I am 27/f/india, being pressured into marriage.
My parents asked my preferences & I told them very clearly. Then they also made me meet a guy. However, we were not compatible at all on the 1st meeting.
In addition, he is the total opposite of what I wanted.
I told my parents to seek another match. I added that they had asked me my preferences so they should consider that.
However, they went ahead & fixed up my marriage with this man.
I feel very uncomfortable about it.
He is 38, has been married twice before, divorced, no children because neither of his marriages lasted over a few months.
he is a very boring person. He is an accountant & can't converse without talking about his job & numbers.
At least if he looked fairly good i'd have considered it as i feel there needs to be some attraction there. However there wasn't.
He wants a housewife where as I am career oriented.
I'm afraid it may not work out. I voiced my concerns to my parents in vain.
2007-03-09
04:30:59
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