my guy cousin is gay. He visit every now in then and its no problem wit me. The only problem is......one day i was in the mall and from out of no where this group of guys dressed like females is heading in my direction. To make matters worse, my cousin was one of'em. I prayed that he didnt see me but he did and proceeded to hold a conversation. This was on a saturday so the mall was packed with people. While he was talking to me I noticed many people looking at me strange. Many people that I new from high school also passed by. Many didnt know he was my cousin but some did. Where I live rumors spread like wild fires. What should i do to ensure this never happens again?
2007-03-09 03:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to accept people for whom they are, or cut them off altogether.
There isn't a middle way.
2007-03-09 03:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should jump off a bridge. If people think you know a gay guy, it is the end of life. You cannot devote your time to important things such as school, deciding on a career, or planning a future.
Or you can keep living. Some guys find it easier to get women who think they're gay. Women are weird . . .
2007-03-09 11:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to set boundaries to protect yourself. You don't want to ruin your own reputation by your cousin's behavior.
Tell your cousin frankly and kindly that you accept him as a person, but don't want to be seen with him in public.
2007-03-09 11:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about ppl, cuz they gone have sum 2 say anyway. as long as u know d truth,be satisfied, its only their thoughts
2007-03-09 11:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by pretty black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋