I've been with Guy A for almost 2 years now. But after meeting Guy B im not so sure i love Guy A anymore. Guy A lives in another country, divorced with 2 kids and who i have nothing in common with but we have wonderful chemistry and amazing sex when we're together. Guy B is a young budding filmmaker who i find so many things in common with, and loves me so much but isnt quite good in bed. Both of them say they love me, both of them want to be with me. But all my family and friends hate Guy A, and yet i fought all of them and sacrificed so many things for him. Now im not so sure if i want to continue sacrificing everything to be with Guy A. I have feelings for bothof them. What should i do?
2007-03-09 04:27:24 · 3 answers · asked by ira m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are either of these great guys pressurring you for a decision or do they even know of each other's existance in your life? So why do you feel the need to decide? If you feel compelled to decide for the wrong reasons, (guilt, family pressure, etc.) those may not be your priorities. Naturally your family are against Mr. A because he has a history. (baggage?) Of course he's better in the sack, he has a lot more practice. How can you like hamburger after having rib eye? (sorry for the analogy) Maybe because of the friction from everyone concerning A, it made you fight for him because of that. Give yourself a chance, go for the B menu and try to abstain, from sex, as long as possible. By the time you think you'll explode it may be better than you first thought. Remember, practice makes (near) perfect.
2007-03-09 04:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're really not satisfied with either. Why settle for either? Enjoy them both. I see no reason you must make a choice. It's that simple. How do you know that either one of them have chosen YOU exclusively???
2007-03-09 04:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with guy B. he will make you much happier overall. And you cna teahc him how to be better in bed.
2007-03-09 04:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋