Ok so I have really cool friends and they've planned a huge bachelorette party for me (which includes a stripper!) My fiances friends are all married and controlled by their wives (no strippers allowed). They are planning to take my fiance to the bating cages to hit baseballs and to hooters for dinner - thats all. I feel bad for him because he wants a wild party like what Im having. I am completely comfortable in our relationship and want him to have the time of his life. Should i make suggestions to his best man? If so what should I say?
2007-03-09 03:47:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If your fiance wants a wild party, I think you should tell the best man and help plan it. I like the idea to hire the strippers yourself or you could just get like 250 $1 bills and give them to best man the night of the party. They could buy drinks or tip the strippers.
One other idea which would make his jealous and him proud would be to find a bar that has a wet T-shirt contest. Tell the bet man to take the group there and then you can show up and enter the contest. Don't tell the guys, just surprise them when you come on stage. If you talked to the bar manager beforehand, I am sure he would get you in the contest. All your fiance's friends would be jealous, you could be as wild or tame as you wanted, and you might win a $100.
I hope he has fun and you, too.
2007-03-12 11:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the other mans wives are telling there husbands No strippers I would give then a hand. Strippers are a disrespecting and demoralizing aspect to women that 90 percent of the time the woman are on drugs or alcohol just to get on stage to do there act. If you are so unhappy about your husbands bachelor party cancel your stripper and have a joint party and go out clubbing with all the wedding party and close friends? Just a thought you both can have a blast
with your friends when you are both technically single and since both of you will know what the other is doing there will be no future battles about the Bachelor Party or Stag. It is quite common that bachelor parties that have involved a stripper club or a private dancer have ended marriages because the wife feels she cannot trust her husband if something happened before the big day. Alot of guys pressure there friends to get busy with a hooker or a stripper because they are like it is your last night of singlehood?
Think if it wasn't for his married friends and there wives they could be pressuring him into something like this is that what you want?
2007-03-09 04:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance planned his brother's bachelor party a few years ago. They went paintball-ing in the morning, then had a cookout in the afternoon. My fiance had a bus pick them all up and took them to a strip club in ANOTHER STATE (we live in norther MA, near NH, they went to RI). All told, it cost all the guys $70 for the food and DRINKS (man, they were flowing) for the cookout and the bus/strip club entrance fee. Spending money, the guys were on their own for.
For the reason of money alone, it will be hard for you to plan it on your own. Talk to the best man or, if you can, his wife, and just say "I don't want you to be concerned for what I think on his party. I want him to be happy. In fact, I've found some stip clubs/strippers that I would be totally comfortable with." Then give him the information you've found. This way, they can say, "Oh, wifey, the fiancee is okay with it....and SHE found strippers/clubs that were not as bad as what you're thinking it would be." They can blame you, but at least your fiance would have fun!
I'm with you on the "comfortable in our relationship and want him to have the time of his life" comment. I only have one rule for my fiance on his bachelor party....COME HOME ALIVE! I know that he will not do anything he couldn't do while I was there, but I'm afraid he will drink himself to death!! We're getting married on June 2nd so the party will be Memorial Day weekend, which to them means one extra drinking day. And, man, can they drink!
2007-03-09 04:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Just tryin' to help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go ahead and with the help of his Best Man, plan an additional part to the party, one that the other guys have no clue about (therefore cannot truly get in any type of trouble for knowing about it beforehand). Either have the best man take them to a strip club or hire some dancers yourself so he can have a bit of fun.
My fiances friends are all fuddy duddies too, but mainly because of their insecure wives/partners. His bachelor party that he thinks is going to be hum drum is actually going to be one to remember thanks to my own inginuity and his best mans help.
I say spice it up- tell no one but the best man!
2007-03-09 04:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe...you could end your party early enough to join your man at the strip club!!! I know our bars around here close at 2 and the strip clubs close at 4 so after the bars close the man and I are gonna go see strippers together!!!
Oh and your about to get a whole bunch of people that say strippers are nasty and strippers are whores yada yada and you should have more respect for yourself than that etc...screw em!!!! I like strippers too!!!!
2007-03-09 03:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the idea of taking him to a strip club yourself.
also you could do this........ the idea is to have the men go on a scavenger hunt. they can think of all sorts of things to find, ask people to do, drink, ect and have pictures to prove it. the pictures would be for the groom to remember his night so ther would be no evidence for the other wives to know what a wild night they had.
im a event coordinator and did this for a bachelorett party... the girls had a blast
2007-03-09 17:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Taiasha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My fiances friends are all married and controlled by their wives (no strippers allowed)."
It is not control. It is common sense. A married man is not a single man who can allow half to naked females other than his own wife, to grind up, dance and entertain him.
If you would not like your man watching and eyeing other females lusting over them and actually enjoying them, then don't try to put down wives who demand respect to their marriage and themselves!
That is just so gross how people go into marriage with such stupidity about one another.
2007-03-09 06:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ya know.... my husbands friends have all moved away. When we got married we ended up going out with my girls and my husband to a strip club. It was alot of fun. I even learned some things from them and we both had a GREAT time. If you are open for it... I HIGHLY suggest it. We even go there together with friends once in a while for fun. Good luck
2007-03-09 03:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be like so many women who get blasted out their minds and mess around with the stripper. Your friends WILL egg you on to do it. Be good.
2007-03-12 03:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you take him out for a "private" bachelor party. take him to a strip club get completely blitzed with him and spend the night at a kinky hotel. you can do the whole romance thing on the honeymoon, make this as trshy & tacky as you can.
have fun
2007-03-09 03:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋