. I just don't feel that its reasonable, and he never has a compromise.

2007-03-09 03:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Weddings

I asked a question about people who enjoy alternative life styles and Yahoo deleted it. I guess they don't want to accept those who make different life choices. The question is below:

Deleted Question: Was Jesus Gay with the other disciples?

Question Details: Did Jesus bang the guys he was with?

Reason of Violation:Community Guidelines Violation

2007-03-09 03:45:16 · 19 answers · asked by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1 in Singles & Dating

Well we are both 20. He initiated it but we were making out and I didnt feel uncomfortable so I didnt stop him. I am a virgin and staying so until i find the right guy. But did I go far for a first date?

2007-03-09 03:44:48 · 20 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

why are some overweight girls very clingy . most overweight woman i have incounterd are not very clingy at all but a select few are very clingy

2007-03-09 03:43:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 14 year old son wants to legally change his name from Karl to "Cash-Money God". I don't understand the meaning behind it, we are well off but still. I understand why, I changed my name a few years ago to Super-King but thats awesome and bada s s. And his older brother changed his name to Max Overdrive which ic pretty good. Should I let him do as he wants?

2007-03-09 03:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the most attractive thing a young woman or woman preiod can do or wear for a guy to turn them on. Also what is the biggest turn of a women can do in and out of bed.

2007-03-09 03:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, it seems that my friends are kind of leaving me out and i dont know what to do. Im trying soo hard. This is what I did. I invited them to a movie on friday, then saturday we went to galmor shots and had a sleepover at my house, on tuesday me and a friend hung out from 9am-6pm and went to the mall. On wednsday, we had another sleepover at my house. Now its been 3-4 weeks and none oof them has invited me to anything and then i come to school and they tlak about how they hang together all the time and they tlak about there inside jokes that they dont tell me. They are pretty nice, and they say they dont want to lose me, what should I do??

2007-03-09 03:41:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she broke up with me in September 2005. We were in sporadic contact last year--roughly three or four times only--and she didn't even call to wish 'happy new year'. Last weekend, she calls me Sunday morning to ask whether I could buy her a present I bought her almost two years ago; she liked it very much, and it was broken.

I couldn't remember where I bought it, so I apologised and we bid goodbye.

Now, why would my ex want me to buy her a present I bought her during our relationship, especially when she has a boyfriend?!! Is she just daft, or does she have an agenda, maybe some yearning for a renewal (which I do not want!)

2007-03-09 03:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by ekbensah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 03:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by sephiorth384neo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

men think about sex all day long. everyday all day. if its not sex its sports. now i know womans minds are complicated and they have alot going on up there. but really woman, how often do you think about sex. do you crave sex just as much as men? i know its different for all situations such as ages and if your in a relationshp, but im interested in knowing wheather your single or married young or old. i want to get into your minds when it comes to sex.

2007-03-09 03:41:18 · 31 answers · asked by courisousgeorge 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this cheating? I glanced at a guy the other day...just out of the corner of my eye...and I feel soooo guilty. Keeping this from my new husband has been a nightmare. Should I just come clean about this? Do you think he will leave me?

2007-03-09 03:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Singles & Dating

the been together for a yr and half and no nothing not even a kiss or a hug
Do u think she is just using him and not feel love for him

2007-03-09 03:41:08 · 23 answers · asked by unverified 1 in Singles & Dating

i am whenever i am not engrossed in my work.lol

2007-03-09 03:40:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I met a man whom I've been talking on the internet for a while... He was a very interesting person to talk to, but he spoiled it all at the very end: he kissed me on my cheek :( And i just wasn't ready... i hoped we could be friends, but it seems that he wants more... I don't want to lose all contact with him because he is REALLy interesting, but i guess it's the wisest option as i don't wish to have anything with him... What would you do?

2007-03-09 03:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law is heavily into religion. If anyone has read my posts, you'll see that she can be a little over the top. In the past, I have told my mother in law that I don't want to discuss religion and have gotten into a fight about it because she tries to push it on me and my husband. She tells me that I need to get rid of my husband's violent movies and get him to listen to religious music. I am a Christian. I went to catholic school for 9 years and I taught in a catholic school for 6 years.
Ever since our fight, she's slowly talking about religion again. It burns me up inside because I told her that I don't want to discuss. My husband (her son) doesn't agree with parts of her religion either but lets her talk to appease her. But everytime she's here in our house...it never fails. I know it's a big part of her life but there are other things to talk about and I just feel like she's disreguarding what I said.
What can I say or should I just suck it up and deal with it

2007-03-09 03:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by qtpie 2 in Family

2007-03-09 03:38:59 · 20 answers · asked by D S 2 in Marriage & Divorce