now he is not ready to talk wih me wht to do?i love him and missing him badly
2007-03-09 04:28:07 · 15 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh please......... You want US to justify what YOU did and make YOU feel better? Anyone who looks elsewhere already knows that it wasn't a mistake. You did a clear move on your part to show interest in someone, much less his own brother, and now want to be forgiven by saying "but I love him only" That is so wrong. First off, you don't know the meaning of the word love. Better to ask that question first. Second, love means not hurting people. When you can figure out what it was inside you that was completely causing you to lose your brain and hit on his own brother............then perhaps you shouldn't be dating at all. Take time to sit in a corner and figure out what you really want....and quit involving other people until you do. Geez, this is not a "soap opera" !! This is real life with real people with honest to goodness REAL feelings you are messing with.
2007-03-09 04:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why restoration something this is obviously no longer properly worth having? This guy sounds like the worst available form of individual and has no enterprise being in a relationship with somebody who cares approximately him. have confidence and appreciate are the only issues that remember in a relationship, with out those, there is not any love. "he's not sturdy at exhibiting the individuals..." is merely an excuse in view which you're too scared to go away him. merely go away HIM, it is going to likely be greater desirable.
2016-12-14 14:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what to do now: try calling him or writing him. if you were flirting with his bro on purpose (or were actually starting to become attracted to him) be honest and say that you're sorry, that it was dumb of you to do and that you really really love him (your boyfriend). if you were just talking to his bro, tell him that you're sorry, but you didn't know that he didn't want you talking to his brother. tell him that it was just an innocent talk and that you never meant to hurt or upset him.
what to do later: if he talks to you again, be EXTREMELY careful not to do anything that would betray his trust (for example, don't stare at other guys, even if you're looking at the pieces of lettuce in their teeth, completely grossed out). don't talk to other guys unless they bring up a subject, and do your best to just answer their questions without looking flirtatious. i say all of these things, not because i want him your boyfriend to control your life, but because he needs to know that you're serious about him. after time, you can slowly start to loosen up again; just remember how long it takes to rebuild trust after it's broken and promise yourself you'll never do something like that to your man ever again. :)
2007-03-09 04:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry that sucks i did the same thing with one of my past relationships with a friend!
now wised up and started to meet someone and there friends before getting in a relationship.
not much you can do TRust is KEY to a good relationship!
2007-03-09 04:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u mucked up
just give him a lil time and space
just let him know u will be around when hes ready to talk
and never forget to show ur still interested in him
2007-03-09 04:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by dawggiestile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke his trust. He's right not to want to talk right now.
I'd write him a letter of apology. If he ever takes you back, don't even think about cheating on him.
2007-03-09 04:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something along those lines happened with me and my baby also. but im not sure how to help you becuase he gave me a second and chance and now were fine. if you really love him, youll be honest about everything, and if he really loves you, then a chance will come. its kind of about communication. tell him how you feel.
2007-03-09 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by dontgivashit_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them are messing with your head neither one of them deserves you, they probably planned the whole thing out from start to finish, how much you wanna guess they even wagered bets...
Careful, and move forward
2007-03-09 04:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by lightwayvez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake own up to it by telling him that, and also tell him it was a mistake,that your the one to blame not brother.
this will help both you and him, even if it means you look for someone else.
2007-03-09 04:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him that you missed up, what you are going to do to repair the damage and apologize for what you did. Then you must accept his decision on what he whats to do.
2007-03-09 04:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋