i was getting divorced i felt lonely my friend from work insist me to go out with this guy he is 20 i'm 33 at the begging i thought what aver it just to have fun. now i'm in love with him and he said he loves me but i feel so guilty. i feel he is so young what sould i do?
2007-03-09 04:21:40 · 14 answers · asked by anderssonliz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love doesn't know age. Look at Demi and Ashton! If you love him, don't think about the age difference and feel guilty. While you're right that he's young - just make sure he finishes his education, if he hasn't, and gets started in a career (this will give him a little more time) before wedding bells start to chime.
2007-03-09 04:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling lonely after being divorced is when a lot of "unwise" relationships develop. You have to give yourself time to be just you before jumping into another relationship. I hope you know that at 33, being involved with a 20 year old is a bad idea. Granted age isn't always a factor and it would be different if he were 33 and you were 46, that would greatly level the playing field. I just think you're asking for more heartache for yourself. Good luck though.
2007-03-09 04:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bluebellringy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a problem with age, I don't think he would have gone out with you! Unless you think he's too young for you...age shouldn't be a matter, BUT before you get too attached, do make sure you know what he wants and what you want....a guy at age 20 is VERY different than a woman at age 33. You might end up wanting more commitment than he's willing to give at such a young age......
2007-03-09 04:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him. The older you get, the less your awful grammar and naivety seem cute. Of course, you only have 7 years before he realizes he's a 27 yr old dating a woman in her 40's, so it's probably best to fall in love quickly with another man.
2007-03-09 04:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go ahead and get your divorce and then let the chips fall where they may, you don't need to be committing adultery and your s/o catch you in the act b/c the courts will eat your brhind up and you'll walk away with nothing.
2007-03-09 04:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is what you need.Take things very slowly.If you guys truly love each other you both will go slow.Take it one step at a time.
2007-03-09 04:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't live as long as women, so date him. If it you are lucky you will both grow old together and die in eachothers arms. Not a bad gig if you ask me.
2007-03-09 04:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Janelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a big age difference but it didnt matter before then why should it matter now. many couples have big age differences
2007-03-09 04:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is a mind over matter thing..if you don't mind it don't matter.
Stop feeling guilty..continue to see this guy.
2007-03-09 04:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel right about the relationship, then it will never work out, why hurt yourself?
2007-03-09 04:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋